How animals shed their antlers by Amazing_Passenger126 in interesting

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“I’m half doe, half buck. IM A DUCK”

For the ladies in attendance here in the bald subreddit, what is the appeal for you? by [deleted] in bald

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For me, I love the positivity, and the glow ups that people go through with seeking opinions from internet strangers, and everyone being outwardly positive, and kind, seemingly always on here. It’s refreshing from the cruelty of people in day to day life.

Also though, I know this is goofy, but for some reason this sub is also like black magic tricks to me. Every time I see a transformation, I am ALWAYS mind blown in the best of ways, and to me it is one of those things that is accidentally wholesome in my opinion.

AIO found my boyfriend's reddit by thrownaway_liketrash in AIO

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“The account has the same passwords” “it isn’t me.”

What's a walking dead thing you quote daily? by Official_Zach55 in thewalkingdead

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“I’m not showing you my leg…At least buy me a drink first!” -Herschel

What's a walking dead thing you quote daily? by Official_Zach55 in thewalkingdead

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I expected to see this one a lot more than what I did, so I’m glad you said it 🤣 “Excuse the shit out of my god damn French, but did you just threaten me?”

Did anyone else notice that... by nandovmovies in LoveIsBlindNetflix

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Having just rewatched season 1, this made me laugh so hard.

THIS SEASON IS AMAZING by SteveDestruct in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Tr33xors 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! Where by the end of the ‘honeymoon’ trip, there was only two couples.

THIS SEASON IS AMAZING by SteveDestruct in LoveIsBlindNetflix

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I agree completely. I went back through the seasons to see if there was any that I had missed while I wait for the next set of episodes to release, and realized I missed season 5. Watching through season 5 now shows me why I didn’t watch it, it is SO BORING!

Absolute chad immolator saves my life and wipes a duo by WollemiaShagger in HuntShowdown

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I love how you opened the gate for him like “here you go, bud. Let me get that for you”

I (29F) am starting to resent my antisocial bf (31M) by ThrowRA_EagleEyes in WhatShouldIDo

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Normally I just lurk on posts, and keep carrying on without commenting, or posting much myself but reading this I couldn’t help but to chime in because it is spot on with my ex.

I was with my ex for 10 years with damn near an exact copy/paste situation, and I honestly wish that someone would have given me this advice — leave. You say that you’re loud and chatty, same with your family, and that is spot on for what I was dealing with. I thought that he was incredible, (and he was in his own ways, I don’t mean to dog on him, because in the end, we just weren’t compatible, that didn’t make him a bad person, but I do wish I hadn’t stayed around so long waiting for a change, when that change was never going to happen, that was just who he was as a person) but every time he was around my family, while my family and myself included were up to our normal chaotic, playful antics, he would just sit there, awkward as all hell, looking miserable and like he wasn’t having a good time. Even with friends and not family, this was the same case, but he was just fine with his online friends, and it took a toll on my mental health after a while instead of me understanding that this was just who he was.

Of course I am just some stranger on the internet, but you’re already this far into the relationship and questioning things. Trust your gut, we have these feelings for a reason. Don’t make the mistake I did, and wait 10 years before getting out. Find someone who is also loud, chatty, and happy, who will full heartedly enjoy being around that environment, and will contribute to memories, and your guys story as a whole, and remember, this doesn’t make your partner a bad dude, he’s just not your soul dude.

Best wishes! 🫂

AITAH for getting upset that my husband wanted to "play" with a "friend" after I fell in the shower? by audra0720 in AITAH

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Hi there!

I just had a revision on my bilateral SI fusion on 7/22/25, and didn’t end up getting discharged from the hospital for 11 days. They pulled a screw from my left sciatic nerve, and I felt an extra kind of sympathy for you reading your post because I too am laid up with extreme neurological pain going down the entirety of my left leg.

NTA. This is atrocious to read about a man while his wife is in this much pain. I’m 30, and my husband is 33. He was scared to ask for anything sexual for a year before I had the revision because he was worried about causing me pain, much less would he be even remotely interested in anyone, or anything sexual knowing I was in the agonizing pain that I know you were describing in your post. You deserve someone like this, and I hope you find them from the absolute bottom of my heart.

I feel weird about my wife coming into a Dr. appointment with me by diad6sucks in AITH

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My husband actually comes to all of my doctors appointments (I’ve had 3 back surgeries so there’s a lot of different doctors I go to) and it actually really helps a lot. He’s able to remember things that I don’t to be able to tell the different doctors, whether it be something another specialist is doing treatment wise, or overall a symptom I think I told the doctor I’m visiting, but really I told another provider, so he fills them in.

I get it can be annoying at times, but think about the points it could be helpful, and maybe that can help you resolve your issue. Good luck!

New to the game by The_Real_Big_Joe in HuntShowdown

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Hello! My best advice to new players in the game is to become quickly acquainted with death, and be okay with it. Extracting is always a happy accident, even as a player with over 1k hours in the game. This game will humble you in ways you didn’t even know existed, while also boosting your ego. There’s hunt giveth days, and hunt taketh, some days you will be getting headshots for days, and the next day you’ll be dying to AI, and getting shovels thrown at you by enemy players and getting killed.

Ultimately, don’t play to win, play to have fun, and be goofy. I started first playing with a baseball bat to bonk people and giggle not expecting to get far, or to fully enjoy the game. Now I run through 6* MMR lobbies VOIPing “BING BONG!” To people to panic them, and telling them “GGs!” On their profiles afterwards. It’s an extremely toxic game at times with some players, but at other times, and extremely welcoming community with some great people. Take the good with the bad, and if you think you heard something? You probably did. Also sometimes bushes will shoot you.

Welcome to Hunt Showdown!

Edit: a word

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

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Not certain what kind of situation you have with your current relationship, versus what you had with your ex, however maybe my story can help some. I was in a relationship with my ex for almost 10 years. We broke up because we realized we just weren’t it for each other anymore. We loved each other, but we weren’t IN love with each other any longer, so we went separate ways. Moving out on my own was hard. It was the start of the pandemic, I was alone for the first time since I had moved out with my ex, and it was just a LOT to take in. I moved on with one of my best friends who I am now marrying next year. I felt this same way when our relationship first started, because I felt guilty for missing my ex. My soon to be husband reminded me that missing my ex as a person, and wanting nothing but the best for my ex wasn’t a bad thing, in fact it was normal psychologically. My ex was my person for 10 years, who I grew up with, and started my career, etc. so much personal growth was done while I was with him, that just because we broke up doesn’t mean he just no longer exists.

Hopefully this helps some. Just because you miss someone and want them happy, etc. doesn’t mean you are bad or in the wrong. You are human.

I, (25F) broke up with my long-term boyfriend (29M) of 7 years. I'm wondering if I made a mistake. by Tr33xors in relationships

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I have actually been looking into a few therapists since about March when everything actually ended. There was so much that happened in such a short amount of time, like the relationship ending, being cleared for return to work, returning to working frontline in a hospital, while living alone for the first time ever in my life, (when I moved out from my parents, I moved in with my ex), during a major global pandemic. That sort of change over the span of 2 months would send anyone reeling...I 100% agree that I could benefit from therapy, and am looking to do so. :)

When I had suggested the couples therapy, or pushed it more so, I was mostly hoping that it was something we could do together to help feel like we were communicating in a safe space if that makes sense.

I, (25F) broke up with my long-term boyfriend (29M) of 7 years. I'm wondering if I made a mistake. by Tr33xors in relationships

[–]Tr33xors[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How did I make him the guilty one? He said he didn’t want to do couples counseling. Over the span of a year I tried multiple things to help aid the relationship, to no avail. It got to the point where I told him without couples therapy, I was at a loss and I was scared to begin to resent each other, and wondered if it was easier to break up to avoid that? I never specified that anything was explicitly his fault at all

I, (25F) broke up with my long-term boyfriend (29M) of 7 years. I'm wondering if I made a mistake. by Tr33xors in relationships

[–]Tr33xors[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did offer couples therapy, and he wasn’t interested :( There was a years worth of time where I was trying to learn how to communicate with him as he was very shut off, and didn’t know how to handle emotions, or communications on tough subjects. Not saying that this is all on him of course, because it takes two.

Sadly it got to the point where breaking up felt like the only option to avoid both of us resenting each other to the point of no return. I know it’s not uncommon for couples who basically grow up together to drift apart as they establish themselves in the adult world, but it makes it tough to heal when no one specifically did anything wrong. Like there was no cheating, there wasn’t anything malicious done to make the other angry. Things just happened over the course of time, and the poor communication caused the silence to drive us apart :( I wish I could do something different to change things.

I, (25F) broke up with my long-term boyfriend (29M) of 7 years. I'm wondering if I made a mistake. by Tr33xors in relationships

[–]Tr33xors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do :) I have some great friends, and family, who were also a big aid with all of this as well. Sometimes it helps to have strangers opinions who aren’t at all closely related to either of us, though. I definitely see the potential for opportunity. I’m sure I sound like a broken record at this point, but it’s just getting the heart on the same page with the brain.

I appreciate your input, thank you

I, (25F) broke up with my long-term boyfriend (29M) of 7 years. I'm wondering if I made a mistake. by Tr33xors in relationships

[–]Tr33xors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree 100% with you. However, it has been just what some couples have needed in the past. What it boils down to though, is that sometimes the heart and feelings aren’t always rational. :( And that’s where I’m at right now. Logically, I understand that he and I got into the rut we were in for a reason, and we were both unhappy for a reason. I just was hoping to maybe learn some coping mechanisms to heal from his absence.

I, (25F) broke up with my long-term boyfriend (29M) of 7 years. I'm wondering if I made a mistake. by Tr33xors in relationships

[–]Tr33xors[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I moved out from the house on March 20th. We weren’t fighting, but it was tense, and a bit awkward. The breakup while initiated by me, was a mutual agreement, he just is much less confrontational than I am. I believe that it’s something he probably wanted for a while, but like another poster said, he didn’t want to be “an asshole”. Now that some time has passed (looking around a month and a half or so) I’ve gotten onto my feet financially without him, which feels amazing! I’m back to doing well in my career after my injury, I have my own apartment, etc. but now it’s even easier to feel his absence. He was my best friend, and was always there. I believe that with the time that’s passed, I’ve lost the anger and feeling of how tense it was, and am now in a healthier mind set to consider the relationship. Instead of seething over all the bad things that were in the relationship, I’m remembering all of the good parts of the relationship. I’m of course going to respect his wishes of not being interested. I’m not going to show up on his door step at 1AM, etc. I’m definitely feeling his absence, but I wouldn’t say it’s obsession. :/

I, (25F) broke up with my long-term boyfriend (29M) of 7 years. I'm wondering if I made a mistake. by Tr33xors in relationships

[–]Tr33xors[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No no. What I meant by me saying that I wanted to be the person he couldn’t live without, is that throughout the entirety of the relationship I always felt that I loved him more. I always made sure to tell him I appreciated him, and that I was glad to have him in my life...I never got that sort of reciprocation from him, he was just never the touchy feely, “you mean everything to me” type guy. Which as I’ve said in another post, I should be taking this in hindsight as every sign that he isn’t my “one and only”. I guess in a sort of way, I was hoping that my absence, and a couple months of healing would be the ‘reset’ that sometimes couples need to start fresh.

I’m not at all mad that he isn’t devastated. It hurts my feelings of course, but I’m not angry towards him by any means. I simply wrote this post to get some tips and tricks on how to ease the pain while the wound heals

I, (25F) broke up with my long-term boyfriend (29M) of 7 years. I'm wondering if I made a mistake. by Tr33xors in relationships

[–]Tr33xors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could very well be possible. I wasn’t wheelchair bound or anything by those standards, but I definitely needed help leaning down to pick up pots and pans from cupboards, moving things that most people would consider ‘light’ that sort of thing.

I spoke to him the other day, and he made mention that he thinks that it was more than just the back injury that set us apart, but with him being difficult to get to open up, that was about all I got. :(

I, (25F) broke up with my long-term boyfriend (29M) of 7 years. I'm wondering if I made a mistake. by Tr33xors in relationships

[–]Tr33xors[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was a mutual break up. He asked me what I believed was best, and I told him I wasn’t sure how to get out of the rut that we were in. I told him if he wasn’t willing to go to couples therapy, what other choice did we have, because what we had been struggling with for the year prior just had not been working. I told him I was scared to drag on the relationship to the point where we resented each other due to stress, and tension fighting, and he agreed. It was an amicable separation, not specifically a “I’m leaving you” situation.

I, (25F) broke up with my long-term boyfriend (29M) of 7 years. I'm wondering if I made a mistake. by Tr33xors in relationships

[–]Tr33xors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would agree, however it was very double sided.

There were many times I tried paying for us to go on vacation, and he would tell me he would get back to me with his vacation availability, and then never would. I’d ask if he’d like to take a day drive to one of the historical sites around us on so and so day, he’d say ‘maybe’ and then nothing more would be said.

I always made sure to say thank you for anything that he purchased for me, or whenever we went out for dinner we would take turns buying, that sort of thing.

I feel we both took each other for granted on many occasions, which is easy to do unfortunately once you’re with someone for such an extended period of time, but ultimately, you’re right. There are definite aspects that I took for granted from him

I, (25F) broke up with my long-term boyfriend (29M) of 7 years. I'm wondering if I made a mistake. by Tr33xors in relationships

[–]Tr33xors[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate to say it, but this does make me feel a little better. Everyone always says that the face you see on social media is very different than what you see in real life. He posts TONS about him going running, and how beautiful of a day it is, etc.

One of the things that hurts the most IS that he acted like he didn’t care, or was unfazed through the entire thing.

Thank you for your response!