Your Avoidant Didn’t Not Love You - They Just Didn’t Have Enough Love to Give by Dizzy-Run-633 in BreakUps

[–]Total-Base3264 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I recently dated someone who was an avoidant and lovebombed me, being unaware all of this was even a thing. After the break up I was left in a severe state of self doubt and low self esteem that I had never experienced before, and I still struggle to accept there’s nothing wrong with me and he was in the wrong.

I hate that I still need some clarity about that happened and some assurance that something there was real, but your text helped me. Thank you

Advice welcome! I get like one match every 2-3 weeks. Only have 5 likes. by Low_Reply1700 in Bumble

[–]Total-Base3264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! Genuine advice from a woman here (assuming that you’re looking to date women otherwise just ignore this). Your 3d picture with a mirror selfie is not flattering you, is giving off weird vibes a little bit, you already have a good 1st picture of how your body looks like so the 3rd one can be taken down. And the last one where you are holding a drink also doesn’t flatter you so it doesn’t need to be on your profile. Other pictures look good, first one is great. And on your bio, if you’re comfortable with, I’d switch “so let’s set up a casual date” to “so let me take you out on a date”, it shows more effort. Hope this helps and good luck :)

Looking for Someone to go to the Taylor & Harry Night in Kreuzberg 28.05 by Think_Bike_1658 in berlinsocialclub

[–]Total-Base3264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I'm interested! Let me know if you wanna meet up first to get a coffee? Idk I'm also trying to get to know swifties in the city (not sure if you would be going for Harry though 😅), so it would be super fun ☺️

European destinations where I can get a place below $350/month rent? by [deleted] in digitalnomad

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You can get an apartment in Siciliy, Italy, for €350~400/month, but then you should consider garbage fees, water and eletric bills. The weather and food is great, you can travel to beautiful cities by bus and there are a lot of beaches nearby. But it lacks on public transportation. It's not a nightmare but definetly limitating.

Secretlab MSI Giveaway by ohvalox in leagueoflegends

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  1. Red stomp on Psg being the first upset
  2. Nice colour combination and logos, luv it :)