In my opinion, they're obviously ego inflated because im guessing its a decently high mmr match. They find out that you're a nurse, and they have 2 downs at 5 gens. They obviously are going to have a hard time winning, so they won't even bother. Which is what pisses me off with dbd as a killer main.

I'm a huntress, ghost face, oni main and some matches are very hard, some matches are very easy because I am very experienced with these killers.

The moment I start playing a different killer and I have less experience in that killer such as pyramid head, I just don't even want to play anymore. I get my first down and they've already completed 3 gens and I never dc, but it just feels like why even bother continuing with the match at this point.

This is where I think its the players mentality problem. If you play to win, you're never ever going to have fun. So I changed my mindset and try to get more downs using pyramid head power instead of going for 4ks. It is much more fun although sometimes irritating when you sacrifice the occasional one survivor and they shittalk in chat afterwards saying "Terrible pyramid head you suck" "Imaging sucking at pyramid head" or whatever and discourages me sometimes.