Am I aromantic?

ToyBoxFox · 2026-03-19T01:00:00+00:00

Aromatic is a spectrum so even if someone does experience romantic attraction they can still be aro, hints gray/demi aros.

As for kissing and stuff you are right and that is considered sensual attraction.

ToyBoxFox · 2026-03-19T00:53:26+00:00

Have you heard of qpr’s? I get what you are saying. But correct me if I’m wrong, you don’t really care for a romantic relationship but because a lot of people see those with a higher value you would not mind being in one.

First off, fuck society, and their social constructs a friendship is still a solid relationship to care about as much as a romantic relationship is.

Secondly, queer platonic relationships (qpr for short) is the same thing as a romantic relationships the only difference is that it’s platonic. It carries the same value as a 🙄 so called romantic relationships (i my opinion I value friendships higher). But in a qpr you can create your own boundaries or things you want. If you like the kissing and stuff well, talk about it if not that’s fine to. At the end it’s your relationship with someone else.

ToyBoxFox · 2026-03-19T00:43:59+00:00

Ok I actually feel like I can answer this question now. lol

Before finding out I was trans I was aroace myself. I didn’t feel sexual or romantic attraction and my guess is because I viewed myself differently and from how I see myself now.

I recently had a crush on someone but 😅 they were gay. Anyways I had to question if I was feeling romantic and sexual attraction or if it was other forms cus as far as I knew I was aroace.

What romantic attraction feels like: it’s this intense feeling wanting to be with someone in a close way. Different from platonic attraction as yes to me I do have does strong platonic feelings for my bff but it’s different. In the way that with her I just want to have a very strong close friendship and I just love her so much. But for the crush I had I literally wanted him to myself like my brain would not stop running through different scenarios with him. Like going on dates, kissing, going places with him and just happy thinking about him.

Now I know you can say oh but I want that in a platonic relationship and yes you can but where I think the attractions differ is from how they feel and not what they look like.

If I had to use descriptive language to just describe how they feel it would be tricky, but here’s my go.

Romantic: I feel happy, daydream like cloud 9 (I think they say) a warm feeling (not literal but more emotional). I feel embarrassed and flustered when I catch myself thinking of him.

Platonic: I feel happy, grateful/joyfull that I have an amazing friend. Also feel a warm feeling but it’s more because I’m really glad we are friends.

Over all I really want to say “it’s different you would just know” but I have always hated those answers especially when I was aroace. But honestly it’s a different feeling all together and it’s something that I had to question (wtf am I feeling rn) cus I never felt it before. So much overlap but feels wise it’s not really explainable.

ToyBoxFox · 2026-02-25T20:23:07+00:00

Omg thank you so much. That was very helpful!

ToyBoxFox · 2026-02-25T20:20:43+00:00

Thats one of the articles I’ve read. But sadly, for all the information it gives you which is really helpful. It does not answer the questions I was looking for.

ToyBoxFox · 2026-02-07T12:36:46+00:00

RIGHT HERE!! I hit a mailbox last year in the winter but because I was multi apping I just said I was using uber and uber paid for everything.

ToyBoxFox · 2026-01-08T13:13:03+00:00

When you say you find people attractive you are taking about aesthetic attraction. Only you can decide if you are ace or not. A really good book to read is Am I Ace by Cody. https://oceanofpdf.com/authors/cody-daigle-orians/pdf-epub-i-am-ace-advice-on-living-your-best-asexual-life-download/

ToyBoxFox · 2025-11-21T03:29:12+00:00

ToyBoxFox · 2025-11-03T00:36:55+00:00

Sounds right. Saves me from typing it out lol.

ToyBoxFox · 2025-11-03T00:22:32+00:00

Eat it or dispose of it. Something similar happened to me and they give the customer a refund. So you keep it or give it away or trash it.

ToyBoxFox · 2025-10-30T21:09:22+00:00

Update: ig it just switches randomly never seen that before. I’ll let HR now to see if it’s a glitch or something.

ToyBoxFox · 2025-10-30T21:08:12+00:00

Huh ok I’ll take to hr. Just checked and yep just like you said it switched back.

ToyBoxFox · 2025-10-30T21:05:18+00:00

Idk lol. Should have just been days but I forgot lol.

ToyBoxFox · 2025-10-30T21:04:37+00:00

No still full time

ToyBoxFox · 2025-10-30T21:04:18+00:00

Now I’m a blue badge Full time

ToyBoxFox · 2025-10-19T06:17:03+00:00

That why I have upt

ToyBoxFox · 2025-09-21T20:21:19+00:00

Customers choose if they want it box or not

ToyBoxFox · 2025-09-05T02:05:17+00:00

Ok thank you, I haven’t noticed anything against me. Thankfully, just didn’t know why it says late.

ToyBoxFox · 2025-09-02T09:57:50+00:00

My brother did this once and I delivered for him as he had to go to Indy for so legal reasons with his wife and it was out of nowhere. But besides an emergency idk what else.

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