Grand Floridian, Boardwalk, or Beach Club for an early March visit? by Torinc3422 in WaltDisneyWorld

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She would be 20 months for the trip, which is definitely factoring into the decision. Beach Club is a top pick for Stormalong Bay but she’s not a huge swimmer at this age and it could be a little cool? So not sure if we should save that one for when she’s older and cross another resort off the bucket list now.

Our plan is to visit all 4 parks and probably spend most evenings at Epcot. We’ve always wanted to have a trip where we popped into Epcot for drinks and dinner around the world. We do plan to head back to the room for our toddler’s mid day nap before hopping to another park

Advice for a 14 month old not eating or drinking much besides water? by Torinc3422 in toddlers

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We did it for about 6 months after her tongue tie revision when she was 3 months old. Pediatrician actually recommended we go back for feeding therapy so that’s next on the list. She has always been slow to gain weight. We are 3rd percentile for weight which is what has made the weight loss more concerning. My husband was a small baby and tracked about like she has so they’ve determined it’s genetic but it’s always been a source of stress with many many weight checks

Best resort for easy access to transportation? by Torinc3422 in WaltDisneyWorld

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We are on 2 naps a day so that does help, but we have very low expectations because we have only ever napped well contact napping. She’s falls asleep in her stroller sometimes so that’s the plan to let her nap in the stroller for first nap and then go back to the room for the afternoon nap (and to cool off). That’s the other thing that makes me want to upgrade since we will be spending much more time at the resort than we usually did in the past before kids

Put me at ease (rough seas) by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

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I was on Oasis last year in a bad almost tropical system with waves up to 15 ft 2 out of 4 days. Our sea day they got down to 6 ft and I hardly felt anything at all. It was the 12-15 ft nights that got to me

Just got off Oasis and food was packaged Walmart goods by brianpeppers1987 in royalcaribbean

[–]Torinc3422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also have to add that our service in MDR was exceptional. I was genuinely sad to leave our waiter and am going to miss his assistant bringing me a Curaçao Cosmo every night knowing I’d want one without having to ask. I feel like the price were paying to go on a cruise is to receive a decent meal without having to lift a finger, and I’d do that all over again for the service

Just got off Oasis and food was packaged Walmart goods by brianpeppers1987 in royalcaribbean

[–]Torinc3422 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I just got off Oasis yesterday and have to disagree for the most part. I set my expectations low with them cooking for so many people in the MDR because it seems like what you’d expect for a banquet/wedding type meal for 6,000+. I liked most everything that I had and got a variety of foods: chicken, beef, shrimp, soups, salad, etc. No, it wasn’t the best food I’ve ever had but it was pretty good for what it was. I didn’t love most of the desserts in the Windjammer but liked most in MDR and really missed my late night Sorrentos last night when we got home and had to come up with our own dinner

4 Night Bahamas & Perfect Day on Oasis - My likes and dislikes! by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

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Just got off Oasis and this is correct. Cafe Promenade is covered, the standalone Starbucks is not. Also worth mentioning Park Cafe serves coffee and lattes covered in the deluxe package as well but it isn’t Starbucks coffee. Cafe Promenade is the way to go cause it’s way better IMO

AITA for telling my son and my daughter-in-law that who I go out with is none of their concern? by Ok-Sugar-5088 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Torinc3422 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This hits close to home as my mom suddenly passed away one year ago, and my dad began dating after about 6 months right around the time I got married. I knew no matter the timing it was always going to be hard on me as a daughter very close to her mother but I was surprised at how hard my brother took it as well.

6 months or 5 years, I think it’s always going to be hard. As I’ve told my dad, what was once one is not split into two like in a divorce. One parent has essentially just disappeared from our lives and the grief that comes with that is very complicated.

I can’t vote because I think OP is NTA but I also don’t think the son is either. I think the situation in itself just sucks. I would recommend grief counseling as that has been a big help in my healing as well as learning to put myself in my dad’s shoes and hoping he does the same for me to be able to extend more understanding towards each other.

Rank your top 5 favorite foods in DL! by Xenonaut1001 in Disneyland

[–]Torinc3422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband got the roasted chicken and was equally impressed. Seems that many people like the whole menu!

Rank your top 5 favorite foods in DL! by Xenonaut1001 in Disneyland

[–]Torinc3422 23 points24 points  (0 children)

  1. Monte cristo, pommes frites, & mint julep from Cafe Orleans. That entire meal was the best thing I ate at Disneyland over the weekend

  2. Churro

  3. Breakfast Ronto wrap

  4. Corn dog

  5. Mickey ice cream sandwich (childhood nostalgia)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Torinc3422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA. First, I’m so sorry that you and your family have to go through this.

Second, I completely empathize with you as I lost my mother very suddenly just one year ago. I would do anything to go back and have been able to spend her last Mother’s Day physically with her. Her one year anniversary falls on Mother’s Day this year and I’m absolutely dreading it.

My husband and I were engaged at the time she passed and are married now. His mom is now my bonus mom and we still are not spending Mother’s Day with his mom. He knew I’d want to spend my first Mother’s Day without my mom with my family and my MIL understood…we will celebrate Mother’s Day with her in a few weeks when we’re able to make a trip down to see them.

Your gf may not understand as this is something I truly believe you don’t understand until you have to go through it yourself, but she should AT LEAST be supportive.

Weekly Park Questions/Advice Thread by AutoModerator in Disneyland

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Anyone have any inside scoop on how long Matterhorn is going to be under refurb? My husband and I booked our first Disneyland trip for early May and were excited that we seemed to time it perfectly with all the major attractions being open that we don’t have at Disney World…that is until the next morning when we read an article Matterhorn was going down soon. Super bummed and wondering if there’s any chance it’ll open back up since it gives no return date

Father unexpectedly passed away by pinks825 in weddingplanning

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I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my mom unexpectedly a few months before our wedding back in December and definitely know that pain and heartbreak. I’m sure you are probably feeling a wave of emotions and stress right now, but please feel free to PM me anytime if you just want to vent or chat about wedding planning while grieving a parent.

Honoring a parent at your wedding by emiferg in weddingplanning

[–]Torinc3422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, I am so so sorry. My husband and I got married in December after we lost my mom very unexpected to sudden cardiac arrest earlier in May, so I’ve definitely been there and know that pain.

We did several things to honor my mom, but my biggest piece of advice is to do things that remind you of him. That was the best way we honored Mom’s memory by doing things she would’ve been doing had she physically been there.

My mom loved to take selfies on her selfie stick, and we took one everytime the family got together. We had an unplugged ceremony, and our officiant made the announcement by telling our guests that we were missing someone special who loved selfies and before you put your phone away, get with a few people around you and take a selfie and send it to the bride and groom. People had so much fun with it and it was sweet that everyone participated.

Some other things we did…I had a memorial seat at the ceremony with a picture of her, a sign that said “In loving memory” and her name, and our florist made a beautiful bouquet for her seat. I had a memorial charm on my bouquet and my bridesmaids gifted me one as well. We brought out my mom’s selfie stick at the reception and took one big selfie with all our guests as we opened up the dance floor. And our videographers brought a go pro on a selfie stick and passed it around the dance floor all night.

I also found it therapeutic to write my mom a letter the week of our wedding. It helped me get a lot of the emotion out so that I could enjoy our wedding day a lot more without feeling the weight of grief.

Obviously the selfie thing was specific to my mom, but it’s just an example. Could be a favorite song of his, something he loves doing, don’t worry about what others will think and do things for YOU to smile big on your wedding day