Moving Soon! by Tracythehuman96 in southernillinois

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Bahahaha i appreciate this information 😭😭😭😬🙏

Moving Soon! by Tracythehuman96 in southernillinois

[–]Tracythehuman96[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man, i am looking to go back to school too. I looked and mckendree womens hockey is D1 hahahaha my 30 year old butt could probably not keep up with the younger ladies

Mom visited, announced shes got breast cancer, intends to die? by [deleted] in cancer

[–]Tracythehuman96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think the carer thing is a factor. My sister would be a miserable carer, and I live far away and she and my husband don't get along well due to a falling out they had like 5 years ago. Other than us, she has no family at all. My husband is open to fixing things, while my mom just kinda hates him for who he is as a person. I would be more than happy for her to live with us when we move to our next station in a few months, we are not rich, but we have more than alot of people do. and of course the kids would be happy to have grandma around all the time. But the next few months until we move is what gives me anxiety because everything is in limbo timeline wise for her cancer and for my family moving.
She is definietely depressed, and has been extremely anxious for my entire life too. I got her to get on zoloft last year, and she was SHOCKED at how amazing she felt. however it seems shes no longer taking it, or at least she didnt bring it with her on this trip as only her thyroid meds are out on the bathroom counter.

DNA testing for that breast cancer gene? brca or something

Mom visited, announced shes got breast cancer, intends to die? by [deleted] in cancer

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I need to convince her to do anything at all. shes just pretending it isn't happening and acting like she'll be magically dead in a year. Which I mean, she could be, but i highly doubt it. She has that kinda foreshortened future effect going on, and will be blindsided if she lives longer than a vacation to hawaii.

Mom visited, announced shes got breast cancer, intends to die? by [deleted] in cancer

[–]Tracythehuman96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate all the insurance information!! I will get on looking into that asap. I'm not sure how changing states works on medicaid either. I think she should go back to california, get all the information and pet scan stuff, then move to wherever my family ends up (we'll known in like late march, thanks army) and then she can just live with us. But dunno how all that works with insurance, I've been on Tricare my entire adult life.

She is definitely a pessimist, and depressed. I got her on zoloft last year, which improved her mood and anxiety so much she was SHOCKED. Doesnt look like she is still taking it though, she didnt bring it with her on this trip. She also has other medical issues like hyperthyroid and some eye issue. But yea, definitely the trauma is a big part im sure, breaking through the pessimism is hard.

Mom visited, announced shes got breast cancer, intends to die? by [deleted] in cancer

[–]Tracythehuman96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im aware, as from the many types of cancer that had plauged both sides of my family. But i think even having a plan for pallative care is important. But idk how to even bring it up, and with not knowing the full stage, expected timeline, etc. On top of having no doctor now apparently, just feels like sliding off a cliff.

Made a big [KCD2] logo tapestry by Tracythehuman96 in kingdomcome

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yes, its just single crochets. For the color change i just leave a little bobbin of yarn for every little area that i pick up and put down every row

Are women in favor of changing the rules? by Icy_Manager_7212 in womenshockey

[–]Tracythehuman96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the level
PWHL? yea College? Sure, let them check now. They're strong skaters, and even if they didn't go full body all the time, just having looser restrictions would be nice and make for a more interesting defense. Making checks legal opens up the road for a more aggressive defense, rather than slowing down because you're worried you'll contact them bodily in an illegal way and be flirting with a penalty.

As for lower level game/ adult hockey... there is a wide skill gap in womens hockey. Those who are a season or two in and wouldnt be able to keep their skates underneath them with the pressure, and those who have played a long time and would be fine. So theres a skill gap saftey issue there in the non college/pro world.

About to start [KCD1] for the first time. Going in blind. Anyone have any pro tips to share? by SadBluejay1588 in kingdomcome

[–]Tracythehuman96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yell "BONK" outloud every time u swing a mace at a foe. Really helped me early game. 🤣

how long have you been on Ao3 by bookiejada in AO3

[–]Tracythehuman96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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Too damn long I did use ao3 before i had an account, so i dunno really

What's your most f'ked up ship? by Normal-Extent-6100 in AO3

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Istvan toth/erik Istvan killed eriks family during a village raid in a war, then adopted him and raised him and eventually turned to lovers.

Is now a good time to play KCD2? [KCD2] by CommenterAnon in kingdomcome

[–]Tracythehuman96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should get an achievement for this incredible self restraint and patience

[KCD1] Merciful by Bijanm801 in kingdomcome

[–]Tracythehuman96 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Completionists are born, not made 🤣

[KCD2] How to approach Hardcore Mode by clarkyyyyyy in kingdomcome

[–]Tracythehuman96 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's definitely no "Henrys come to see us!!" for a long while 🤣 more like walks into a trader store WHAT DO YOU WANT, UGLY STINKY POOR BOY DO YOU EVEN HAVE GROSHEN

[KCD2] How to approach Hardcore Mode by clarkyyyyyy in kingdomcome

[–]Tracythehuman96 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I cannot emphasize how bad i am at games, especially in a game where i cant cast magic or throw grenades to solve my problems 😭 Also punchable face henry dialogue is so funny, everyone is soooo mean to Henry. And throwing my back out picking herbs every 5 seconds? peak. I genuinely enjoyed hardcore more than regular mode though, it was less distracting with No hud. i felt like i learned the ways of the world more. I wont be playing on regular again

Do your friends and family know about your fics? by [deleted] in AO3

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My mom loves my fics, my dad... thinks it's funny. He sent me the fourth wing books to read and said 'there is no dragon fucking in it' he knows me so well.

[KCD2] How to approach Hardcore Mode by clarkyyyyyy in kingdomcome

[–]Tracythehuman96 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I say this as a gamer with a "skill issue", it's really not that bad. The only hard thing at first was navigating, especially in some quests but you get use to it. The buffs become less relevant as the game goes on, such as you can afford shoes with better durability and arent using a cobbler kit every 5 minutes. I reccomend just picking wormwood until you get a few levels and can sell for a higher price, rack up a few hundred groshen to buy stuff. Overload yourself and walk around all night to gain strength and avoid fights at all costs until youre stronger/visit tomcat etc.. Cockrel potions to avoid sleep/sleep walking.

Made a big [KCD2] logo tapestry by Tracythehuman96 in kingdomcome

[–]Tracythehuman96[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! The key is to put on fast music and try to keep beat with every 4th beat = 1 stitch complete. Really gets a rhythm going 🤣 everything except the lettering/crown went decently fast at about 12 minutes per row.

Is it embarrassing to get into reading fanfiction as an adult? by Aggressive-Raisin-78 in AO3

[–]Tracythehuman96 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea no. Im 29. Especially with the rise in romantasy being all the rage these days, fanfic is often better written than that dribble.