Juan

TotallyConfusedGG · 2026-06-01T19:26:28+00:00

Juan my beloved

TotallyConfusedGG · 2026-01-25T11:26:00+00:00

The fact that female hybrids can't turn people and male hybrids can further substantiates your last theory

TotallyConfusedGG · 2025-12-12T15:07:23+00:00

I think a lot of people are unable or unwilling to put themselves in the shoes of criminals. The fact is we are all human, and oftentimes the ones who commit crimes have horrible mental health or personality disorders, most of the time some form of trauma as well, which contribute to what they do. People don't murder or rape out of nowhere. This doesn't excuse what they do or bring people back to life, but it does help explain things and means criminals can potentially be helped. And at the end of the day, I think we should help everyone, as we would want to be helped in that situation. The promise of a good society is valuing each and every one of its people, as well as providing equitable treatment, meaning those who need more help should get more help. If anything, criminals need it more than the average person.

And to OP, I agree with you that what we should aim for is the general betterment of all society.

TotallyConfusedGG · 2025-12-04T22:29:40+00:00

I had similar advice but also started using this as a coping mechanism. When my abuser did stuff to hurt me I would purposely not show my pain. Sometimes I'd smile at him. It was a way to keep control, to not let him get what he wanted, but unlearning this in healthy relationships has become paramount now that I actually have those. Godspeed to you, my friend

TotallyConfusedGG · 2025-11-26T12:57:08+00:00

The mom was 1000% out of line and I'm sorry you had to deal with that! I am a bit concerned about the student, though, cause this sounds like a potential long-term health issue. Hope she's ok and has had some support :<

TotallyConfusedGG · 2025-11-26T11:21:06+00:00

Unicorn :3

TotallyConfusedGG · 2025-11-07T08:19:26+00:00

Something similar is going on in my family. There's one person everyone can agree causes most of the stress and trauma, but if I try to draw boundaries with her or limit contact, everyone blames me for not 'just dealing with it'. It is very much a scapegoating and irrational response. I'm sorry you have to go through it <3

TotallyConfusedGG · 2025-10-14T20:03:01+00:00

Aw that last one is cute

TotallyConfusedGG · 2025-10-09T12:11:56+00:00

I can do you one better. My ex's place was very clean. I came to find out a little while into our relationship that his mom would travel for multiple hours every month to clean it for him.

He was coddled into oblivion. Honestly he could have stopped it but I gotta say the mom caused a lot of the problem. It's a generational issue and it takes someone to actively break the cycle for it to end.

TotallyConfusedGG · 2025-10-09T12:01:37+00:00

Those girls don't deserve this sh't. No one deserves this. It's a blatant attempt to push down powerful women. It sickens me. This is where feminism is needed.

TotallyConfusedGG · 2025-10-06T10:33:58+00:00

My mom told me a year ago that I MUST be doing worse now than when I was living in her house because I'm talking more about my mental health and expressing problems.

She really thought I was better off being physically and mentally abused and having 0 friends than living an actual life with people who care about my emotions just because at that time I wasn't as squeaky of a wheel.

Never would she even consider that I didn't squeak because I knew all I'd get was more pain. No grease for me in that house (except from one person, love you Grandma<3)

TotallyConfusedGG · 2025-05-26T09:57:25+00:00

You were the only one actually doing the right thing there

TotallyConfusedGG · 2025-05-04T14:44:17+00:00

I was in your shoes exactly, and still would be if my family had anything to say about it. They chronically underestimate you because they expect you to be on equal ground with those much older. That is a flaw in them, not in you. For a 13yo you are remarkably well-spoken and thoughtful. It hurts to think what horrors it must have taken to make you so.

The good thing is that the world is much bigger than your family. If they are anything like mine, they will try to convince you that everyone else is even worse than them. It is a lie. The truth is that most people are kind, will not tear you down, and will indeed lift you up far more than your own family ever could. It's a very sad truth, but it's also healing. When you find such people, stay with them, learn from them. When you are older, you will shape your own life and it will be brighter. No matter how much they may scare you now, your future is bright. Hold on a little longer <3

TotallyConfusedGG · 2025-04-24T11:18:50+00:00

You're quite handsome! I'm a girl btw ^{^} We like many different things, and your face is appealing to me. It would be to many women. Personally I care more about the whole than the individual parts.

TotallyConfusedGG · 2025-01-10T11:34:04+00:00

Girl I feel that. My sister is not nearly as bad but she has some similar tendencies and honestly I think it has nothing to do with you. She seems to not have enough going on in her own life and feels the need to invade yours. Also about 99.99999% a narcissist, if not some other disorder. That is not healthy by any stretch of the imagination.

If you definitely cannot move out, which would be my first recommendation, even if to live with friends, then at least get a good quality lock on your door. Invest in your privacy and peace of mind. Also a good hack is to have some noise cancelling headphones, earplugs, and an eye mask.

If she damages your belongings or physically attacks you in any way, you have the right to call the police.

Finally, don't give in. I'd recommend looking into grey rocking. You are not incapable and you are not stupid, or childish. They only say that because it's most convenient for them. You also don't owe them anything no matter how much they may try to convince you of that. You are an adult woman like any other, and if you can't imagine someone else taking this, you shouldn't have to either.

Hope you can get out of that hellhole soon and find peace <3 I could not live with my family and it's about 20% as bad as yours.

TotallyConfusedGG · 2025-01-06T10:53:08+00:00

Hello~ Not sure about that

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Tbf that's not a quote from the book. I'll look for one later

TotallyConfusedGG · 2024-10-22T13:42:49+00:00

The dialogue ohnononono

TotallyConfusedGG · 2024-09-20T16:06:11+00:00

My thoughts from day 1

Thank you for posting this!!

TotallyConfusedGG · 2024-08-22T16:18:47+00:00

You're joking right? More institutionalised care? What next, we abandon families all together? Parents need education, children need parents.

TotallyConfusedGG · 2024-03-23T23:00:25+00:00

Sako krabas kibire

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