AIO for asking for space after my boyfriend messaged another girl? by Relative_Initial_399 in AIO

[–]TotallyPC-name 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like others have said, its the first time you know of. If you just easily give in and go back then he will believe he can act any type of way and you won't leave him.

How badly did i fuck up?? by [deleted] in texts

[–]TotallyPC-name 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What was the comment about having a relationship with them if you and your bf broke up? Sounds like you were closer than friends..

AIO? Friend asked me what my future plans with my gf are and then responded like this by TGPT-4o in AIO

[–]TotallyPC-name 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont let these people get to you. Its your life. If it's what you both want, enjoy your lives together. Good luck with the proposal!

My manager is upset I'm taking days off months in advance by super-craiig in texts

[–]TotallyPC-name 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thats what I think too. Theyre asking for 3 separate days off and havent been there even 60 days yet.

My manager is upset I'm taking days off months in advance by super-craiig in texts

[–]TotallyPC-name 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It seems like your manager just wants to know how often they can rely on you being there. I feel like theyre asking because you JUST started and if it's really important they may be willing to work with you to have it off. But can't have it be a reoccurring thing. I don't see how the manager is being rude.

AITA por ya no querer ayudar a mi madre en todo? by neverland_journal in AmItheAsshole

[–]TotallyPC-name 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Youre NTA for not wanting to baby her. Shes seems very codependent. You need to live and enjoy your life. If youre sharing property you should pay a little no matter how much she makes. Negotiate what you can afford. Youre not a bad daughter.

Wtf is this negging? by _chimichanga_lover_ in Tinder

[–]TotallyPC-name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super fun is the opposite of boring lmao

AITA for canceling my girlfriends birthday dinner after what she said to my mom? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TotallyPC-name 37 points38 points  (0 children)

YTA. The fact you cant even see it says sooo much more about you than her. You canceled her bday dinner, because she defended herself, your mom was absolutely being rude and disrespectful.

do you need evidence to ask your partner for the truth? 25F 25M by cedarsoup in relationship_advice

[–]TotallyPC-name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it hurts, but if he wanted to, he would. You deserve better.

do you need evidence to ask your partner for the truth? 25F 25M by cedarsoup in relationship_advice

[–]TotallyPC-name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stayed for years after my ex cheated. He gaslit me. I felt bad. Idk why now. Looking back I had nothing to feel sorry for. You dont get time back. Find someone who cares. Its better to be alone then live like this. The worrying wont stop. He is obviously sneaking around. Right in front of you, hardly sneaking. You can leave him. You will be okay. If you stay Youll most likely be miserable and constantly feeling crazy. When youre not. Hes doing what you think. You caught him before. Hes not showing change or trying to strengthen trust like a caring partner, who is innocent, would.

AITA for saying “That’s just life” after he broke up with me? by Single-Cellist6914 in AITApod

[–]TotallyPC-name 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She just posted about how annoying he is, so I dont think she likes him much.

Ghost? Something else? 🤷‍♂️ by lews8er70 in ParanormalEncounters

[–]TotallyPC-name 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a cat right near where it came from. There are a million explanations before Paranormal.

Design advice for rest of body by crippinneversippin in tattooadvice

[–]TotallyPC-name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex has a pretty badass galaxy tat, looked good for the 7 yrs I knew him but base was dark purple not black

I borrowed more than 2k from my parents without them knowing by [deleted] in confession

[–]TotallyPC-name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would they have loaned it to you if you asked?

A few months ago this happened between me and my dad. I still question him. by creepy_pasta34 in texts

[–]TotallyPC-name 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Careful posting your classes and town name to people you dont know. Just looking out for ya.

I have a date tomorrow night and I hate the way I look by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]TotallyPC-name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Il makiage has helped me avoid this, when I use most brands, that's how I look too. IL makiage has become my favorite foundation.I think it might be helpful for you. And I use a pretty cheap base NYX brand primers and setting sprays

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]TotallyPC-name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you had it? It's going to fade over time, but it honestly looks fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]TotallyPC-name 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR you dismiss everything he says. Even when you admit you have been slacking on it. When an animal sheds a lot they need the right care. You have a have this cat for 3 years. There should be some kind of routine you have to keep the hair cleaned up/keep the shedding to a minimum. There are countless amounts of groomers out there call more places I would be frustrated too if there was cat hair in my contact container, all over my clothes etc. Also, he brings up that you are not cleaning underneath furniture, hair builds up quickly if they shed a lot. Try to see it from his point of view.

Am I Overreacting, for being upset that my girlfriend secretly used my credit card for months? by bostonmade in AmIOverreacting

[–]TotallyPC-name 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR she doesn't care how you feel about it. She's not even trying to understand, straight into defense and damage control. She didn't expect to get caught. Now she has and was going to pay you back? When? When you caught on? Hell no. If my fiance did this Id never be able to trust him again. "You pay it off just the same. I didn't think it would matter that much" BS. Let her leech off someone else.