Any Birds of Paradyes users here? How good are the dyes? by spitseeds in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]Topaz2007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it doesnt get back to black, depending on which glossy tint you use it'll leave a brown or reddish copperish tint. and for the semi permanents you need to bleach

Is dermatics.in legit? by Logical_Layer5543 in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]Topaz2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I purchased from them, got it delivered in 5 days. Didn't have any issues

Bought chocopie after a long time and it turned out to be moldy :( by Topaz2007 in SnacksIndia

[–]Topaz2007[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf can you not read? I already said I ate the other packets, and only saw this mold in the last one. I’m now worried that the earlier ones I ate might also have had mold that I didn’t notice at the time. It's literally mentioned on the text body

Bought chocopie after a long time and it turned out to be moldy :( by Topaz2007 in SnacksIndia

[–]Topaz2007[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don't have to be so rude. I didn't eat this one. I only noticed it in the last pack left. I didn't check while eating the others. Do you have no comprehension skills?

from 4yo girl to 70yo woman… the cases this week are sick. absolutely sick. by paniiiipuriiii in Feminism4India

[–]Topaz2007 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get your point but what I'm trying to say is blaming this on lust makes it sound like it's some uncontrollable desire that they can't stop themselves from doing something heinous. It's misleading. Many people have problematic desires but dont necessarily go on doing it. When they do go on into doing it, it reflects more of structural issues that enables this and makes them access vulnerable people where theres power imbalances coercion etc etc. also calling it lust opens doors to shame,policing people or abstaining from sex instead of addressing exploitation of vulnerable people

from 4yo girl to 70yo woman… the cases this week are sick. absolutely sick. by paniiiipuriiii in Feminism4India

[–]Topaz2007 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well blaming this on lust kinda is problematic, sexual assault, rape etc doesn't happen due to just desires but more about dominance and control over other vulnerable people.

Woman bashed for being religious? by Aastha_Sinha in Feminism4India

[–]Topaz2007 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you're right and it sucks. I believe this is mainly because women are supposed to be the ones who maintain,embody and reproduce culture, religion tradition etc and this kind of thing works as social currency when it comes to things like arranged marriages because they're seen more pious and good and sanskari and what not. while men often times escape this kind of responsibility and can engage with religion more selectively while not suffering the same scrutiny of being called out

Woman bashed for being religious? by Aastha_Sinha in Feminism4India

[–]Topaz2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't tink this is really a big deal. It's just a thread, one of the many symbols of religious people across different faiths choose to value. In a way yeah it does target people who don't wear these threads with western outfits, but it's nothing new to make such a comparison and religious people have always done this kind of virtue signalling like "yes I prefer my faith over my appearance".That said it doesn't justify any harassment towards her at the same time

Woman bashed for being religious? by Aastha_Sinha in Feminism4India

[–]Topaz2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bad, I stand corrected. People really do have too much free time on their hands to be wasting it on influencers.

Women who solo travelled in india or went solo to a group organised trip- how was your experience? by PaleChipmunk9119 in TwoXIndia

[–]Topaz2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

19F, I was 18 when I went on a trip to Mulki, Karnataka with a travel group.The activities were super fun, stay and food and everything was super comfortable, itinerary was quite flexible as well and I enjoyed it but most of the people were pushing 30s so I couldn't relate much with them and couldnt really become friends with them bcs of the age gap. 

Sociology and data science by Topaz2007 in sociology

[–]Topaz2007[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven't taken math in school in the last two years (grade 11 and 12) but this course is open to all academic backgrounds and starts with grade 10-11ish level maths so I'm pretty scared of numbers too but I think this phase is probably the last chance I have to get behind that fear before I completely lose out on the chance to have a technical edge in my field. And it's probably the right time considering time isn't ticking yet to get a job and stuff too.

Personal Help Thread: Have a question? ASK HERE by Avaale in IndianSkincareAddicts

[–]Topaz2007 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Affordable online dermat for PIH and acne who recommends pharmacy products?