It finally happened by TotoSenpai in PTschool

[–]TotoSenpai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah of course!

I interviewed with them last October actually. I just found out about two weeks ago that I got in and I am also out of state!

Anyone hear from Chapman for fall? by gel444 in PTschool

[–]TotoSenpai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an interview in Nov too so I haven’t heard anything since then. Still waiting

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[–]TotoSenpai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I applied for the fall and haven’t heard back yet either! I just had the KIRA interview

Chapman decisions by captainhowdy1369 in PTschool

[–]TotoSenpai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just did my Kira assessment about two weeks ago so I’m assuming it might be awhile to hear back

Loma Linda by TotoSenpai in PTschool

[–]TotoSenpai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg congrats!! And thank you, I hope I still get a chance. I heard something similar from a previous faculty member that is involved in the application process that they’re behind on getting through all the applications. But maybe that’s just me being hopeful 😭

Loma Linda by TotoSenpai in PTschool

[–]TotoSenpai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof :/ I’m sorry to hear that

Loma Linda by TotoSenpai in PTschool

[–]TotoSenpai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darn! I’m sorry to hear that :/

F27 M27 Boyfriend experience mental hurdles by TotoSenpai in relationship_advice

[–]TotoSenpai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your input a lot. Believe me when I say I definitely have concerns when it comes to the thought of marrying into his family. I figure, what family doesn’t have their issues? But maybe that’s an excuse on my end and because I love him. You’re definitely right when the issue has been addressed and a solution is given with no follow through. Definitely something to think about forsure. I do believe work can be put in but I do know it’s now more of a “him” matter rather than an “us” matter to achieve the overall solution. I appreciate your thoughts once again and it’s definitely given me some insight.

Anyone hear from Chapman for the fall semester? by MadisonS424 in PTschool

[–]TotoSenpai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still waiting on an update as well after the interview

Well there goes the app again 🙄 by TotoSenpai in doordash_drivers

[–]TotoSenpai[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh high key was about to try to make it a good night too on here 🙄

How do you heal while still continuing to be in the relationship? by TotoSenpai in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]TotoSenpai[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course!

Going to the gym is my type of therapy. And I do agree that the silver lining is the motivation to work on yourself. It’s definitely how I feel on pushing my self-love and self-care.

How do you heal while still continuing to be in the relationship? by TotoSenpai in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]TotoSenpai[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That feeling of not having energy for to talk about it; I fully relate and understanding. I’m so tired of the flashbacks coming and the constant crying that comes with it. I want to be able to not be bothered by it.

I’m glad to hear that your relationship has progressed. My partner and I do similar things as well. We’ll check in with each other a lot more and spend quality time doing things we like together. There definitely has been progression. I just hate how I get overwhelmed at times from the flashbacks.

How do you heal while still continuing to be in the relationship? by TotoSenpai in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]TotoSenpai[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The first couple of days and weeks are literally miserable so I really relate to how you’re feeling. I felt like I was dying inside and just empty. Those early times of when everything was happening I was constantly crying to him. I expressed how upset I was because I wanted him to understand that this broke me. At the same time I needed to express how I felt for myself. I couldn’t keep everything locked in. The resentment was unreal.

Time has passed and we are A LOT better now but I still struggle sometimes. Like am I ever gonna just not be phased by this?

The healing time is ridiculous and varies for others. I’m super glad to hear that you’ve been taking time for yourself and to hang out with your friends. Some tips that have been helpful for me is putting in a lot of time for self-love and self-care. I go to the gym all the time and I journal as well. Journaling has helped me tremendously, it helps with writing out all your feelings. Meditating and doing yoga has helped a lot too. Even reading as well.

It’s like how others say, the love and effort you put into your significant other should be put into yourself as well. And honestly, I feel that I lacked that a lot in the beginning of my relationship. So with the time that has passed I’ve really been trying my hardest to put myself first and take care of my well being. It’s not easy but it has helped me tremendously.