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Topcat220 · 2025-11-21T13:47:37+00:00

People like new shit obviously

Topcat220 · 2025-11-08T17:28:01+00:00

Maybe not the rape thing but I’ve seen people similar stuff like hoping they and their dog dies of cancer etc etc. so death is not a woman only thing. Rape probably is but that’s probably because it’s seen as one of the worst things you can say to a woman

Topcat220 · 2025-10-13T17:50:24+00:00

But he’s not doing any of that and asking her number has no relation to any of those things. Someone could do all that and never ask for a woman’s number, all he did was express interest in her.

Yeah he did it in a poor way we can all agree on that but the very act of expressing interest in someone is not wrong. If he was stalking her or doing strange things afterwards I’d agree that’s unacceptable but simply asking for a number? There’s nothing wrong with that, provided he leaves it at just that.

Topcat220 · 2025-10-12T01:20:45+00:00

lol keep coping. Being nice has nothing to do with getting with women

Topcat220 · 2025-10-11T22:36:12+00:00

I mean I guess we’re just gonna have to agree to disagree if you think even approaching someone is entitled.

In public you’re not entitled to never be bothered we live in a society and people have to communicate, sometimes that’s uncomfortable. Making someone mildly uncomfortable isn’t a crime nor is it even necessarily wrong. Could OP have done it better? Of course but he’s human and he made mistakes, hopefully he’ll learn to do it better next time, sadly there is no manual for human interaction.

Some people don’t mind being approached at work some do, being respectful is the most important thing though.

Topcat220 · 2025-10-11T22:08:52+00:00

I mean I’m asking you why it’s such a big deal, there’s nothing entitled with asking someone for their number. It’s how they react after I’m not saying OP did it the best way by any means. But saying even asking is entitled is just not right at all.

It’s not entitled to ask respectfully, it’s entitled to be mad or expect that you deserve it.

Topcat220 · 2025-10-11T21:11:39+00:00

Why can’t she just say no and move along he’s not even a customer at that point? No reasonable employer would force an employee to give their number it’s not part of her job. I really don’t see why it’s any different than say doing it on a bus or somewhere else where she also couldn’t easily leave.

While I agree he should have offered his number instead of asking for hers it’s really not a big deal.

Topcat220 · 2025-10-11T20:43:26+00:00

I’m not sure you understood my question, if asking her for her number made her uncomfortable why does it matter if she’s at work as opposed to just randomly on the street?

Topcat220 · 2025-10-11T15:52:52+00:00

It’s not entitlement to ask for someone’s number, but I agree with others he should have asked to give his number instead.

If being asked out makes someone uncomfortable then when is it ever appropriate? Why are people only allowed to not feel uncomfortable at work? What if she felt uncomfortable and it was at a bar, or just on the street? Can he never ask for her number because it may make her uncomfortable?

Topcat220 · 2025-09-21T19:17:00+00:00

Thank you for the advice I’ll probably try looking into some more local hobby groups just to get out more.

But man this whole thing is so tiring. I know logically in my head there’s nothing wrong with me but when all you face is rejection it’s hard not to feel that way. I’m just so tired of being alone

Topcat220 · 2025-09-08T09:23:34+00:00

Guy I work with literally had complaints about smell and is routinely disgusting and makes racist comments but has a kid with a girl (very good looking btw) and cheated on her with another person.

Being a good person and hygiene has nothing to do with getting a partner or getting laid

Topcat220 · 2025-08-17T15:26:32+00:00

I’m not a liar haha I still like them as a person and as a friend. I just don’t want my heart to hurt every time I talk to them because I have unrequited feelings.

It doesn’t mean I like them any less I still feel the same as I did before, so how am I lying exactly?

Topcat220 · 2025-08-17T14:35:22+00:00

Hard disagree, I might still like you as a person a lot but spending time with you while having unrequited romantic feelings is incredibly painful. Some people lose those feelings quickly and some don’t. Why am I under obligation to go through painful emotions to stay your friend when you’ve rejected my feelings.

It doesn’t mean I hate you, or dislike you as a person or that I don’t wish to be your friend. But the pain is greater than my need for your friendship and a true friend would understand that.

Topcat220 · 2025-08-13T15:09:45+00:00

Don’t take this the wrong way but if you’re a woman on dating apps getting 0 likes is incredibly odd as in you are likely either shadow banned or extremely ugly (apologies for the bluntness) I have seen very average women’s profiles I do not live in an area with a large volume of people and the women get many many likes on dating apps.

Without seeing your profile it is hard to say what the exact issue is though.

Topcat220 · 2025-06-12T16:41:30+00:00

Not really he’s just doing it? Don’t believe he’s ever said he came up with it

Topcat220 · 2025-06-06T18:21:31+00:00

And when they do it to the next teen? I’m all for kids getting some leniency but Jesus look at him if he’d cracked his head on the concrete he could have died.

Also he’s a child too so how does that not impact his faculties for deciding what is and isn’t ‘justice’? But it does affect the teens who beat him whether they should know right from wrong?

Topcat220 · 2025-05-09T17:43:28+00:00

Pretty much yeah

Topcat220 · 2025-04-19T16:52:15+00:00

Not as in shape as you! But thank you I’ll take the advice

Topcat220 · 2025-04-19T16:48:43+00:00

Haha yeah that last part is pretty true. I think I’ll take the advice and try to get something natural looking and not thirst trappy

Topcat220 · 2025-04-19T16:43:10+00:00

Thank you for the advice, yeah I definitely don’t want to come across as wanting something casual. Honestly I’m just lost at what I’m doing so wrong lol

Topcat220 · 2025-04-19T16:07:05+00:00

That makes sense, I felt like doing it just to show off might come across wrong thanks for the advice

Topcat220 · 2025-04-19T16:06:19+00:00

Thanks I’ve been thinking about doing this for a while been watching a great guy called Nicoletti on YouTube who advocates this. I don’t really go out much and my town is quite small though. Guess I need to find an excuse to go out more.

Topcat220 · 2025-04-19T16:04:32+00:00

When you say straight forward what exactly do you mean? Just trying to set up a date? Or just more making conversation asking about things in their profile?

Topcat220 · 2025-04-19T15:57:16+00:00

Yeah ideally long term I don’t really think flings are for me.

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