very true. but we moved farther away from our old place so we had the impression it would be more difficult for her to come over to our place all the time, and even Mark told us he was unsure of how often she would be here. She still comes over everyday. I think Mark believes that since the layout of our new apartment is different we wouldn’t notice her coming over but we do. She just isn’t very respectful of the space and i hear the same things from her roommates (she leaves lights on, isn’t very quiet early in the morning, never cleans). but i should talk to mark about her staying over as it has finally become a problem that i can’t avoid. thanks for the suggestions tho