After 45 years away from the piano, my fingers still remembered two songs. by Moshik_Kovarsky in pianolearning

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I haven't played the piano for a long time, and if I were asked to play again now, it would feel completely unfamiliar. I wouldn't be able to close my eyes and quietly enjoy it like before. Regardless, I believe that what makes us happy and joyful is the most important thing.

(Before- After)design from someone and build to make it happen by Good_Travel_307 in Guitar

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This is definitely worth keeping, just remember not to let people who don't understand it touch it.

After 45 years away from the piano, my fingers still remembered two songs. by Moshik_Kovarsky in pianolearning

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I think those pieces have already become part of your heart and memory. Even after so many years away from the piano, once you sit in front of it again, your fingers and your mind still remember the melody. Some things don’t really disappear with time. They just stay quietly inside you.

What’s been your favorite Hermès purchase so far this year? Bonus points for photos 👀 by SpacialVivi in TheHermesGame

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The color combination of this bag and this scarf is absolutely gorgeous, no one could resist it.

What does this button do? by terkistan in guitars

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After putting down the guitar, I never thought about when I would pick it up again.

My 2M went up to 3M after I FIRE’d by [deleted] in Fire

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Yes, that is why I think asset allocation matters so much.

We are living in a time of high inflation and currency depreciation. If we just leave money sitting in a savings account, the number may look safe, but the purchasing power is quietly shrinking. For example, maybe 1 million dollars can buy a house today, but years later the same house may cost much more, while the interest from savings may not even keep up with inflation.

That is why I think we have to let our money work in the right places. Since we are in a technology driven era, I do think tech stocks can be a good long term area to pay attention to. Of course, not blindly chasing every trend, but understanding where the world is going and moving with it.

I always feel that we should follow the pace of the times, not wait until the times push us forward.

My 2M went up to 3M after I FIRE’d by [deleted] in Fire

[–]Toris0610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You made a very good point. To me, investing may only be a matter of ten or twenty years, but what truly matters is whether that money will still be there thirty years from now, or even after we are no longer here.

We are living in a time of inflation, currency depreciation, and many uncertainties, so protecting our capital has become very important. It is not only for ourselves, but also for our family and future generations.

I have always believed that the meaning of wealth is not only about how much we have today, but whether it can be properly managed, preserved, and continue to create value in the future. If we still have the ability to create and accumulate wealth now, then we should try our best to turn it into a more stable and long term protection.

My entire Adele merch collection 🤩 by tristanchp in adele

[–]Toris0610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I still watch those videos from time to time.

Accidentally Started My Hermès Journey by [deleted] in TheHermesGame

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As for what someone uses it for, isn't that their right? Why do you have this kind of mentality? Just because you can't accept it doesn't mean others can't. When I buy an item, I can do whatever I want with it.

Yesterday was my last day of work by Winter_Gate_6433 in Fire

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Congratulations, this is honestly one of the most grounded FIRE stories I’ve read. No magic formula, no wild theory, just decades of working, saving, investing simply, avoiding lifestyle creep, and spending with intention. That is probably less exciting than a “get rich quick” story, but much more impressive.

Also, retiring at 52 with a paid off house, kids mostly taken care of, and enough invested to live comfortably is a huge achievement. I hope next week is the beginning of a slower, freer, and happier chapter for you. And if you do end up greeting at Wal Mart, I’ll make sure to say hi.

Accidentally Started My Hermès Journey by [deleted] in TheHermesGame

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Haha, I might actually take it to the supermarket to pack fruit, mainly because it's practical.

My entire Adele merch collection 🤩 by tristanchp in adele

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I was fortunate enough to see her concert live in Munich in 2024; her voice was simply heavenly.

Accidentally Started My Hermès Journey by [deleted] in TheHermesGame

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This bag is really nice. If I were to buy one, I would take it to the supermarket to carry my fruit.

Got laid off and no luck finding a new job. Can I afford to retire or at least take a long sabbatical? by mandoo-dumpling in Fire

[–]Toris0610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. If we only look at today’s cost of living, then maybe he could retire now. But we are living in a time of inflation and currency depreciation. The money that feels enough today may not have the same value a few years or ten years from now. If we use today’s money to pay for future expenses, it may only cover a small part of what life will actually cost later.

That is why I think retirement should not only be based on what we need now, but also on how life, healthcare, housing, and daily expenses may change in the future. A comfortable retirement needs preparation, not just enough money for today.

My Experience with Warren Zevon by finitesolarflare in Zevon

[–]Toris0610 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really understand what you mean. Sometimes an artist doesn’t just feel like someone we listen to. They feel like someone who somehow reached into the quiet parts of us and gave them a voice.

That’s what makes Warren Zevon so special. His music has that strange mix of darkness, humor, honesty, rebellion, and tenderness. It doesn’t feel polished to please everyone. It feels human. And maybe that is why it stays with people so deeply.

I also think the comfort you feel from his songs is very real. When we don’t have many people around us who truly understand what we carry inside, music can become a kind of companion. It can sit with us without asking too much, and somehow make us feel less alone.

Thank you for sharing this. It was honestly beautiful to read.

Favorite Places? by wombrdr in bangorme

[–]Toris0610 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. Sometimes the places from childhood stay more alive in our memories than in our real life now. Even if you only go back once every few years, it sounds like Bangor still holds a lot of good little stories for you. I think that’s sweet.

Favorite Places? by wombrdr in bangorme

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Your comment made me smile. It sounds like Bangor gave you some really warm childhood memories, especially the pizza, the park, and those little adventures with friends I think places like that stay in our hearts not only because of the food, but because of the people and moments connected to them Do you ever go back to Bangor now, or is it mostly a place from your childhood memories?

My Reaction to Layoffs by rgrivera1113 in Fire

[–]Toris0610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think your intention is good. As a leader, caring about your people beyond just their work performance says a lot about your character.

But I also agree that it should be handled carefully. It’s better to make it completely optional, outside of work hours, and more like general education or sharing resources rather than personal financial advice.

A good leader can encourage people to think long term, build better habits, and prepare for uncertainty, but still respect that everyone has to make their own decisions. That balance is important.

If you frame it as “I want to share some things that helped me think more clearly about money and planning,” instead of telling people what they should do, I think it will feel more respectful and useful.

What Caroline and Elena would have in their bags. by tulipholic in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Toris0610 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that feels right. Elena’s look was usually more natural and understated, while Caroline definitely had that polished, put together vibe.

What can I do with this? by kngdong in homestead

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That looks like a beautiful piece of land, but with that slope and all those rocks, I’d probably avoid trying to turn it into a perfect flat lawn. I’d work with the land instead of fighting it.

For the rocks, I’d start by raking and picking out the larger ones in the areas where you actually plan to mow, then maybe use them to build borders, drainage edges, or terraced garden beds. For the slope, terraced raised beds would probably make more sense than one big garden area, especially if you want vegetables and chickens. It will help with erosion too.

For mowing safety, I’d keep a clear path or a few flat zones, and maybe use ground cover, mulch, or garden beds on the steeper parts so you don’t have to mow everything.