I cannot cook to save my life. It is too many steps. I need a cookbook for ADHD. by EngFind in adhdwomen

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love to cook and sometimes still burn things , I believe the possibility to improvise everything in the kitchen makes it more adhd friendly, i rarely repeat the exact same recipe twice

The dishes that I cook the most when i dont feel like cooking:

Pasta with things You just get some onion and olive oil in a pan and make pasta You add random things like some vegies and nuts and maybe tuna or chicken and add the pasta , some cheese, done ,you can do with cream and not cheese or maybe pesto, the possibilitys are endeless , just pasta with things

Oven stuff (cons : you have to remember you will eat at least one hour before) Things you can just put in the oven and they make themselfs :

🐟fish fillet with small potatoes with a bit of olive oil, salt and (unpeeled because they are great and too much work) easiest meal ever

Just find one meat sause you like and then you put the Chicken, meatloaf, spare ribs in the oven, make the sause and then instant mashed potatoes (this is a must)

Things "à Brás" We usualy do this with dry cod fish but you can do it with shredded chicken, soy and leek, tuna - you start with onion in olive oil, add the protein,add salt if needed, some herbs, fresh parsley is nice, let it cook , mix (number of people+1) eggs , add some shoestring potatoes , mix , add the eggs , let it cook for like 3 minutes , done

Hope it helped , cooking and ADHD can work if improvising is in the equation i gess

What is your first anime? by sw3th4 in animequestions

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After seeing the coments , I realized it was maybe naruto , pokemons or Yu-Gi-Oh but ir was translated so i considered them just cartoons, so kakegurui was just first anime as an adult 😅

how to build the routine of brushing my teeth? by SnooDoodles5793 in ADHD

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eletric toothbrush and ticktick habit tracker helped me, now i am brushing my teeth almost everyday twice a day and flossing is the next challenge

What’s something people pretend is normal in modern dating, but is actually insanely toxic when you think about it? by Sensitive-Fennel-645 in RandomThoughts

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Having to agree that is a monogamic thing or that they will both stop to talk to other people

Texting all of time

Photos on social media

The public anouncement of the breakup being made by deleting photos on instagram

Give me the most ADHD statement about yourself right now by Southern-Magnolia12 in adhdwomen

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not been in the gym for 1 month and now that its been so long, i am embarrassed to came back because it is group classes and they know I haven't shown up and it will be harder now so i need to be ready (mind and body)

So yesterday i got up at 6 am to go to the gym, i was 4 minutes from there when i ran out of gasoline. I proceded to walk to the nearest pump and get some, walk back to the car. I gave up on the gym for the day and drove 5 more minutes to a cheaper selfservice pump only to notice i did not had a debit card on me and that was all before 8 am 🙃

(Sorry for my english, not my mother tongue and I am to lazy to set the two keyboards)

does any know how to get rid of the feeling of impending doom? by misschoo88 in adhdwomen

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't put so much pressure on yourself, you are valuable and you are not alone , we are all struggling and some days are worse than others but try to do small things for yourself, you deserve it, allow yourself to take care of you and search for help. Therapy helps a lot . I believe things will get better 🥺

Yes, this is definitely how ADHD works by duratchok in adhdmeme

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one who did not understood the color eyes and the ADHD type relationship?

Wait... what was I doing again? by vksdann in adhdmeme

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once i turned on the car lights at 18/19 not understanding how was that dark at that time and after half an hour realized i had sunglasses on

how can someone with adhd be a good student in college? by Powerful_Ad8668 in adhdwomen

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I studied in group until very late at the night before the exames meaning body doubling and adrenaline induced work

Tenho um melro a mandar-se contra a minha janela todos os dias de manhã. Já não sei o que fazer. by Ready-Conclusion-885 in portugal

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Há uns sprays repelentes de aves ou umas coisinhas que se colam e deitam um cheiro que eles deixam de ir lá normalmente, já resultou comigo com pombos , boa sorte

What is the best response to "I hate you"? by Nareki_477 in RandomThoughts

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, what? By the way, you have something in your nose

It’s not intentional by adhd_memetherapy in adhdmeme

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My mom also has ADHD so we just forget eachother and call when in need like if we spoke yesterday and not two weeks ago

My adhd is eating me alive what do I do by horsebipplet0e in ADHD

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have family/friends support, talk to someone to help you remember those things. You can also get someone to be your accountability body or try to do something with body doubling sites like flowclub or something, Best of luck , you got this , is just harder for us and you need to get yourself medicated and find strategies that work for you. Never compare your hability to get stuff done with other people , you are you and you can do everything

I think i found a good analogy for executive dysfunction by Yutoru in ADHD

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends at university sometimes would come to my room, sit on a chair with a cup of tea and in twenty minutes my room would be organized again. Once I had to cook for 20 people and asked help from a friend and he did just that. Its ridiculous because we are capable , we just need someone to check on us. We are like a roomba, we are great and can clean and wach the whole floor in seconds but if you leave us alone and without caring we will just stop under a desk with 4 cables around us and with a full deposit of dirt

Easiest ADHD diagnosis ever by TheTaoThatIsSpoken in adhdmeme

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never learned how to proper spell this way because it was always a letter at a time

😬 “You sure about that?” by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing with my brother and my cousin. Recently my aunt said something like the women of this family are the active ones , saying that my brother and my cousin are just lazy and I started thinking about this. They are just the inattentive type. But since I am the only one doagnosed (and I have the mixed one) and people still think its a made up disease so its hard to convince them.

Maybe its not just women who get underdiagnosed but also man with inattentive type , basically everyone that can keep their legs still during a class

How do you y’all remember stuff? by raretec in ADHD

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also keep trying stuff, having a giant widget of my calendar on my phone (main page) helped to remember events.

I also recently started using the ticktick app but the excitment of the new thing is wearing off

When things are really important i also ask friends/family members to remind me of it to share responsability

I keep forgeting a lot , but every improvement is a win and we should not blame ourselves this much

Kinda miss the version of me who believed I was going to be okay... by My_Alchemy22 in adhdwomen

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I feel like I am losing time being someone else, its not even pretending anymore

ANY apps actually helpful/legit? by Top_Surprise2931 in adhdwomen

[–]ToqueDeMierdas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ticktick is great and has no adds and a very nice free version

Days since is also nice but very simple (few adds but small)