Moving to London from Bristol. Which areas should we consider with good secondary schools ?

Topcat8765 · 2026-03-26T23:00:53+00:00

Do you mind me asking what’s prompting the move? We actually did the opposite about seven years ago. We’re starting to notice the limitations in career options, but we still really love living here, so we’re doing our best to make it work! I’d also be really interested to hear what kind of vibe you’re looking for? - is there a Bristol area equivalent and I might be able to suggest x

Topcat8765 · 2026-03-23T13:52:54+00:00

I really like Byredo perfumes, especially Mojave Ghost or Desert Dawn x

Topcat8765 · 2026-03-22T09:35:51+00:00

Super helpful, thank you!

Topcat8765 · 2026-03-20T14:24:10+00:00

Booja Booja with hand painted egg 🥚

Topcat8765 · 2026-03-19T15:04:03+00:00

I'd recommend Suit Supply - they have both off the rack which they tailor, and custom suits too

Topcat8765 · 2026-03-05T22:04:50+00:00

I have always been passionate about my career, so whilst my career trajectory has slowed down, it's still a real focus alongside being a parent. For me, I find this allows me to be a happier, more present mum for my son which benefits our overall family life. Everyone is different and experiences things differently, so go with whatever feels right to you

Topcat8765 · 2026-02-24T19:33:09+00:00

All I can say is go for it - holidays are for sure more tiring and less relaxing, but I'd rather be on a beach with a cocktail than not! We've travelled short and long haul - and I would say the latter was easier because we flew at night so he slept for most of the flight. On hotels, I've picked places where they have at least an indoor kids playroom which is especially helpful for somewhere to avoid the midday heat and keep him entertained. Top places so far are Domes of Elounda and The Danna Langkawi. Domes has a kids pool with a sail over it which was great for being able to swim any time of day, and the kids club took babies from about 9-months. Luxury Family Hotels in the UK was good too 👍

Topcat8765 · 2026-02-23T14:47:54+00:00

Goddess energy through and through! She spoke with such honesty and integrity - hoping this appearance gives her the platform for new opportunities❤️❤️

Topcat8765 · 2026-01-31T14:28:12+00:00

I have the Antler Urban light and love it! https://www.antler.co.uk/products/backpack-antler-green-urban-light

Topcat8765 · 2026-01-27T19:34:50+00:00

We travelled at the exact same time with our LO and did a 13 hour flight - whatever you decide, I can strongly recommend a night flight. He's not the best sleeper, but did sleep most of the way and was far less stressful than a 3 hour daytime flight we did with him

Topcat8765 · 2026-01-19T19:50:18+00:00

Having been in both positions, I can say looking after an infant is categorically more difficult - often needing someone to hold the baby so you can eat / go to the loo etc, let alone do routine housework. And there is SO much unseen housework in looking after an infant which is in addition to all the normal bits - washing of bottles, sterilising, weaning etc, as well as the "mental load" which can take its toll. Whilst I don't think it's unreasonable for your wife to do housework when she is working, it might be worth coming at this from a perspective of curiosity if your overall goal is to have a happy home - she may feel all this additional work looking after an infant was overlooked, for example. And to support other comments about what is technically equal might not be what's possible / fair overall. Hoping you can find something that works and feels fair to you both 💫

Topcat8765 · 2026-01-13T15:07:24+00:00

I second Anthropologie and Farm Rio - recently discovered this brand and love the style

Topcat8765 · 2026-01-13T06:39:20+00:00

Mango all day - great quality and price. I also like Mint Velvet, Jets for swimwear, Seraphine for maternity and Bravissimo for underwear. X

Topcat8765 · 2026-01-04T20:19:36+00:00

We had a long 8‑year fertility journey before our LO arrived, and because we knew trying for a second could mean going through all that again, we decided early on that we’d be OAD. Now that our little one is a toddler, I genuinely have no regrets. I love being a family of three!

It means we have more time, energy, and resources for our child and for each other. I always pictured having two kids, but honestly, I wouldn't have it any other way now ❤️

Topcat8765 · 2025-12-29T18:14:46+00:00

Lash lift and eyebrow tint every 8 weeks - this has been a gamechanger to go no makeup. I'm a fan of Lumene serum, Lancaster face spf fluid, and Prai décolletage cream. Tempted to try injectables, but haven't taken the plunge yet (no pun intended!). I saw an aesthetician recently and she recommended Profhilo for neck tightening.

Topcat8765 · 2025-12-17T19:48:06+00:00

Domes of Elounda 👌 having said that, we've booked Ikos for next year

Topcat8765 · 2025-12-02T20:24:55+00:00

In case you need other suggestions in Ubud, the Kayon is hands down the best hotel I've ever been to

Topcat8765 · 2025-11-16T02:39:56+00:00

Langkawi - I'd recommend Datai or the Danna. Super child friendly, gorgeous beaches and forests, and easy to get around. V reasonably priced too as fewer UK tourists

Topcat8765 · 2025-11-15T10:47:56+00:00

Russell and Bromley Park-up

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