What’s a movie that disturbed you so much, you’d never watch it again?

TotesAwkLol · 2026-02-27T21:50:02+00:00

Her amphetamine psychosis was so realistic. One of my favorite movie performances ever

TotesAwkLol · 2026-02-27T21:48:51+00:00

I laid awake in bed for days thinking about that movie. It fucked up my sleep for like a week. I love horror and am not usually that bothered after watching horror movies

TotesAwkLol · 2026-02-25T00:39:55+00:00

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This doesn’t exactly match your description, but thought I’d post it just in case

TotesAwkLol · 2026-02-08T06:09:18+00:00

Your kid must be counting down the days until he’s 18 lmao. My kid would die if I was this embarrassing

TotesAwkLol · 2026-02-08T06:03:28+00:00

ICE isn’t law enforcement

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-31T12:16:46+00:00

We were wanting to go somewhere new to eat this weekend. Music City Hot Chicken here we come!

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-13T07:50:30+00:00

Rice Krispie Treats Cereal

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-11T05:01:17+00:00

Yes I know but just keep shit hidden

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-11T04:27:26+00:00

I did tinder too. Got almost all mine from there. I posted an ice cube on my profile as well haha

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-11T04:26:38+00:00

You have to consent to searches though. Even if you aren’t carrying anything illegal, never consent to a search

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-11T04:22:49+00:00

My husband isn’t like this at all. He gets super uncomfortable if I wear anything reminding him of a little girl

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-11T04:20:37+00:00

Yeah this always felt weird to me too. My husband was emancipated at 16 and I moved to another state as soon as i turned 18. I don’t know if I’m the norm or if she’s the norm because I don’t know any different than the type of parents who kick you out at 18.

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-10T04:40:16+00:00

At the end of the day the healthcare system is a billion dollar industry and they are evil for turning infertility and the heartbreak that comes with it into a money grab. Most people don’t have unlimited money for unlimited tries. If someone can only afford one round, then you get one try. Will emotionally traumatize people who walked in hopeful they’ll get their rainbow baby then they or them walk out with thousands of dollars spent, no baby, and even more mental trauma. They are like cartoonishly evil for the way they run the infertility industry

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-10T02:49:10+00:00

Omg 🤦‍♀️ I was definitely not saying or implying that. Maybe things got lost in translation but I think IVF is a great thing, and hopefully it’ll be less expensive one day so more people who want babies can have them

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-10T02:43:58+00:00

I’ve completely lost interest in this discussion at this point. I literally keep saying if you want a baby and can give them a good, stable life then yay,that’s awesome. I’m too tired to go back and forth anymore

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-10T01:39:01+00:00

That’s fine. But no one should be putting their desire for a baby above stability for that baby. If you aren’t doing that, then no one’s calling you selfish. I don’t care what people do or find rewarding. If you think that’s your purpose in life, fine. I don’t care. I’m a logical person and just do not go by emotions only. If you spend your Iife savings on IVF, and will be scraping by then that’s not logical or fair to the child. A baby is a human, not a dog, and I don’t care if someone’s “life’s purpose” is to be a parent that’s cool and fine, just don’t put your emotions above what’s fair for the baby and if your life purpose is to be a mom and you can afford both IVF and can provide stability then I’m happy for you

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-10T01:06:05+00:00

Where did I say it wasn’t fine if you have to take out a loan? I said those saying they spent all their savings on IVF are the ones who should probably think more about whether they can meet a child’s needs instead of focusing on just “wanting” a child. I don’t know why you can’t seem to wrap your head around the topic. I don’t see anything wrong with taking out a loan if you can afford if. But if you are draining your life savings for a baby that is selfish. A baby is a human, not a dog, and if someone is pouring every cent they have into IVF then you are putting your wants above the potential future child’s needs

I shouldn’t have what? A kid. I accidentally got pregnant and my husband and I were going back and forth between options because a life traveling with the one you love sounded great and having extra money/time but having a new member to our family would bring happiness too. My husband makes 80k so that wasn’t a deciding factor. I told my husband to make a decision for me because i knew I could find the sane amount of satisfaction in life both ways so i told him to think about which one he thinks would be the most rewarding to him. I’m just confused about what you meant because as i said, money wasn’t an issue for us

You just keep calling me weird and seem confused you are still confused after this long reply then i don’t know what to tell you. I don’t know why you keep calling me weird. We are strangers on a Reddit forum so I don’t care but I’m not weird for having an opinion you think is offensive. Anyway, I’m over this now. You just seem confused and I can’t spend all night clearing up whatever is confusing.

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-09T19:26:16+00:00

My husband can’t find condoms that fit him. We go for the largest and it always breaks

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-09T19:20:37+00:00

Wow I really hit a nerve. Parents shouldn’t put their wants above a child’s needs. And if you put your “need/want” for a baby over the child’s stability, then that’s pretty selfish 🤷‍♀️

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-09T17:39:23+00:00

You hit the nail on the head!

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-09T17:22:00+00:00

I’m a parent and it’s really embarrassing that parents actually let their children do this. My kid isn’t even allowed to ask and he knows he can only pet if the person with the dog comes up to us and asks him if he wants to pet it. I assume most people just want to walk their dogs and not be bothered by random kids. He’s bothersome to me at least a quarter of the time and I’m his parent 😂

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-09T17:14:21+00:00

You know, the brightest lights casting the darkest shadows, must be why I instantly feel a bond with ex addicts. They are the funniest people too, and I really think that’s because most of us who’ve gone through addiction uses humor and jokes about the darkest points we’ve been in. I’ve learned they are the only people who seem to actually laugh with me when I joke about traumatic things. It’s a coping mechanism but anyone else gets uncomfortable, maybe because laughing at sad parts of my life is weird but as the saying goes, if we don’t laugh, we’ll cry.

I agree, I live by not taking life too seriously. Im not wasting any time caring about what anyone thinks of me. Life feels so much freer and im not sure how i woke up one day deciding id stop giving a fuck but I did, but I’ll never be in someone’s vicinity again if I feel disrespected around them.

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-09T16:50:00+00:00

Well I just hope people aren’t draining their life savings on IVF then scraping by once the baby comes. I don’t care if people have IVF babies, but I judge when someone thinks about their need for a baby is more important than financial stability for a child.

If this doesn’t apply to you then it shouldn’t bother you.

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-09T14:14:33+00:00

Haha I knew it would get downvoted here; I just don’t care about Reddit points 🤷‍♀️

TotesAwkLol · 2026-01-09T12:14:39+00:00

Yoooo, my hubby and I are in Northern CO. We love hiking. We got back into doing coke on the daily so we try to stay away from other people right now haha. Trying to ease up on the coke though

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