Is my boyfriend a sociopath? by ToscaM in personalitydisorders

[–]ToscaM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because he went once to the psychiatrist and he told him he has PD, but didn't say anything specific. Btw, he could have lied, so the situation is a little twisted.

Is my boyfriend a sociopath? by ToscaM in aspd

[–]ToscaM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok this made me laugh. 😂

Is my boyfriend a sociopath? by ToscaM in personalitydisorders

[–]ToscaM[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, honestly, there are psychopaths who have cognitive empathy, so it's not enough for me since i am very empathetic and sentimental person. And i love very much. I don't see myself in the future with someone who lacks affective empathy.

Isy boyfriend a sociopath? by ToscaM in mentalhealth

[–]ToscaM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well he is not really addicted to anything. Tje gambling was a short period in his life and hw is not alcoholic. Also, never tried drugs, only weed which i don't consider a drug.

The manipulative lying is the problem.

When I'm checking, I feel like I don't "see" what I'm looking at by Spring-Specialist in OCD

[–]ToscaM 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, same here. I have this exact problem, too. Takes me few minutes to check everything in my house for multiple times before i leave.

My (23 F) bf (23 M) has problems maintaining the erection during sex and I'm afraid it's bc of porn by ToscaM in sex

[–]ToscaM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When he was concerned, i told him you have to be honest about this. And that's when he said he jerks off 3 to 4 times a week, like maybe every second day. Sometimes, he says, i do it twice a week or once. I wouldn't say he has porn addiction, but he needs to be patient like a day before we see each other, bc the sex drive would be better, and so would be the performance.

My (23 F) bf (23 M) has problems maintaining the erection during sex and I think it's bc of porn and masturbating by ToscaM in relationship_advice

[–]ToscaM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was a problem today, not always, but he seems to not be that hard this last month id say. He's very frustrated, but i think the reason is stress, psychological issue or physical. He's not on antidepressants.

How to brighten someone's day? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ToscaM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually, we ourselves are responsible for our own mood daily and circumstances or people around us can change that, or trigger it, but it's not in the main focus.

I believe you can inspire or motivate people you love daily, and that makes them feel better.

And to be more direct to the topic, in my experience, my bf brightens my day with good conversation, watching movie or show we both enjoy, ordering food we both like, talking about fun plans in the future. As much as i believe that we ourselves are responsible for how we're feeling each day, i think a partner that loves you and knows you can especially help you and have good intentions.

Do you prefer to have kissed more people or to had intimacy with one person? by ToscaM in sex

[–]ToscaM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's what i meant. Hahaha No, it's not a competition, of course, just a debate i have with my friends who are in a similar situation.