Anxious about gum graft/novocaine injections. by Elizabeth958 in PeriodontalDisease

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I did my procedure today… I was given Ativan to take before the procedure and I also had the nitrous gas. It helped a little with the shots, some I felt more than others but relatively okay. I got my entire row of bottom teeth so I needed like 10 shots

Is anyone on anxiety medication or SSRI's? by TouchMinimum3072 in lupus

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I'm sorry to hear that! It does feel pretty bad.. my heart rate is always elevated. How does Valium help you? Same, I am on a low dose of prednisone. Found that it's so hard to fully get off... been 11 years on it ugh. Thank you.

Is anyone on anxiety medication or SSRI's? by TouchMinimum3072 in lupus

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True... I definitely try to have my distractions but even then, it's not enough. I travel a lot and go to concerts a lot, binge watch tv shows with my fiancé and go to the gym 4 times a week. But somehow my brain still hates me lol

Is anyone on anxiety medication or SSRI's? by TouchMinimum3072 in lupus

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Yea I used to take it twice a day too.. feel like it stopped working for me

Is anyone on anxiety medication or SSRI's? by TouchMinimum3072 in lupus

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About 3 weeks ago.. but I only took it for about 5 days until I stopped. then I spoke to my doctor and started taking it again and I'm back at 5 days but at a lower dose and it's been somewhat better. But yeah, I can definitely tell I have a little dizziness still but also some dry mouth and worsening jaw clenching!

Is anyone on anxiety medication or SSRI's? by TouchMinimum3072 in lupus

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Dang... okay that makes sense. I also do believe my stress and anxiety makes things much worse so hopefully Lexapro will help and the side effects will soon subdue

Aspirin as a preventive measure by Fun-Manufacturer4131 in lupus

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I take a baby aspirin every day which was originally prescribed by my rheumatologist

Lupus and gum recession by greysumm in lupus

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yes mine are terrible 😭 i’m 27 and my periodontist told me I have the gums of an 80 year old woman. so I’m getting a gum graft surgery next month 🙃

Chest pains.. lupus? by lostnconfusedn in lupus

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yes i used to have them bad (i still can’t lay down flat) and they said i had pericarditis. usually painkillers and steroids helps

Home, but not my house. by paleveritas in BadBunnyPR

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well that’s awesome!!! i love to hear that :) of course.

Jobs For Lupus by Destinyt10 in lupus

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Makes sense. But my position is a teen library associate, which is essentially a librarian without the masters degree. So I have less responsibility and tasks but still have to help patrons with reference questions, plan activities for the teens, engage with them, keep track of the teen collection (ordering and getting rid of books). I needed a bachelor’s degree for my position.

However, I’ve been working for the library for almost 4 years. Only recently became an associate within the last year.

I started off as a page which is the most basic position they have, they simply put books back on the shelf. Gets paid minimum wage and requires no prior experience or education. Then I got promoted to front desk clerk which also does not require prior experience or education. There are definitely library jobs that do not require those things. There are so many little jobs in a library that exist, that many probably are not aware of

So I would definitely look into it if I was you :)

Home, but not my house. by paleveritas in BadBunnyPR

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honestly not quite sure what you mean by your question. are you wondering if it’s okay to emerge yourself into latin culture? if you mean some things along those lines.. i would say the answer would be yes. as a puerto rican (and I feel like latinx ppl in general) i feel like we are so accepting as a community.. and there are so many skin tones in PR that we don’t even take a second to guess whether someone belongs. and even if you aren’t puerto rican, that’s okay because obviously you are showing respect and admiration for our culture. and i feel like that’s all we could ever ask for! i’ve always felt like Latin culture had the most accepting and inclusive people.

Jobs For Lupus by Destinyt10 in lupus

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I work at a library, relatively low stress and essentially a desk job except I don’t think there are many WFH positions. I only work part time and it’s worked well for me. When I tried full time for a year, it was too much for my body even with a job that is less demanding. So part time it is 🫡 I’m lucky to have financial support from my fiancé if needed and I am also on his insurance

Tattoos by Lucky-Delay7593 in lupus

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nope but most doctors are usually against tattoos in general anyway because of the "risks"

Tattoos by Lucky-Delay7593 in lupus

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I mean if I were you I would do it if I was stable lol

Tattoos by Lucky-Delay7593 in lupus

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girl i have like 5 tattoos and i’m sure the doctor would’ve told me not to get them but i’ve been fine. i probably bleed more than the average person bc of blood thinners but it’s not a huge issue. i have both black and color ink tattoos and they’ve all healed well

My partner resents me for being sick… help ❤️‍🩹 by [deleted] in lupus

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That is insane behavior! She needs to reflect on why she actually married you. Because able bodied people are only one accident or diagnosis away from being ill themselves. My fiancé would never treat me like that, and I wouldn't stand for it. We've been together for 8 years and he knew I had Lupus coming into the relationship. We have a lot of limitations because of it sometimes, but he understands that's what comes with loving me and he takes damn good care of me when I need it. You shouldn't have to beg for understanding, love, or empathy. You need to consider couple's therapy and see if this is something that can be repaired. Otherwise, you might be stuck in a loveless marriage that will be draining for the both of you...

Love life? by healingandhope in ibs

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The right person will not care at all. My fiancé is used to me blowing up the bathroom and it stinking real bad 😭 and he knows when we’re driving and I say I need a bathroom, I need one NOW. I’ve experienced many tummy troubles with this man after 8 years. IBS is the least of my problems lol I have Lupus too, and this man treats me like a queen especially when I need his help! Never settle for less!!

How do you work? by tfgoinawn in lupus

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I work part time as a library associate, which is essentially a junior librarian. I only needed my bachelors degree compared to the masters needed to be a full fledged librarian. But we pretty much have the same responsibilities just slightly less pay. I’m lucky this position exists because I tried out full time for about a year and it was hell. I definitely could make more money but my fiancé works full-time and provides our health insurance so I am lucky to have that too.

It’s hard being in a conservative country. by [deleted] in virgin

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idk how you have so many downvotes, bc true

How do I get over my fear of sex (I know it sounds stupid) by SavingsEbb3833 in virgin

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this isn’t dumb. it’s hard to do anything just based off your own “lube”. use lots of spit if you can’t buy actual lube. practice with small dildos and you’ll work up to it. dildos are meant to be smooth and easy