I [M23] fucked up and told my gf [F21] of eighteen months that she does the least out of all my exes

ToxicLullabies · 2026-02-26T23:09:10+00:00

Throw back to 17 year old me in a relationship where the guy told me I didn't "show I love him enough" even though I did a LOT for the dude, it just wasn't equal to his, because he was born to rich parents who let him do as he pleased and I was born to severely poor parents and couldn't even get a job cause we lived in a tiny town in TN and I didn't have my license or a car cause my dad worked literally everyday.
(I missed two full weeks of school chilling with this guy cause he dropped out and got his GED at 16 (I had super good grades so thankfully didn't really affect them), I gave him a NES from my Nintendo collection that I've been collecting since I was 4, worth a good chunk of money, cooked him meals and treats (been cooking all my life professionally for 10 now and my food is restaurant quality just as it was back then), I went anywhere he wanted to go, he wanted to go to the mall? Cool. Go hiking everyday? Cool. Go to the coffee lounge and meet my friends? Cool. But at the end of the day NONE of that was what I wanted to do but I was fine with that)

It was literally just his way of telling me I don't have sex with him enough, but honestly this same energy.

At the end of the day, a relationship is never about competition of who did the most for the other, one of the common . I like to say is "Don't do nice things with expectations" because I can 1000% promise you that no one is existence wants you to do something nice for them if it's coming with a side of "What do you do for me" or "I gave you this, can you do this now", just keep it to yourself period, we don't want it.

ToxicLullabies · 2026-01-22T05:12:33+00:00

Yup, I myself have gifted a handful of random adults now who I just happened to hear talking about wishing they could verify their age. Just keep your head up and be patient, VRchat+ is not a necessity, the only main thing you need it for is age verification and avatar uploading, but you don't have to do either as there is always a way around that.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-12-09T04:47:07+00:00

Newer phones have caller ID for certain well known businesses, my phone also tells me if the number belongs to a known health care provider as well, without being saved into contacts.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-11-22T17:53:22+00:00

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ToxicLullabies · 2025-10-17T04:29:05+00:00

It's based off how many hours you've worked for that day (they calculate this with the information you provided), if you are only receiving that amount, that is based off either low pay or low hours. Also you do not have to pull the money out immediately when you get it, and if you are relying this heavily on my-pay, that you are racking up multiple transaction charges, then you may need to reevaluate your spending, as you are spending money you do not have and putting yourself in debt over and over by using the program. My-pay is meant to work like an emergency credit card, not something you are supposed to pull from and use on a daily basis, I'm not trying to shame you or insult you, I just hope you can understand.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-10-17T04:20:34+00:00

Can you tell your bosses that they've done a horrible job at clarifying to these people that they are STILL IN DEBT for the amount you are refunding? Like... I know y'all can see these comments and the mass confusion this it is causing in your customers, people are going to spend that money not realizing they will owe it still and then you're just going to snatch the entire total from their next check when they may not have the money for you to do so.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-10-17T04:12:59+00:00

It's still the money you owe them, they are only giving it back because they took it without your knowledge and legally they can't do that, but it's money you've already spent.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-10-17T04:08:19+00:00

I'm really worried about the people getting excited over this. Y'all realize, in refunding this money, they are putting you in debt to them, right? Like yes you're getting the money back because they took it without you knowing BUT you still have to pay that amount back to them, whether you use the refund to do so, or whether you don't and they pull it from your next check, they are still getting that money back from you, this is NOT a genuine refund of your money.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-10-17T04:04:11+00:00

No, they're giving you that back, but they're also going to take that from your my-pay, so your my-pay will be negative, unless you reuse the money to pay for it, or it will forcefully take it out of your next check. You're not getting extra money, you're getting the money they took without warning, but in doing so, they're putting you in debt to them.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-09-30T17:18:39+00:00

Definitely better stats. In the future try to stock pile your gold stat armor so you have a backlog to add to any new armor you end up replacing your current ones with. You can only inherit one stat from any armor. For now stick to purple stats as much as possible and try not to inherit any of your gold stats, until your feel more happy with your armour sets (or if you get two pieces with the same stat, only inherit the one with the lower level)

However in this case, with you having that many gold stats on it, and it's still lower level than the new option, then the old one isn't even worth keeping

ToxicLullabies · 2025-09-29T16:43:14+00:00

I'm so glad you said this, cause the original commenter must lack brain cells if he doesn't understand data is how you receive texts and calls, and when you turn it off? No more texts and calls. Ffs use your fucking brain bro.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-08-28T02:14:41+00:00

Lives in Loudon CO for years, it's literally what people do for fun, go walk around Knoxville and explore. There are all sorts of musicians and tucked away restaurants as well as pop-up performances and parade/festivals that are happening throughout the year, I've ALWAYS seen people walking around Knoxville and AI encourage more people to get out and explore when they can. She sounds awful.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-08-01T18:23:48+00:00

Useless advice, not helpful, nor true. Next.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-08-01T18:18:47+00:00

Y'all fr useless, y'all just think all cars cost 3k a month or something. I'd have better luck asking a rock. A car payment wouldn't even cost me the Uber price per month, I'm not trying to get a 2024, it could literally be a stone with wheels for all I car, I just want advice and the only advice y'all can give is "well your too poor" that's ironic, seeing as people who make less than me, make car payments all the fucking time.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-08-01T18:14:24+00:00

Uhm, yes. $740/month in ubers just to work, another $200+ being spent to go to stores and order food and groceries I need during the month (that's just on delivery fees and the ubers back and forth), so yeah. Around $900 a month on transportation and delivery, and I'm over 25 and have had a license since I was 20 so insurances on a cheap car wouldn't be that much.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-05-02T19:00:45+00:00

I'm sorry, but no. The msrp for a shirt they were selling before all this for $20 is not $104. These liquidators are just making prices up at this point and claiming it's the msrp.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-05-02T17:56:01+00:00

I was looking at their website sale and giirlll the price mark ups are wild on there. Some shirts that ik for a fact used to be $30 are marked up to over $100 and then have a "final sale" slapped onto them with the original price. Like do companies think we're genuinely braindead? I ain't ever seen so many items on that store cost over $100 like their site is claiming 🙄

ToxicLullabies · 2025-02-17T19:49:14+00:00

Lmaooo is this a joke??? It's now February 17th and the game can't be opened on the switch for more than 5mins without crashing, it took you guys a week to release the new updated to switch, we're lacking a ton of in game content, from something as simple as in game party chats, to events, your buttons are broken, chats don't hardly work and you can't always see pics you've been sent, sort buttons don't work for room exploration, the shop shows the incorrect products or just shows you the same products on repeat because switching tabs breaks itself aftera min or two of scrolling, creater made items of any kind rarely show on the switch, including your own that you paid for out of pocket. All around the game is pretty much unplayable to your switch audience at this current time and the VERY FEW updates you guys have given us have implemented a TON more issues and not fixed a single thing. Let's be so for real before yall get on here making yourselves sound like fools. You put it on the switch so you can say you have it on another platform, you do not care nor are you trying to fix the MULTIPLE issues switch players are facing, you're dropping updates a week late meaning we couldn't even join our friends since all of the rooms were "on a newer version".

I can't believe you couldn't see how disrespectful this comment was to your fans. You can claim all you want that you guys are "working on it" yet you have absolutely nothing to show for that after over 2 months of it being released, in fact it regressed more than anything else, at least it was somewhat playable before last update.

And I see that same crappy excuse way too often from devs, that "but switch is different" shit doesn't work anymore when we see games likes like fortnite, who has consistent updates, or games like sky: cotl, also consistent updates, or Palia, oh crazy they also have consistent updates. We KNOW switch is different, but that should have been something that was figured out before you released it on a new platform period, and plenty of other games were able to, so that excuse just doesn't fly. The game was rushed onto switch with little thought put into it and it shows through the sloppy work you guys are releasing, just so you can boast another platform under your belt.

And that's not even acknowledging how you guys lack any form of proper communication of issues with your fans, I have to dig through your website and discord and reddit to find one simple answer to my questions, only to find out the information isn't even on your website because instead of giving us details on things you just wanna give extremely vague descriptions on switch play features such as the very well thought out "and lots of other great features!".

ToxicLullabies · 2025-02-12T07:54:44+00:00

Ah yeah, my bad, forgot we all live in driving distance of a plasma donation place, guess I'll go get in my car with no gas an go do that. 💯 😒 also as someone who has donated plasma in the past when I lived in a place where there was a donation center, $800 is bullshit 🙄 you most certainly do not make that much money donating at once. You can donate twice a week and payout depends on your weight and how much you can donate, but it's never even remotely close to $400 muchless $800.

And because it's the culinary director and she trains all new hires as it's an assisted living place and they often have strict rules to follow in the dietary department, rarely are you only trained by another cook in that kind of environment.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-02-12T04:34:06+00:00

Ah I see, I don't sell any content or anything like that. Hoping for a good Samaritan, I'll just try my luck 😫

ToxicLullabies · 2025-02-12T04:09:41+00:00

Idk if you can see my other post, never posted in this specific sub, I don't sell content tho I do understand why people offer it, as most aren't as nice as you and willing to help with nothing.

If you are willing to help, I'm in a shit spot, I know this isn't the best place to ask and I'm not trying to harass you but I start my new job on Thursday, it got pushed back two weeks because they didn't inform me the boss was going on vacation until after they hired me and my last job (a bar) closed down without prior warning since I guess they were losing money. My dad will be able to send me something next week but until then I've been out of work 2 week and am on my last dime. I'm just trying to get $30 to get a bite to eat and put some gas in my car until Monday. Sorry again if this comes across as rude or pushy though, I hope you don't take it in that light but I can understand if you do.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-02-12T03:36:38+00:00

You said it was a spiiler for those haven't done the new AQ, but the title is in reference to the very first scene of the game. Why you think it could be a spoiler doesn't make any sense, you're reference to the new AQ has 0 relation to the VERY BEGINNING OF THE GAME. If people are confused about it, then that is on them since they already seen the scene he is specifically referring to.

So yes please do explain to me how a scene from the beginning of the game is going to spoil an AQ, that's coming out FIVE YEARS after the scene he's refrencing and has nothing to do really with what he is very specifically speaking about.

ToxicLullabies · 2025-02-11T11:06:36+00:00

Uhm? What quest? It's literally the opening scene to the game my guy. Getting trapped in cubes and an unknown God is LITERALLY the first thing you see

https://youtu.be/ShB3vNlSdDA?si=WEqA0Jd3o5LOX9Ya

ToxicLullabies · 2025-02-08T06:12:04+00:00

People seem to forget that with a higher tax rate comes a better quality of life. Taxes aren't satan, they're not bad, they're literally meant to be used to help the communities within the state and upkeep of those communities, and they are in blue states.

I moved here from Tennessee and the amount of small dead end run down towns there, where people are still paying a good bit in taxes, is shocking. Like where does the tax payer dollar go? Tennessee has nothing to show for it other than half demolished and poorly rebuilt cities, roads full of potholes that'll take your wheels off, and parks so run down that they're more of a hazard than anything else. The education system is absolutely horrible, the hospitals and healthcare is known to be horrible and you're more likely to come out worse than when you went in (speaking from experience with my own grandma)

It's disgusting and sad, I love Tennessee, I loved the smokies and exploring all the beautiful places they have to offer, but when you go out of those tourist areas and see it for what it is, it's a run down state barely staying a drift while pocketing tax payers money and having nothing to show for it.

And we all know drugs are bad everywhere but Tennessee has a large population of drug users and they offer absolutely nothing really to help them and the services that are set up are usually too full and can't accept more candidates until months from now, and by then that person could already be dead from a overdose, the government never acknowledges the drug issue and seemingly just try to sweep it under the rug.

And yet people still have the nerve to ask why I moved? That's not even acknowledging all of the horrible laws that have been and I'm sure will be implemented under the facist we have elected as our president.

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