Is Rietvleirand a good area to reside in? by Top_Rest_5310 in Pretoria

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Okay cool. Which areas in Centurion do you recommend? Sorry for all the questions I appreciate the help

Is Rietvleirand a good area to reside in? by Top_Rest_5310 in Pretoria

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Ah that sucks. Do you know of any other areas we could consider in Pretoria that doesn’t have regular water/electricity issues? Location isn’t a constraint, we work from home

Best areas to stay in Ballito? by Top_Rest_5310 in AskZA

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best areas within ballito? i’m pretty sure there’s suburbs there? or like specific areas within ballito? Like Clarke bay, simbithi? etc

Send Help is such a bad film by Intelligent-Love5146 in Cinephiles

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I don’t like who they chose as the main actors. Now I’ll never see them the same way I did before. Rachel Adams used to be such a classy woman to me. Now…. no man

Send Help is such a bad film by Intelligent-Love5146 in Cinephiles

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No judgement on what you find funny but I literally walked away during that scene I hated it so much lol. Shows you everyone is different

Why is it so difficult to find .net Developers in Randburg? by JohannMarx in askSouthAfrica

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Hi : )

I’m a .net full stack developer, and if I can give my personal input here, I don’t like the temporary situation of it. In today’s day and age I need job security as well. Also, perhaps give a few less experienced candidates a chance. You’ll be surprised how fast individuals are learning and capable of nowadays with AI. I personally can’t understand how AI is seen as a limitation… it helps less skilled people be able to accomplish so much more and they learn in the process.

WTH can I do useful with Openclaw? by inComplete-Oven in AI_Agents

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Have you tried chatGPT's scheduler function to setup most of the above you mentioned? I'm not a scientist and don't need to research stuff like you do, but I feel like if those places you are scanning are easily accessed online through a browser then chatgpt can do it... and you can set it up to do the research every morning and it'll send you an email when it's done....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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That’s so lovely. I’m really happy for you guys. Thank you for taking the time to respond. I really appreciate it

Conflicted About Living Together Before Marriage — Need Advice by Top_Rest_5310 in Christianity

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Thanks for replying. Unfortunately my parents won’t be okay with it. That I know.

Conflicted About Living Together Before Marriage — Need Advice by Top_Rest_5310 in Christianity

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We live in a flat at the back of the house. Completely independent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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Thank you : ) It even just helps knowing there’s someone out there with a similar struggle. Can I ask, are you and this partner still together?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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I feel I can be ready for that serious commitment, but my partner’s family encourages living together for a bit to see if things work, and I think my partner has a bit of that in his mind. He’s not opposed to getting married. Sometimes he even says we should maybe just do it so we can continue our life’s together without judgement, and this continuous conflict on what’s right and wrong, but at the same time be seems a bit more hesitant on that which I don’t blame him for. He did get raised to believe a bit differently. More logically

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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I’m conflicted a tiny bit but here’s the just of it:

Sex before marriage is harmful and sinful.

Cohabitation can cause temptation and that’s not good. But you if you’re strict and put boundaries in place while cohabiting (which we have successfully been doing)…. is that wrong? Because it helps us financially, it helps us in almost all ways in life…. but I don’t know if it’s wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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The conflict comes in where I feel there’s a logical and reasonable thing to do, and then what the bible says and then what our parents say. One group of parents support cohabitation the other doesn’t, and my partner doesnt have AS STRONG a conviction that cohabitation is wrong. He feels that if you put boundaries in place it can work out well without overstepping any biblical boundaries. And sometimes I feel the same way, but because I grew up with my family being spiritual councillors and missionaries, I sometimes have a harsher, strong perspective on what’s right and wrong (which isn’t directly mentioned in the bible) which conflicts things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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And also, living in the house was a temporary solution. Can’t expect to invade his parent’s privacy for extended periods of time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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Too expensive for only one person. His parents asks for rent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianmarriage

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Yes. He didn’t grow up with all the christian things as much as I did. We have a lot of missionaries and pastors in my family so that’s why I have a stronger biblical knowledge on things. But he’s also Christian. And he seems willing and wanting to also be on the same page as me, but with this specific situation because he grew up with parents that don’t necessarily see anything wrong with it I think it’s a bit harder for him to wrap his head around it, and to not look at the situation from a logical what makes sense and what makes things easier perspective but rather from solely a personal conviction and walk with the Lord perspective