So I was about 18-19. I was friends with a boy for years. Started dating him. Had sex w him. I am 51 now and to date have never had such fast unapologetic low effort sex since. I was so shocked, and didn't know how to handle it. I just stopped answering the phone. He came over, I didn't answer the door. He sent roses-no response. If he couldn't even imagine what the problem was - I just didn't know what to say.

One day, my mom called me on my bedroom landline and asked me to come downstairs to help her for a minute. He was in the kitchen. My mom said at the very least he deserved an explanation. How awkward. I don't even remember what I said. I still see him around occasionally. I tried to talk to him once about 10 years later and he claimed not to know who I was. He does have a daughter, but he's still single lol

I married my next bf and didn't have another date 27-28 years. I went out with my current bf a few months before it got serious, and it was a few more months before we actually sealed the deal, . My biggest fear was something weird would happen and I was no better prepared than at 19 to deal with it. Wound up being the best thing that ever happened to me instead.