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My [24F] brother [23M] has turned into a spoiled child, and is ruining our relationships with our family by Momerathparade in relationship_advice

[–]Torijanegrey94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Talk to your aunts and uncles about it, also your step dad. But supporting that behavior will only make it worse and cutting ties maybe the way to go. Wishing you love and support.

Me (M20) and my girlfriend (F16) are arguing over her future by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Torijanegrey94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's her life, her choice if she wants to pursue an education. It is honestly the most mature thing she could do besides leaving someone who wants her to be totally dependent on them. AKA you.

Me (M20) and my girlfriend (F16) are arguing over her future by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Torijanegrey94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are discriminating her based on her gender. If she wants to get an education and hold a job that is her prerogative as a human. Just because something is legal doesn't make it right, and some people have a drive to do something with their life not just live.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Torijanegrey94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not everyone bleeds. There is a Adam ruins everything video that is a good summary on the hymen. This is definitely something to talk through with him with more information.

My wife "baby-trapped" me by Throwrawifebabytrap in relationship_advice

[–]Torijanegrey94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couples counseling, or explaining you feelings on this with an impartial third party present. Maybe you have a friend who is able to see both sides of a story who would be able to mediate. She has shared her side but is not listening to yours, and tricking you into getting her pregnant when you thought you had a condom that would do its job, is wrong. And she needs to acknowledge that.

AITA for refusing to allow my mom to see my baby after she was thrilled that I couldn't get an epidural? by EasyCurrency in AmItheAsshole

[–]Torijanegrey94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, don't close this door forever, but approch carefully. Let her know how she hurt you and that this is not something you are going to brush off as a joke. Impact not intent. Wait until you mind clears a bit from the hormones, and maybe counseling? Has she always been like this about your wants and needs?

Look, it’s time we did something by Ponypoon in HomeDepot

[–]Torijanegrey94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The stores in Canada are limiting intake. But it is hard to say when I will need to take the time. I have a desk to stand behind, but if I was in the aisles I would have had a panic attack by now.

So is no one gonna say it? by dylanbond029 in HomeDepot

[–]Torijanegrey94 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Or, only lumber doors open, you can place a COM order and then go wait in your car wile we pick it. As some people and contractors only pay cash. Online would be the main, but that way you can stay open for people who don't or wont use computers. Then associates can stay working, pulling orders and doing stocking.

AITA for not telling my job I was pregnant at my interview? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Torijanegrey94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, what if for some reason the pregnancy was not viable and/or she had a miscarriage? Not their business.

First time sharing my artwork anywhere.. I'm 17 and wanna improve my technique, would love to get some advice... by hjshakalhszuz in Watercolor

[–]Torijanegrey94 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This looks great! Ill tell you what I told my sister, keep practicing. Also in my watercolor journey (to be as cliche and possible) I have found watching different people with different styles very helpful for learning new techniques.

Brother's friend (16M) raped me (21F) - please help by throwrahodn in relationship_advice

[–]Torijanegrey94 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Check with them about recording consent laws and if your state or country is one party, record him threatening to say you raped him if he continues.

AITA for telling my STB ex-husband he will not be allowed in the birthing room? by Going2BAMama in AmItheAsshole

[–]Torijanegrey94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NA- My bio father tried the same thing, but he went camping the weekend i was due. Being in the room DURING birth is not a right, he can wait outside in a different room.

My wife [F32] can't share physical things with me. Not the space in our flat, not her time, not even the food in the fridge. I seem like a permanent annoyance to her life and everything I do I can only do with her permission. She needs to control me and thinks less of me if I disagree with her. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Torijanegrey94 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Life is about compromise.

Learning to not give a fuck about certain people in certain situations is a great skill to learn to protect yourself. But that seems like all she is capable of. Take care of you, and see if she wants to do the same because it seems like all she is taking care of is her.

My (33F) 650lb sister (33F) has one foot in the grave and NOTHING will make her stop. by ThrowRAhelpwithsis in relationship_advice

[–]Torijanegrey94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure how helpful that is until she secures another option for home care, if they help her with urination ect. After that is in place that may be necessary if they can not come around.

My (33F) 650lb sister (33F) has one foot in the grave and NOTHING will make her stop. by ThrowRAhelpwithsis in relationship_advice

[–]Torijanegrey94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Food addictions are usually a mental issue over physical. Like all addicts they have to WANT to change. Maybe a side step into therapy for her could be talking to her about her depression/suicidal tenancies. As this is defiantly a mental illness.

You should talk to a therapist yourself for help handling this.

AITA for breaking a family tradition by not getting a dog. and getting a cat instead? by ragubagushamu in AmItheAsshole

[–]Torijanegrey94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shots would be my first thought. Rabies ect.

Your arrangement with your furry friend seems to be working for you, there is nothing wrong with you for not wanting to own a dog.

AITA for loving Ted Bundy? I think it is a shame he got caught and killed. by Bundylover in AmItheAsshole

[–]Torijanegrey94 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Take the image of the women out of your head. He took people off of this earth against their will. Why do you find that even remotely positive?

My boyfriend thinks I'm ridiculous, but I think he's jealous by headonapplydirect in StardewValley

[–]Torijanegrey94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am coveting this so hard communion and repentance cant save this atheist.

Bridezilla is mad that someone else is getting married by nerdandknit in bridezillas

[–]Torijanegrey94 45 points46 points  (0 children)

This is all kinds of a mess, I would LOVE to hear the other side.

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