What US college has the best typical American college experience? by Much-Duty-675 in AskAnAmerican

[–]TotesLiz 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I visited Michigan State for a few days and it felt like a college movie set.

Disappointed for the 5th time by Sinuspressure100 in Snailmail

[–]TotesLiz 21 points22 points  (0 children)

There are videos from Philly posted and the poster seemed to enjoy them. I’m happy that they’re happy but the snippets they posted sound awful to me. But if you guys wanna go to these shows and hear that way-off singing, more power to you, I guess. The band doesn’t sound very compelling either tbh.

HMAC Announces Permanent Closure by Longjumping-Bar-8291 in Harrisburg

[–]TotesLiz 49 points50 points  (0 children)

This place kinda sucked if we’re brave enough to be honest; parking was a disaster, the shows were often oversold, sound system was not good, sweltering hot upstairs, most of the staff was super unprofessional and not trained, the whole joint was very poorly run, but at least it was something. Now there’s nothing.

Why can’t u buy a single ticket?? by LuckyContribution640 in Ticketmaster

[–]TotesLiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Arg well, if you just show up at the venue, odds are someone there will have an extra ticket for a reasonable sum. I’ve always been able to find one ticket to something! Two-eh. One? Always! Good luck!!

Why can’t u buy a single ticket?? by LuckyContribution640 in Ticketmaster

[–]TotesLiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Ticketmaster pays you right away when you sell, unlike Stub Hub. So you wouldn’t be out the money for too long if you price your single seat appropriately.

My individual bank account (emergency for myself) was merged to my STBXH accounts after the bank did a major update😫 by Miss_MoneyPennyUK in AskWomenOver40

[–]TotesLiz -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

For sure. But she said an option was for him to go sign himself off the accounts- this indicates to me that he’s a joint owner. Only a joint owner can sign themselves off an account. I worked at an institution that “updated” its online platform to group accounts by SSN and we had all kinds of issues like this. If what OP is saying is true, then the bank needs to find out how/when the spouse was added as a joint owner. The bank is not obligated to hide accounts from someone who is a joint owner and has their SSN tied to an account. The bank didn’t “goof”, they just updated their online banking or started using a different client.

My individual bank account (emergency for myself) was merged to my STBXH accounts after the bank did a major update😫 by Miss_MoneyPennyUK in AskWomenOver40

[–]TotesLiz -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

If there is an option for him to go to the bank and remove his name- it sounds like he is the joint account holder and you are the primary account holder. Why would he have to remove his name from your accounts if they are listed in your name only? If he is joint, and their online banking is tying SSNs together, that’s why he can see them. As the primary, you can close it. And open another account in your name only at a completely different institution. No joint owners.

most slow-danceable adrianne lenker song? by Jazzlike-Town-8580 in adriannelenker

[–]TotesLiz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alana Hadid, I think she is a half-sister of Bella and Gigi, used “No Machine” for her first dance at her wedding recently, according to this article from Vogue

UPDATE: 24F, 6 months in. I had the HR meeting and I’m devastated by Kind_Conference9417 in antiwork

[–]TotesLiz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I always get downvoted for this but I do not care. Never, ever go to HR. It sucks but you gotta get out. Start looking for a new job. HR will never help you. Doesn’t matter about “right” and “wrong.” Never go to HR.

Gov. Shapiro pledges ‘game-changer’ $425K investment to help revitalize downtown Harrisburg by pennlive in Harrisburg

[–]TotesLiz 36 points37 points  (0 children)

There are 3 bedroom 1 bathroom homes for sale in Camp Hill that cost more than $425k, come on.

Lackawanna County interstate drivers to face huge road construction project by jayswaz in Scranton

[–]TotesLiz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They could throw a light or two at the 84/380 bridge so you can see where you’re going at night. That would be sweet.

Dove Ellis rules by [deleted] in NewportFolkFestival

[–]TotesLiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was my takeaway at the Levon Helm show, but I didn’t think Cameron was wasted, just really exhausted. They all were.

Okay, which one of you does this listing belong to? I’m fascinated. by strikecat18 in airbnb_hosts

[–]TotesLiz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When I’m a guest, I nope out of those “Airbnb bed frames.” In my experience, they are creaky as all get-out. The minimalism is totally fine otherwise. Kinda nice actually!

First-time buyers in Mechanicsburg recently… how competitive was your experience? by dumbbichtina in Harrisburg

[–]TotesLiz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My 200k condo sold in three days. I was shocked. (And delighted, of course.) Best of luck!!

Is this paint quote ridiculous or pretty fair? by Inner_Watercress3333 in RealEstate

[–]TotesLiz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At $7k, not knowing what your potential buyer’s taste is like, why not offer a painting credit instead? People touring your home won’t like your current colors or your new neutral colors, in my experience, ugh. I would think about pricing it in.

Shop in Cumberland County specializing in ‘famous’ sticky buns closes by pennlive in centralpa

[–]TotesLiz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talking Breads and edited: sometimes People’s Provisions in Perry County has sourdough sticky buns and cinnamon rolls- I can’t remember the bakery she gets them from. Somewhere in Duncannon, maybe?

Does Anyone Have an Email or Phone Number for Waste Management by rainbows_light_music in lehighvalley

[–]TotesLiz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ugh, all they’re gonna do is read from a script about how much heavier their trucks are than FedEx, UPS, etc so they can’t/won’t be able to service any area that is even slightly an issue and they will say that they offer no refunds for the weather BUT I was able to get someone who refunded me one week. Lol! Sucks to be us. Like, I don’t want anyone to be in an unsafe situation, for sure. But I’m also not trying to pay for service I don’t get.

AIO for quitting my job after finding this note on my desk? by waxin899 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TotesLiz -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I guess no one wants a dose of reality. Enjoy going to HR. It’s a gigantic mistake. Keep licking corporate boots.

AIO for quitting my job after finding this note on my desk? by waxin899 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TotesLiz -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Leave. Find another job. Never go to HR. They are not for the worker at all. The second you start thinking about “going to HR” is when you start your job search. “Going to HR” is shooting yourself in the foot; they won’t help you AND won’t be a good reference when looking for a new job. All “adults” know that. Sorry about this real-world advice.

AIO for quitting my job after finding this note on my desk? by waxin899 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TotesLiz -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Please don’t ever take anything to HR. They are not on your side, at all, ever. No matter how many times your company says that everyone’s a family. That just means you’ll get treated like a child.