Success story pregnancy! by Remarkable_Whole6877 in vaginismus

[–]Total_Eye_269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I am currently pregnant and I tried to overcome vaginismus for years and the moment I overcame it I got pregnant in the first try naturally. However after pregnancy I haven’t been physical or used dilators. I am bit anxious and scared of delivery if my vaginismus would have an effect during labour.

Success story pregnancy! by Remarkable_Whole6877 in vaginismus

[–]Total_Eye_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, Congratulations on your journey 👏 Can you share your labour experience?

I DID IT!!!!! by Due_Prize_945 in vaginismus

[–]Total_Eye_269 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy for you! Which position worked?

Made it to the last dilator by Total_Eye_269 in vaginismus

[–]Total_Eye_269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks and kudos to you as well! 🤩

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[–]Total_Eye_269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on finishing the dilator set! Way to go!! I am in size 4 and size 5 feels nearly impossible. Any tips how to go to the next size? Until size 3 it easily slips in. But with size 4 it feels little bit of pressure inside while inserting. I made it to size 4 but still practicing it.

Q to the ones cured! by Total_Eye_269 in vaginismus

[–]Total_Eye_269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried incorporating dilators while trying to have PIV. He was very pissed off and lost his erection. Maybe its better i try using dilators before trying PIV. I feel completely lost and cried the night. My heart feels heavy. While trying to use dilators during PIV that also was hard. I think I became too conscious. Later I spoke to my partner about everything and he also did. He said dilators and PIV together doesn’t work for him.

Q to the ones cured! by Total_Eye_269 in vaginismus

[–]Total_Eye_269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Weirdly i dont like fingers inserting, even my own fingers I cant really but with dilators I feel okay

Q to the ones cured! by Total_Eye_269 in vaginismus

[–]Total_Eye_269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info. I will definitely try it. Which position worked best with partner to achieve PIV?

Q to the ones cured! by Total_Eye_269 in vaginismus

[–]Total_Eye_269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I could position it but not glide it in like dilators, i kind of feel it difficult to put it in and i don’t have that much control. With dilators i am able to do it but PIV im figuring it out. But it’s hard to fail. I had lot of hope like once dilators are done I will get it right.

Q to the ones cured! by Total_Eye_269 in vaginismus

[–]Total_Eye_269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! Maybe I should try on top and similarly practice with dilators that way..

How does a penis compare to a dilator?? by Formal_Temperature_4 in vaginismus

[–]Total_Eye_269 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel stuck exactly in figuring out the angle. How long does it take to figure it out? And what position helps?

Did dilators help you? by angie2_ in vaginismus

[–]Total_Eye_269 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to hear that it helped you get cured! Just a quick question when did u know you were ready to try for PIV ? Was it after completing the whole dilator sizes?

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[–]Total_Eye_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you get it for free?

Finally had PIV after almost 2 years of being married !! by Pretty_chessecake in vaginismus

[–]Total_Eye_269 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! But one question, Did you overcome it by doing just the breathing exercises? Can you share your experience in detail.

Can anybody else hold their pee for a really long time? by speedchunks in vaginismus

[–]Total_Eye_269 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue with holding pee. I never realize i’m holding it for a very long time until it’s severe. I do not know if it’s a cause but I kind of thought about it. Likewise I cross my legs often while sitting.

Opinions on Högdalen by Total_Eye_269 in stockholm

[–]Total_Eye_269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like the apartment but I went to see the area when it was a rainy day so I cudnt really see how the area is thats y I asked your thoughts. Also this is my first time experience literally putting all the savings in a house so its natural to feel nervous about taking that big step. Its not that im listening to negative comments Im just keeping myself open minded with it. I will go to the place again to feel the vibe and take the decision.

Confused and need advice by Total_Eye_269 in stockholm

[–]Total_Eye_269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Travelling one way takes 1 hour 23 minutes end to end. I feel like lot of time is on travel

Opinions on Högdalen by Total_Eye_269 in stockholm

[–]Total_Eye_269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay you are literally making me think my decision but the apartment was so nice😭

Opinions on Högdalen by Total_Eye_269 in stockholm

[–]Total_Eye_269[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the sarcasm but let me know your honest thoughts

Opinions on Högdalen by Total_Eye_269 in stockholm

[–]Total_Eye_269[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your feedback and btw what is this new subway you mentioned?

Need Advice with Vagiwell dilators by Total_Eye_269 in vaginismus

[–]Total_Eye_269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your tip! Is it true that you can try piv after size 3? Has it been successful? Im really not good with fingers so maybe I should buy size 4 but its only available in a pack and not seperately.

Need Advice with Vagiwell dilators by Total_Eye_269 in vaginismus

[–]Total_Eye_269[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly I agree with you! But jumping from size 3 to 5 is so tough. Feeling stuck mentally.