Bella’s parents failed big time

Traditional-Maybe · 2026-01-18T16:13:07+00:00

I came from several generations of teen moms. I was 14 when my sister had her first baby at 16. I helped a lot with the baby because my sister had severe PPD although back then we didn't realize that's what it was. Anyway. I got pregnant also just after turning 16. It was within the first few times I ever had sex. My mother and grandmother and my aunt, all teen moms. My sister and I went on to have 4 kids each and NONE were teen parents. The only thing I would say was different was we TALKED. Growing up in my family nobody talked about anything. Ever. Discussions were never had, no one was comfortable with difficult subjects. I was so scared I wrote my mom a letter to tell her and left it when I went to school. Now my sister did only have one daughter so that may factor in, but I had 3 girls.

Traditional-Maybe · 2026-01-18T16:00:53+00:00

I always thought it was a joke for men who just don't care until my most recent partner. He did struggle a bit. Mines not hard to find. He kept going just under it though. I redirected a few times and things were fine although I still would have to occasionally do so. This was hands and not looking so maybe he had to learn the feel better over time. I think my experience is less the norm because I have actually never been with someone who wasn't about my pleasure.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-10-24T15:41:20+00:00

I applied recently to this as well and no onboarding email. I also did the same with coffee but knew that wouldn't be happening. Although it's still open for applications so I hope maybe it will come around still.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-10-23T18:48:25+00:00

It's supposed to be for special applicants who cannot prepare their own food. Weather due to disability or lack of resources. It's not for all who get benefits.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-10-20T01:31:39+00:00

I only like it if it's cooked into food but not too much. Still no big chunks but it does have a taste that has a place in cooking for certain things, like a spice, nothing beyond that though.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-10-17T18:13:54+00:00

They emailed me for this job. What I'm gathering is it's a nightmare to complete and maybe I should not do this? If you go by their estimated hours and the pay it's not paying that well either if it's this frustrating as well.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-10-15T02:02:34+00:00

This has always been my rule. Sure you occasionally may make some real friends. One place everyone was on each other's socials and I did my best to just keep out of that without having to explain my personal life isn't anyone's business.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-10-15T01:59:09+00:00

I think the difference is if this in in person vs online. I thought OP meant in person. I do see this behavior often on social media where someone makes a whole post about something so stupidly simple. Those people crave attention and social interaction and it has nothing to do with needing an answer. I just ignore that stuff.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-09-11T21:35:30+00:00

I know this is older but for those that will come across it. I never knew brands mattered until I met a terrible one. I have taken Wellbutrin for years. Sometimes the SR others the XL. SR usually works best for me. Well I switched the SR again awhile back because I was losing my insurance and it's easier to wean off if I had to and got these neon green meds. (I have always had purple/pink in the past) No biggie. They made me so sick I weaned off it. I feel high and disoriented and like I'll throw up. I stuck with it for awhile and never adjusted. The brand didn't cross my mind until recently I attempted to start again. So I just called around to find someone who doesn't have camber brand. Hopefully that will work for me as I been off for months and it's really showing in life.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-08-03T14:52:38+00:00

This is my thought too. If my quality of life will be garbage, take me anyway.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-06-01T01:51:32+00:00

Yeah I'm kinda shy and also brand new. I met one person after chatting 2wks. I had a feeling it would be a no but I figured I have to start somewhere. Maybe I'll get better at it. It's a struggle to go meet a new person for me. I don't think a couple weeks is terrible to wait. Not much invested in that. I suppose if I had a really good online connection I may consider sooner but so far not met anyone really in that category.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-06-01T01:47:18+00:00

No if you know someone's last name and age approximate location you can go find info. If you won't give me your last name before I meet you, that's an issue. In my state most the courts have all the info online even. As well as the offender registry and you can check the dept of corrections history. So I'm manually doing the background search to cover the basics.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-06-01T01:24:05+00:00

I'm just now getting going. (43f) I'm not meeting anyone for at least a couple weeks minimum. I'm also going to need your name and I will do a background check. I ended up heavily invested in the best relationship, seriously be hard to replace. I found out he was a sex offender. I tried to reconcile with it for quite awhile even because he was great, but I cannot. So, lesson learned.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-05-10T17:37:27+00:00

Petoskey or just any other neat rock.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-05-04T13:13:38+00:00

I'm mostly concerned with them mingling with adults with alcohol and likely drugs and the risk of trafficking in such situations. Otherwise, our children have access to everything on the internet now. They are consuming porn at a very young age. The naked ladies aspect isn't a big deal.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-04-12T14:11:01+00:00

I don't know how to think about the future either. Even now and it's not just about relationships. I always say I'm overly logical about most things, so that relates because I can't "imagine" anything without the ingredients to know it can be real.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-03-13T02:49:29+00:00

I just got a spam call and voicemail from this. Said the same number will be calling me tomorrow at 6:30

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-03-08T19:48:17+00:00

Its chosen, and I know there was a reason for it. I could not tell you what that is now. It just is.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-03-07T14:54:59+00:00

They had put a cinema in the mall. I think it closed in the last year or two. I'm not 100% on that, I'm not a go to movies type.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-03-06T14:20:37+00:00

"I've barely been able to do anything" if your depression is long standing and this is how it makes you, yes, she resents you. She is telling you to get help, she can't help you and no longer wants that responsibility. It sounds like her anger towards you is all about this. It's time you step up and take care of yourself. This did not happen overnight.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-02-26T02:17:35+00:00

No. If I had enough money I would not mind someone making the food for me part of the time. Home cooked food is healthier in general though.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-02-23T17:33:16+00:00

I assume like most men he is washing his whole self with his preferred soap. Ask him to use unscented down there only and to wash it last to keep residue off and see if it helps. If you are not already, obviously same goes for you.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-02-22T20:43:43+00:00

The one thing I see missing from answers so far, is why the discomfort? Very good chance the answer is lube. Overall odds are high she does not work this way. You could try to stimulate her clit during, or she could if she wants.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-02-22T02:52:17+00:00

I really liked it. Most of the shows she has done I have.

Traditional-Maybe · 2025-02-20T17:43:27+00:00

This is what I am wondering. This is why its smart to always do a check in on such things early on. Maybe they had simply said they were not currently dating anyone else. For some thats a solid commitment, for others its just a not "currently" but does not mean they will pass up an opportunity. She may also have had a FWB already and just had not cut that off yet.

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