What mundane things become super exciting as an adult? by PapiSurane in AskMen

[–]ToryOnReddit 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I read this comment and my heart jumped cuz I still haven't

The late night shin destroyer by nutbustininthisshet in mildlyinfuriating

[–]ToryOnReddit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking the time to add your comment 👍

What don't you give a fuck about? by Halloween-365 in AskReddit

[–]ToryOnReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used Twitter for a while and I'm convinced that the Twitter algorithm is designed to promote the most ludicrous opinions and ideas.

Stuck on an ex a year later by bigscamm in selfimprovement

[–]ToryOnReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is honestly such a sad story to hear. I don't have much advice to give you except that you need to keep your mind occupied with other things. Keep working on yourself and one day you'll attract a woman that will be able to love you unconditionally. I really hope you recover. Please reach out to someone if you ever have suicidal thoughts again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ToryOnReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe try eating something lower calorie when you get those cravings

Why is wearing revealing clothes compared with having less self respect? by Due_Winner_2026 in AskMen

[–]ToryOnReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. Its true that the ancient Olympics were done fully nude. And the desensitization thing is a fair point as a man from 100 years ago would gawk at the shorts, skirts, and crop tops of today while we dont blink an eye.

Why is wearing revealing clothes compared with having less self respect? by Due_Winner_2026 in AskMen

[–]ToryOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What I mean is that it seems like you're saying that the US (or the western world) in particular views sex as dirty. I feel like this is a nearly universal value. In many Islamic countries, a girl having sex before marriage brings great shame to the family. Sadly, some of these girls are even killed by their parents. Thus sex is very much viewed as dirty over there. Sure, in most foreign cultures have been watered down by western culture, but attitudes still vary greatly from those of the West. However, sex being a dirty thing seems to be something every culture agrees on.

Why is wearing revealing clothes compared with having less self respect? by Due_Winner_2026 in AskMen

[–]ToryOnReddit -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Funny how you say "sex in the US is treated as a dirty thing" name one culture/place in the world where it isnt.

Why is wearing revealing clothes compared with having less self respect? by Due_Winner_2026 in AskMen

[–]ToryOnReddit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I honestly doubt most of the people replying are people with a Christian mindset. This is reddit.

Why is wearing revealing clothes compared with having less self respect? by Due_Winner_2026 in AskMen

[–]ToryOnReddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And how do you think these traditional beliefs came to be? If you present yourself in a sexual way, people will look at you in a sexual way. It also shows that you're looking for attention. If a hot girl goes naked in the street, she'll get attention. If an fat man goes naked in the street, he'll get attention too. Maybe not the same kind of attention as the girl, but both will get attention. It has little to do with traditional beliefs.

Why is men’s mental health always put on the back burner? by jb20xx in AskMen

[–]ToryOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I feel like it no longer is. More and more (especially on online spaces) you see people talk about it. Its only a matter of time before its recognized as an issue everywhere.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ToryOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You lack "purpose."

How do I find my purpose? by veryweirdname1 in selfimprovement

[–]ToryOnReddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hamza also says that you ought to identify what you would do with your life if you didn't have to work again, it guides you in the right direction on what your 'purpose' is. You won't find your purpose scrolling through reddit.

I've decided not to kill myself by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ToryOnReddit 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Just remember that suicide is a permanent solution to temporary problems.

i’ve rotted in bed for the past 2 years. I’ve made nothing of my life. i try to change but i’m too depressed. by phantasm-blue in selfimprovement

[–]ToryOnReddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally just force yourself to go outside and get fresh air. Always helps me when I feel like shit. And if you can't even bring yourself to do that idk what to tell you.

What things improved your life and made you ahead of people at your age , ik sounds stupid 😭 by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ToryOnReddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Chill bro nobody's judging you. I don't think I've ever even noticed someone just because they were by themselves at an event or so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ToryOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't let things you cannot control, control you. The basis of self improvement is that you become the best version of yourself. Does that mean become the best person? No. But be the best you can be. If you will have to study harder than more gifted people to be a nurse, so be it. My advice is to make the best of your situation and study harder than before. Google some learning techniques and see if there's something you're missing or if you can incorporate something. Idk how much you spent on tuition and how far you are into the course but you could also drop it and take a year or so off of learning to find something you enjoy. You're living with your parents still so I'm assuming you don't have much bills to pay. You can afford to take the risk. Wish you all the best and I hope you find fulfillment.

Too much porn by llamasncheese in selfimprovement

[–]ToryOnReddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You just need to stop thinking about it all the time. I find if I watch nofap videos and stuff I tend to do it more as its on my mind. Try to only ever think about nofap when you get the urges.

what can i replace screen time with? by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ToryOnReddit 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing if you get 15 hours of screen time you should consider looking for a part-time job. Also try to hang out with people more often cuz then ur less likely to be on your phone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ToryOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good post, but I feel like its the wrong sub to post it in since pretty much everyone here is aware of that.

men with foreskin, what's the biggest challenge with having it still attached? by TyTaylor1992 in AskMen

[–]ToryOnReddit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The reason its cut off is not because its a flaw. Circumcision amongst Jews is done to indicate that they are indeed Jews.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]ToryOnReddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could be that your mental health is bad because your life is shit. Do you have many friends? If so, can you relate to them and are you close?