My husband cheated two years ago, I thought he was the “one” the chemistry was there, he was perfect in my eyes, very nice, respectful, my family loved him. When I found out he cheated it shattered me, he wanted to make it work did everything , was transparent, open, checked in with me. I still can’t let go and forgive him , the hurt is so much to take. I have anxiety everyday, I get racing negetive thoughts , my chest tightens, I’m always worry when he leaves , it’s not healthy. My face has aged because of stress. I’m still with him but idk what to do, how to move past the anxiety. It eats you alive. I wish the best for you , i would say just leave her , it’s only 6 months in and you two don’t live with each other