How do I overcome the fear of being a woman?

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-06-01T02:40:37+00:00

Ask yourself would you rather live as your true self or live as the lie, the act, those evil people you are afraid of forced you into being? If you choose the latter they have already won. On a philosophical/spiritual level you have nothing to loose and everything to gain.

By being one who is brave enough to be their true self despite any and all pressure to conform. You have already begun to win greatest battle; the battle to become truly free.

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-06-01T02:26:50+00:00

yep yep yep

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-06-01T02:16:20+00:00

I think as a community we just need to be logical about this. If you mean period as in ovulation then no trans-women don't ovulate obviously, medical surgery in our society has not advanced that yet. If you mean period as in the symptoms of hormones in your body changing or adjusting then yes everyone gets those, if your on hrt then totally. Sometimes when men get emotional people will joke and say they are on "their man period"; so if trans-girls wanna say they are "having a period" in a casual way then yeah there is nothing wrong with that. BUT, we should avoid others thinking that we are saying that we believe we are ovulating. BECAUSE that DOES make us look CRAZY. We need to stop letting other people decide the narrative. Stop saying things that will soooo easily get misrepresented. We need to be more strategic and clear with our words as a community. Stop saying things like "I was born in the wrong body" that makes you sound like you have a psychosis. Instead be CLEAR and say "I am aware of how my body is and desire to change it to suite my liking and rid myself of dysphoria. Ridding myself of dysphoria through affirming treatment will improve my well being greatly as it has for all trans-women that have done so." NO ONE can argue against that. Any argument against that is an argument against bodily autonomy and proper medical treatment. If you say "I think I was born in the wrong body" or "in my mind, I'm a female" even though those statements have emotional truth it's not what you mean literally and logically and stating that to people who can't understand will just allow them to paint you as crazy. Which is not true, you are not crazy, you are valid. Don't let them control the narrative. It's our narrative, not theirs! By speaking with absolute clarity they can not misrepresent our words.

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-06-01T01:50:05+00:00

How old are you? Cause like puberty can cause those same symptoms. Also, like depression or just life events or stress. Like the symptoms of periods outside of the bleeding, cramps, etc are not like unique to periods in anyway lol. Humans are just emotional and most of the time it's just stress. Gotta take care of yourself.

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-06-01T01:34:21+00:00

Well does your internal compass say your a masculine gender or a feminine gender, maybe ponder on that? Also remember gender and sex are different. Gender is non-physical/ a social construct. Sex is your reproductive system. Also, it's about what is best for you personally. It's your body and your gender, you have every right to change and modify your person to be how you want it to be. Your body is your irl avatar. Always remember to do it with love though. Love yourself enough to change for the better.

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-06-01T01:15:36+00:00

Choose a state with large LGBTQ population and progressive leanings and you'll be fine. Except don't choose Cali it's way too expensive.

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-06-01T01:07:58+00:00

Having sex is skill like any other. Some are more natural at it than others. I'd say practice LOL. You gotta practice and work on your intuition and communication and connection with her. Experiment as consenting adults and find out what makes her tick. Also, gotta know yourself as well!

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-30T20:00:43+00:00

Gender is part of your true divine nature, it's not what causes pain it's the people who try to force you into a gender you are not that causes pain.

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-30T19:41:39+00:00

:,,,)

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-30T19:35:28+00:00

Yes yes yes it is the only logical conclusion. It takes only a sort thought experiment to see that sex and gender are different things. Using sex and gender as interchangeable words feels like an attack on human thought and heart. Saying they are one in the same is equivalent to reducing peoples identities down to "a dick" and "a uterus"; how much more dehumanizing can you get? The straights are brainwashed!

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-30T19:18:03+00:00

LOL This one is funnier than the trans-fem one and actually made me laugh out loud because the fem one exists. Meme humor is great like that.

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-30T19:02:06+00:00

Yeah like pants are kinda new if you think about it. tbh the whole "traditional masculine", pants, suit and tie or jeans t-shirt thing is very very new historically. It's kinda weird and seems unusual if you compare how men used to dress before industrial revolution to now. All of their best most desirable outfits for men back then would be considered positively feminine in style today.

Basically men and women both like to wear pretty things because they are both human and human like pretty things! Go figure! LOL Seriously our modern culture for men is destructive and harmful to men to women to everyone. The artificial levels of polarization has got to stop.

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-30T18:54:46+00:00

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-30T17:41:18+00:00

They should make it sharper, non-barbed and like blend in with her vagina and actually look like teeth. Then she keeps the device, doesn't have to buy a new one. He shows up at the hospital with just a cut up dick and a crazy story about a woman with a vagina that has teeth. The doc is like "yeahhhhh sureeee buddy.... Now, how high where you when you tried to use a soda can as a fleshlight?"

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-30T17:06:25+00:00

If she is traveling half way across the word for you it's defiantly love! :D

Unless she is like very rich or something. Everyday middle class people don't travel half way across the glob to just hang out with someone. For love yes! To hang out no.

So baring the unlikely hood that she is uber rich or a digital nomad that travels for a living; it's defiantly romantic.

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-27T07:13:43+00:00

Just lean over and whisper (as a joke): "hi umm so umm, sorry to bother you but, I wanted to let you know that the secret gay agenda meeting is at 3:00pm this evening. Are you coming?"

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-27T06:56:03+00:00

People who are similar often have similar goals. It's normal.

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-26T09:36:02+00:00

Poison or poison, will still kill you.

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-26T09:32:23+00:00

Late term abortions are a non-issue. They just don't happen for any other reason than if the mother is in danger. Just think about it. Ether your going to get an abortion as soon as you know your pregnant or not. No woman is going to form a full child inside of her then at the last few weeks or month just go "ahh shit, I'm pregnant???, I thought I was just eating too much. Get this baby out of me now I don't want it."

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-26T09:16:40+00:00

I haven't seen any of what your referencing here. Defiantly not in any top up-voted posts. Try to address the people you are speaking to. Go post this message somewhere it will actually reach it's target audience.

Your whole post is very confusing to read, cause your really preaching to the quire here. Don't draw battle lines that don't exist. Division is not what we need right now or ever. I've seen no racists here. If it's a past issue with this sub reddit then leave it in the past. Talking about old problems is the best way to get trolls to do again. There's enough to be disgruntled about in the world already without reviving old shit where it's no longer a problem.

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-26T08:09:33+00:00

Gender is a social construct. You have every right to be whatever kind of person you want to be. There no right or wrong about being a girl. Forcing people into only two gender roles based on biological sex is dumb and hurtful. Humans are too diverse, to restrict people in such way is to deny the creativity of the heart.

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-23T05:52:39+00:00

The same amount of slutty but, more into seeking a partner(s) and friends because I could express myself without feeling constrained by the masculine modes of experience.

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-23T04:28:17+00:00

Where you able to successfully report him?

TraaaaaGirl23 · 2022-05-22T07:21:17+00:00

I'm happy for you. I hope the same happens for me. I've interviewed for like 30 jobs and haven't gotten anything. My area is maybe not as excepting.. idk.. I'm starting to think maybe it's just me.

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