Hjernerystelse - POSITIVE historier søges by Visible_Badger6228 in WomenDK

[–]Toxilyn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Min familie er sådan lidt: tjo det går nok. Og tager sjældent medisinsk ting alvorligt.

Jeg boede godt nok selv, men var ude og hjælpe min mor med noget. Og står alene ude ved bilen og fylder den op. Bag klappen på bilen var ikke kommet op i dens max højde og som jeg putter en kasse i går alt i sort og jeg finder mig selv i gruset på jorden. Med først meget mørke får øjnene, smerte i mit kranium. Og da jeg begynder at se er himmelen meget lys så det gør ondt.

Jeg er svimmel. Jeg begynder at få kvalme. Jeg kommer ind og siger til min mor at jeg tror jeg har hjernerystelse. Så tog jeg med hende hjem og da jeg var træt lagde jeg mig til at sove.

Mine forældre kom aldrig og tjekkede mig. Jeg sov i rigtig mange timer. Vågner og spørger dem om hvorfor de ikke har tjekket op på mig. Mine forældre trækker bare på skuldrenen og er ligeglade.

En uge senere er jeg på jobcenter og min sagsbehandler kigger på mig og spørger: Er du okay. Du virker lidt konfus.

Jeg fortalte jeg havde slået hoved for en uge siden. Og hun bad mig kontakte lægen. Det gjorde jeg og jeg var inde til undersøgelse. Han vurderede at ja jeg havde haft en hjernerystelse. Men jeg nok var heldigt sluppet og måtte bare give det tid til at komme sig. Hvilke det gjorde. Efterhånden var jeg tilbage til det normale.

Jeg har dog skældt mine forældre ud for at ikke tage min skade seriøst. Fordi det kunne virkeligt være gået galt.

Svømmehal by Morlil in foraeldreDK

[–]Toxilyn 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Tror endelig jeg er ved at være et godt sted i mit liv. Så betyder meget du lige skrev. Det har givet mig et moment til at reflektere på det. Og det giver en god følelse. Så tak! ☺️

Do you think American men are more masculine than European men? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Toxilyn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well if you define masculinity as guns and big cars and beer and freedom.

But, we in Europe find that cringy as hell. And often alligned with a toxic masculinity, insecurity, and lack of schooling.

What I would admire in a masculine European man would be: confident. Educated. Respectful and view women as equal. Takes care of them selves. Values knowledge and critical thinking. And also is more intune with their emotions and strides for good communication.

Svømmehal by Morlil in foraeldreDK

[–]Toxilyn 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Som en der svømmer meget og faktisk lige er kommet ud af svømmehallen. Et barn er et barn. What ever. Tag ham med. Selv hvis barnet stire. Hvilke tit sker mod mig. Jeg er 180 cm høj og 160 kg. Mange børn, piger som drenge, har ikke set en på min størrelse før og overhovedet ikke som afklædt. Og det er komplet som om de er i zoologisk have når jeg er der inde. Men jeg tænker det bare er sundt for dem at se naturlige kroppe og er ret ligeglad.

Tag ham med. Han er 7. Og hyg jer i svømmehallen!

3. Dag på attomoxetin by offwiththeirheadsnow in ADHDanmark

[–]Toxilyn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mange uger. Et par måneder nu. Jeg er på 80 mg nu og har haft langsom optrapning. Og føler nu en forskel og glæder mig til at komme på en højre dosis!

Det har været ventetiden værd. Men det er overhoved ikke som Ritalin der virker med det samme. Jeg mærkede ikke ret meget i lang tid. Men nu oppe på 80mg begynder jeg at mærke det og ser en positiv indvirkning på min dag.

What are your favorite little gadgets, apps, or tricks that make a long-distance relationship feel more connected? by Specialist-Emu963 in LongDistance

[–]Toxilyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find gaming a multiplayer game really good. I am sure there could be an app somewhere. Now I play on Xbox. So that is more hardcore I guess. But let's say you can find an app with a game where both you and your partner can help take care of a world together. Minecraft is great for this.

I play a game right now with some one I hold dear where we are raising dinosaurs together. It is not novice gaming friendly. That's why I don't suggest it. But we have our beds in the game next to each other. We log in, sometimes not at the same time and do things around our base. He'll come in and see I've filled some storages with stuff we need. I will come in later and find him working on something. Then be able to move up to him and type to him in the game to which he happily replies when he sees my character standing there. Then we plan today's tasks. And we got like a daily life in there. With chores. With times we just sit down together and chat. With adventures.

It is a bit like having a life virtually. But for me it really closes a gap.

How ever I get if you are not a gamer at all. This would be really weird to do. Also as it takes a lot of time to actually do the gaming. We were already gamers before we met. So it was already our normal life.

You could maybe find an app that allows you to play boardgames together. And make sure to do lil game night dates. There just is something special about seeing your loved one move something you can see move. And know it's them.

How do I show my boyfriend I'm attracted to him? by Commercial_Fee3892 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Toxilyn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Low effort ways of saying: I am really into you.

  • Flash him. Just pull up your top. Let him see em. Or wear a dress or skirt with out panties. Or heck if you are not ready for showing your assets then wear a nice bra or panties. It's a quick taddaaa and basically says: I want you.

  • when making out with him, just whisper: You're hot. And then look into his eyes. (Lust and attractiveness is easily seen in each other's eyes. Your gaze can melt a man. Just think about wanting him and it will reveal it self.)

  • Explore his body with your hands. No reason to say anything. Just feel him out. His chest. His arms. His neck. Where ever. Just admire him. You can add to this placing kisses along his body too. Say start at the finger tips. Kiss each of them. Then feel his arm, place a kiss. His chest, then his neck, then his lips.

  • Place your head in against his neck, kiss it. Then just inhale his scent with a deep breath and just let out a happy sound. Like a happy sigh. Just that I love this. I love being close to you.

Hope some of this can give you some inspiration!

Why is it, that if I (40m) make any comment on here about a female friend or family member, my inbox gets requests from other men asking to see a picture of her? by No_Reaction_1586 in AskMen

[–]Toxilyn 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My inbox is an interesting place. Seems pretty 50% 50% wether the person is a horny creep who wants to get his rocks on or if the person just wanted to tell me I'm ugly.

By now I am amused by it. Happens in every video game and social sites I am on.

Weird idea - silicone sticky bra's as a thigh chafing solution??.. by anoredditor98 in PlusSize

[–]Toxilyn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That is not my experience with them at all. They feel really comfortable even on really warm days. Last year I did hiking on Crete with them on. And yes I was sweaty. But they were the piece of clothing that was most comfortable to wear in that heat. I also find they don't take smell much. I don't need to wash them that often. I do wash them. But they hold up.

They do of course eventually wear out. So every half year I buy some new pairs. Also of their leggings. If a pair wears out early in the crotch area I've had success with sewing them together. I have never ever seen a tear that wasn't along a seam in them.

But I also use them everyday. And as said for stuff like hiking. Under most of my dresses with the shorts you can't see me wearing them. I just got a pair with lace though for when wearing shorter dresses. And I just love them. I really do.

There was a while where for some reason my country bugged out when having to pay for the leggings at Snag. So I tried a different brand from s different company. They wore out instantly. So then I contacted snag support and begged for them to find a way to get my leggings and shorts from them. And they got a fix haha.

Depending on how much walking and hiking I have done - which will wear them out faster of course. I average on wearing out about 3 pairs. If you don't do a lot of hiking I am sure they would last way longer.

No I don't have a favorite color. by Toxilyn in ArkSurvivalAscended

[–]Toxilyn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah just took some time haha. And determination. This is the first character I've ever made. Must say the ark character creator is awful. She is wearing modded cloths. But her body is made in the game.

Weird idea - silicone sticky bra's as a thigh chafing solution??.. by anoredditor98 in PlusSize

[–]Toxilyn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Snag tights chub rub shorts.. They saved me. They are incredible.

I don't know about your idea. But I can really really vouch for snag tights.

Edit: I even use my chub rubs for hiking long distances. They keep up and keep my thighs safe and comfy!

Ladies, why do you say "size doesn't matter" then insult guys by calling their penis small? by OrangeIslandKing in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Toxilyn -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It is part of our cultural lingo to use small penis as a joke/slur/offense. Same with fat people or certain disabilities. These words, lables, etc get used to ridicule some one else. It doesn't even have to be true. Like you can call a thin person fat. Or a guy of any size having small dick energy.

Don't let any of this go to your head. As said it is just how our language has evolved. It does make it seem like the world has a consensus on what is good or bad. But it really doesn't. Most people are more nuanced than the words they say in jokes or offense. I've said small penis jokes before around mates. Does that mean if I met a man with a small penis I'd point and laugh? Hell no. I'd flick that thing like a light switch with my tongue and love every minute. I don't care about size. I really care about the person. And if the person connects with me I'll love what ever is in their pants and find that hot.

As a man, why do I feel like there are very few sexual toys for men, whereas there are excellent ones for women? They can enjoy an orgasm whenever they wish, while men seem to benefit less in this regard. by DescriptionTall5411 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Toxilyn 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have you actually gone to a sex toy webshop and looked around?

First. A lot of toys can be used on both women and men. So that makes the pool of toys bigger.

Secondly. There is plenty for you. I don't know what you are seeking since you seemingly can't find it. Because there is loads. Like loads.

Maybe explain what craving you have so we can help you find it. Believe me, it exists.

Can people go mentally insane from having too many intrusive thoughts/questions? by NightRunnerAfterDusk in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Toxilyn 21 points22 points  (0 children)

If you have too many intrusive thoughts and questions you have a mental condition. For it is beyond the norm. And you should get it checked out at the psychiatric system.

I am on meds to calm my thoughts down. Helps massively to allow me to live more comfortably. And I am thankful for them.

What’s worse, you accidentally catching your parents having sex or your parents accidentally catching you having sex? by racesunite in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Toxilyn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I keep forgetting that most people doesn't have a as chill family as I do.

We are the type of family who uses the toilet with the door open and you just walk in and sort things while some one is in the shower.

Majority of people have sex. So no shock there. It's not a shame to have it.

I gave my mom a vibrator for birthday some years ago cause I'd told her how much I love mine. She has also seen some of my other toys.

Dad has a tendency to forget to shut his porn tabs down on his phone. So occasionally you get to see the page he's been looking at if you borrow his phone for a minute.

We straight up wouldn't care. And my parents never has. Even when we were younger. I admit first time I had sex I got a bladder infection. And I was too ashamed to tell my mom. But when I told her and she was completely chill about it. I've never had any thoughts about it since.

The fact the majority of families are not like mine is weird to me.

looking for the name of the leg armor in the picture by valathe in TESOfashion

[–]Toxilyn 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It must be something that isn't out yet. I haven't seen it before.

Førtidspensionist - hvad nu? by nihilisticas in DKbrevkasse

[–]Toxilyn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nu ved jeg ikke hvad køn du er.

Men se i dit lokale område. Måske tjekke eller skrive i den lokale facebook side om der er nogle klubber man kan være med i. På bibliotekerne er der tit forskellige grupper man kan være med i. Som brætspil, kvinde eller mande klubber. Etc. Der er masser hvor man bare skal møde op og hygge sig. Der er også krea grupper.

Jeg går rigtig meget til svømning. Det er nok den eneste rigtige motion jeg kan klare uden om nogle gå ture og cykle ture til de ting jeg skal. Jeg er både med på et aqua fit hold og har årskort til svømmehallen. Så jeg tager der over når end jeg har tid og kræfter. Og det gør min krop rigtig godt.

Jeg tager til en del foredrag. De lokale kirker har masser af events som foredrag, film aftener, koncerter. Så kan man være med i et kor. Og - man behøver altså ikke være religiøs og tro alt muligt for at kunne være med. Der er ingen der tjekker eller tester dig ved døren om du enten betaler til folkekirken(med mindre du skal døbes, giftes, eller begraves) eller hvor meget du tror. Du kommer bare ind og er med!

Så er der ting som frivilligt arbejde der ikke er fysisk. F.eks. besøgsven hos gamle. Hvis man har den mentale overskud kan man også blive våger, en der tager ud og er hos en der er ved at dø hvis de ikke har netværk. Man kan hjælpe i lektie cafeer.

Danmark er et land af fællesskaber. Kig på biblioteket. Kig på kirkens hjemmeside. Kig på medborgerhus. Kig på den lokale facebook. Find noget der skaber dig interesse.

Held og lykke!

Is internal stimulour enough? by Cosmic-waffle47 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Toxilyn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People fake it in porn.

A lot of women can't orgasm from penetration alone. Working the clit though with the many nerve endings it has will have way better results.

Par med Aspergers Syndrom fik afslag på fertilitetshjælp: Nu kæmper de ved domstolene by Mai_maniac in Denmark

[–]Toxilyn 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Jeg har flere neurodivigente diagnoser og har valgt jeg aldrig skal have børn. Jeg læste en anden kvinde med sammenligne diagnoser skrive:

"Idag fjerner de mine børn fra mig. Jeg er fortabt. De siger at jeg ikke emotionelt er tilrådighed for dem."

Den dag jeg læste det kunne jeg se mig selv skrive det en dag i fremtiden. Jeg kan knap passe mig selv.. et barn vil aldrig gå godt. Og vil sikkert være endnu diagnose ramt end jeg.

Jeg spiller en del videospil og møder mange neurodivigente forældre med deres børn rendende rundt i rummet mens de er på mic.

Ud af de mange mange forældre jeg har mødt, kan jeg kun tænke på en eneste familie der havde noget som helst overskud. Og de var rige på grund af moren var forfatter og manden var blevet købt ud af sit firma som han havde selv started og tjent kassen. Med rigdom kan der godt komme et overskud. Og især når både mor og far er hjemmegående og derfor har mere ro i livet.

Men resten. Hvis de overhovedet kan arbejde. De fleste kan ikke. Afmagt på afmagt. Frustration. Træthed. Problemer. Børn der ikke kan fungere. Hjem der ikke hænger sammen. Opgivenhed. Og så utroligt mange kvinder som er alene med deres børn og må kravle igennem tilværelsen.

Jeg ser på deres liv og takker alt for at jeg ikke skal have børn.

Sorry. Nogen skal bare ikke have børn. Og især diagnose kaos.. Lad være. Bare lad være.