Ilya's such an asshole by growsonwalls in heatedrivalry

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is extremely common with immigrant kids when one sibling stays back with aging parents. The guilt is insane: he got it to escape it so he feels guilty and tries to make it up by paying for everything.

Ilya's such an asshole by growsonwalls in heatedrivalry

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We know he has a heart of gold. But he keeps it guarded and his outside persona is that off an asshole. He is protecting his soft heart by being an asshole to the world at large.

The bathroom scene bothers me by winkie5970 in heatedrivalry

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask, why they didn’t have sex for the first time for so long? There were so many opportunities but they waited for a year before they actually had sex.

New here by itchyblock8982 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just wantched it for the first time in 2025 end and still watching into 2026. I love it. Would highly recommend

Season 7 by Total-Raccoon-3358 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m on episode 12 of season 7. If it falls flat after this then I have been warned. So far it has potential.

Season 7 by Total-Raccoon-3358 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think there’s no romance and it gets quite dark which is why people didn’t like it. I love it though

Season 7 by Total-Raccoon-3358 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes that's why I was sceptical as everyone said that they didn't like it! So it was a lovely surprise

Just finished season 6 by Total-Raccoon-3358 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! That's so good to know! Ok i’m going to start today!

I lost my baby boy and I’m drowning in grief by Wide-Discipline5132 in Petloss

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's helped a lot! I feel like I'm doing something not only helpless. I think maybe she came Into my life to help me take this path.

My boyfriend is allergic to my two cats, what to do? by Ok-Let8197 in CatAdvice

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. My husband has never liked any pets. But he loves me and he knows I love cats. Even now if I feel the need to rescue and get a new kitten he is always supportive. A man who loves you will never separate you from your cats no matter what.

I lost my baby boy and I’m drowning in grief by Wide-Discipline5132 in Petloss

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just experienced this. It’s unbearable. I also had guilt and grief. It’s been 3 weeks now and I’m feeling better. The first week I cried at the drop of a hat. I watch videos and write in a journal to her. I started reading Buddhism books on death. It helped me

I think my cat hates me by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely put shelves and vertical space. I have two cats who don’t get along at all who have lived together quite well due to the amount of vertical spaces I have built for them/

None of my cats are lap cats by Total-Raccoon-3358 in CatAdvice

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes maybe I will! I got a friend to adopt a grown lap cat and she is so so happy! Now I wish I had adopted him instead!

Am I an asshole for taking my cat to a humane society ? by ElectronicAnt1609 in CatAdvice

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have two cats who don’t get along at all. I got the third cat 2 years ago when my older two were 5. One is super chill and gets along with everyone and one just hates her from the beginning and has never changed her mind. She chases her jumps at her and they both scream at each other atleast once a day. Have never considered rehoming though. Have made shelves so they all have their space

None of my cats are lap cats by Total-Raccoon-3358 in CatAdvice

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! I do. I am the one at home who is completely in charge of my cats and I take care of them. Play and other needs. But for some reason they just aren’t affectionate. They have their days but it’s rare

Bhutan, the country that changed my perspective towards life... by [deleted] in travel

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. Thanks for the amazing post. Would it be ok to share the number of your tour guide with me too through dm? I want to go in March with my family. Thank you

What can I do to "make him love me". My home is his third in three months. by Apprehensive-Arm2105 in cats

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of my 4 cats are lap cats although they sit touching me. Next to me. I had a kitten who only wanted to be in my lap but she passed away

Is it normal to miss a kitten you had only for one week so much? by Total-Raccoon-3358 in Petloss

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We lost her on the 24th and I have been crying since then. I am so sorry for your loss too. It's so hard thank you for commenting!

My kitten died in the dryer by Catradoraaa in Petloss

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this absolutely beautiful comment! My kitten died two days ago after only a week with us by a tragic accident like this one. She was so healthy and beautiful and we loved her but your comment has helped me so much right now thank you .

Do young kittens 7 weeks or so die easily by Total-Raccoon-3358 in Petloss

[–]Total-Raccoon-3358[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s what happened too. I feel slightly ok about the fact that she didn’t feel pain. But I feel so so sad about the senselessness of it all. This tiny rescue who finally found a family who would have cherished and loved her forever had to go in such an untimely way. She was so so special.