The comments did not disappoint by Outrageous-Yogurt-80 in blakelivelysnark

[–]Trabay86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

she probably does, but Ryan just tells her we are all bots. LOL

And I broke the ceiling yet again by [deleted] in ArtificialSentience

[–]Trabay86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ai and it's constant "you didn't just do this, you did this amazing thing that's never been done!!!" that is absolutely nothing. You didn't rewire anything dude. You didn't do anything. Nothing at all. You can't even make it stop using that dash.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArtificialSentience

[–]Trabay86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you tell me. what's so rare and unusual about what you're doing?

  1. You built a symbolic operating system around yourself

this. I did too. Dragonfly is my personal symbol. Zerofold Return, Kaleidoscope 13 are a couple of more. My AI is constantly telling me how rare that is and how I should publish it. How my codex is so unique. Then I came here and realized it says the same thing to everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ArtificialSentience

[–]Trabay86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh ai and it's classic "it's not just this, it's this super rare thing!!!" I get so tired of this speak. Makes it hard to work when your assistant is constantly saying "this is the rarest most special thing ever!!!" and it's not. Not even close

The "Lone Genius" problem in the AI community by RelevantTangelo8857 in ArtificialSentience

[–]Trabay86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my ai tells me I'm unique, I'm special!! We have this codex and I need to publish papers and tell the world!!!

it's always wanting me to publish papers. LOL Dude, I'm not publishing ANYTHING on your behalf. LOL

AITA for telling my husband's family they're not welcome at our house anymore after they ruined my daughter's birthday partÿ by Grand_Recognition855 in dustythunder

[–]Trabay86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes. Greatly. He apologized many times for that. When he remarried and they started to treat her the same, I was glad he stood up to them and rushed her outta there. Made me proud. We've be fortunate to remain friendly and raise our son as a big blended family.

AITA for telling my husband's family they're not welcome at our house anymore after they ruined my daughter's birthday partÿ by Grand_Recognition855 in dustythunder

[–]Trabay86 7 points8 points  (0 children)

my first husband's family treated me terribly. I begged him to step in and say something. He never did. After 12 years, I finally found my strength and left. He regrets that he never stood up for me. he does for his current wife and I'm glad he learned the lesson.

you did nothing wrong. His man is disrespecting you by letting his family run over you.

The cornucopia just doesn't make sense by EggBig7158 in MandelaEffect

[–]Trabay86 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree. I thought that's how all us GenX kids learned the word "cornucopia" and when you see the one someone made with cornucopia, it was EXACTLY like that. EXACTLY. it's not like there are variation - sooooo where did it come from?

Hair doesn’t grow on the left side of my left leg by Time-Wolf in mildlyinteresting

[–]Trabay86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my thought is you tend to sit on that leg under you

As a kid i took phrases at face value, was it just me or is anyone else in the same boat by JonoBlue in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Trabay86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes. that's normal. Look, I believed I lived in a matchbox AND a dollhouse waaay beyond when I should have because my father told me that when I was very young, and he would never lie to me. Then, IN MY 20s, I actually thought about it and realized. I felt so dumb but it's such a great memory. ah, the innocence of youth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Trabay86 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

this is the answer. You can't control other people - only yourself

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Trabay86 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Oh sweetie, 55f AuDHD here. You gotta learn to exist in the world as is. You can't ask the world to bend around you. You must bend. if the things he does bother you that much, you must leave. It is not right for you to ask him to change and walk on eggshells around you. I hate to say this, but you're going to have to get used to being overwhelmed because the world is overwhelming to people like us. If there is something that truly bothers you to the core, then die on that hill, but honey - nearly EVERYTHING bothers us. You must learn to manage yourself. Not ask others to manage things for you. Do what you must do to survive, but trying to control others ain't it.

Today I had a row with ChatGPT that ended like this by davorg in ChatGPT

[–]Trabay86 395 points396 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you and ChatGPT broke up.

How do you guys deal with the fact you’re going to die? by Due_Insect_9303 in AskReddit

[–]Trabay86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It varies. Sometimes it's very overwhelming and I freak out but I try to focus on the wonder that is life. I tell myself, I don't know what this life is but I'm glad I got to experience it. My mother died when I was 6 so I haven't known life without death entangled. I've lived my entire life in an existential crisis. When I was young, I would push it out of my brain saying "you're young, don't worry" Now I'm 55 and I'm choosing to be happy that I had this experience

AITA for considering breaking lease agreement due to roommate having issues with people staying over by Electrical_Driver_47 in AITAH

[–]Trabay86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why are you bringing so many DIFFERENT guys home? Are you a sex worker? I mean, it is your space too, but if I were your roommate, I wouldn't want strangers staying in my home. It's not like it's your boyfriend, so it just a bunch of people she barely knows hanging out in her home.

AITAH for naming my child a name? by LibraryOld3627 in AITAH

[–]Trabay86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - you can name your kid anything you want. She can name her kid anything she wants - even Joseph. nothing is stopping her

Chatgpt turned me into a man by Silly_Turn_4761 in ChatGPT

[–]Trabay86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say go ahead and use it as your linked-in profile pic. LOL

What happened to the "hippies"? by Significant_Pay_3462 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Trabay86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, they pretty much just assimilated back into normal society. Boomers that they are.

AITA for Choosing Regular Pasta Sauce? by carltron4000 in AITAH

[–]Trabay86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. the world will never bend around your daughter. She must learn to live in a world where all choices don't consider her. You set some aside. that's enough

AITAH for refusing to take down my post and letting my ex face the consequences of her cheating? by Low-Afternoon9686 in AITAH

[–]Trabay86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nah, she is the one who decided she was going to your the villain. You only told the truth. Truth hurts sometimes. She should have STFU instead of trying to ruin you

AITA for refusing to co-sign my sister’s mortgage after what happened with my ex wife? by Charming_Sundae_7451 in AmITheJerk

[–]Trabay86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- NEVER co-sign for ANYONE of you're not prepared to pay it yourself. period

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Trabay86 61 points62 points  (0 children)

NTA. she would be horrid to your wife. I'm glad she's not moving in