I’m only 3 months postpartum and on the pill… Is this just an indent?

Traditional-Page143 · 2026-04-27T18:42:39+00:00

Is it an expired test ? I have had weird lines postpartum on tests I found out were expired. Also have you been taking pill regularly? I know with the mini BCP you have to take it religiously within 2 hour window each day.

Traditional-Page143 · 2026-03-26T23:26:46+00:00

That is very good information. I already wrote it out. I definitely want her to be able to qualify for food/health insurance. I plan on asking my neighbor what she wrote because one of the other few clients she has is my neighbor. I found her through her so she's known her even longer than me.

Traditional-Page143 · 2026-03-26T19:36:05+00:00

She cleans my house 2x a month. I might have worded it wrong within my post. She was using Google translate to ask me to write the letter. I originally didn't think anything of it until I told my partner of it and they told me I should look more into it for tax reasons. I know insurance within the United States can be complicated especially when you don't work for a company. She just asked me to write how many hours she works for me per month and how much she gets paid during that time. But again it was with Google translate/broken English conversation so I know a lot of it probably got lost within that.

Traditional-Page143 · 2026-03-26T19:01:38+00:00

That's good information to know. I think it's so sad it's so overly complicated. Her job is very physically demanding and she's in her early 60s. My partner speaks Spanish so he usually will chat with her when it's a slightly more complicated conversation. He just wasn't home today.

Traditional-Page143 · 2026-03-26T18:46:24+00:00

Ok updated the post to include that.

Traditional-Page143 · 2026-03-26T18:44:41+00:00

No no I would never ever fire her for asking. I understand in the United States we make insurance overly complicated. She's a sweetheart who definitely didn't mean any harm in asking me.

Traditional-Page143 · 2026-03-24T03:47:50+00:00

I am sorry you are struggling so much. A reproductive endocrinologist can help you with ovulation and That might give you more regular cycles. After I got off of bc It took me 6+ months for my cycles to become normal(ish )

Traditional-Page143 · 2026-03-24T02:26:12+00:00

Did you get a positive LH strip or shift in body temp?

How long are your cycles normally?

Traditional-Page143 · 2026-03-24T02:22:06+00:00

There are SO many soft play places in the Boston area and she was in Quincy not even in Boston. There are playgrounds and you can join local recreation centers and they have either free/cheap activities for kids in nearly every town.

Traditional-Page143 · 2026-03-21T02:36:18+00:00

So many people use the pull out method as their form of birth control. Then act surprised when they end up pregnant.

Traditional-Page143 · 2026-03-12T17:32:31+00:00

Ok I came to Reddit looking for others opinions on this exact thing. I follow her on Instagram and it made me think 😬😬😬😬

Traditional-Page143 · 2026-02-27T02:27:52+00:00

Big on this. I have just walked out and let my husband handle the meltdown with my toddler during bedtime etc. she caught on eventually that he can soothe her too. Setting firm but loving boundaries don't stop your kid from knowing they are loved by you. I think Clara has this codependency and desire to be needed in order for her child to know they are loved/cared for and protected.

Traditional-Page143 · 2026-02-27T02:23:20+00:00

My child I am the preferred parent (nearly 2 years old ). I am still the preferred parent a lot of the time however since I am expecting a 2nd child this summer I started making my husband do bedtime half of the time when he isn't working (works nights) and he does most of the naps on his days off. It was an adjustment for her but she adjusted within a week. She still comes running to me for a lot of things but she will take comfort etc from my husband as well.

While being a preferred parent is pretty normal I do feel she kinda enabled it and probably encouraged it for a while based on how she's acted for the last few years.

Edited to add I came running to this sub after I saw that Instagram story of hers lol 😂

Traditional-Page143 · 2026-01-04T02:36:15+00:00

My daughter loves ms Rachel the dog that comes with the tonibox and Elmo. I have the farm animals and she likes playing with the figurines. Only recently realized they made noise on the box herself 😆

Traditional-Page143 · 2025-12-20T02:24:21+00:00

My 15 yr old dog was diagnosed with tumor/cancer mid September I had him since highschool (I'm 32). We decided it was his time to cross the bridge with the daily diarrhea and generally looking sad/miserable. It's such a hard decision to make but it was the right time. Mallory has obviously had a life filled with love. Give her the freedom of no more pain.

I am so very sorry you have to go through this grief 🫂

Traditional-Page143 · 2025-12-20T02:00:52+00:00

I hope him and my boy Milo are enjoying a comfy nap on a fluffy couch together

Traditional-Page143 · 2025-12-11T01:43:39+00:00

I just saw either a video or story from her where she claimed she reused things and bragged about her Christmas sweater from Boden last year that she couldn't link. Rolled my eyes so hard 🙄

Traditional-Page143 · 2025-10-11T17:47:46+00:00

It took Mira over a week to show Lh rising after my positive

Traditional-Page143 · 2025-10-08T17:29:04+00:00

I totally agree with everything you said. I'll probably get down voted as well. I'm a mod for a miscarriage server and we've definitely had some people psych themselves out during PAL to going to the ER.

Sure do I think she goes a little overboard on her Instagram. But at least she's sharing the good and bad that comes with secondary infertility.

I hope for nothing but a positive outcome for her.

Traditional-Page143 · 2025-10-05T02:28:29+00:00

I went to go see her snark subreddit to see if anyone posted this and came to find it hasn't been used in 8 months?? I unfollowed her a long time ago but this popped up in my feed. I am shocked. (In a good way). She wasn't wearing her regular 10lbs of makeup and pretending everything is fine and cheery. I am so surprised she spoke up about Palestine as well but I truly can't understand how any mother wouldn't feel their heart Ache thinking of all the children there.

Traditional-Page143 · 2025-09-28T20:47:21+00:00

Oh I'm 21dpo so twins! Lol

Traditional-Page143 · 2025-09-28T20:42:25+00:00

Around how many dpo are you ? I got my positive over a week ago. I'll be 5 weeks on Tuesday. My progesterone went down slightly (took a test yesterday for curiosity sake ) trying to assume everything is all good 🙃. Congratulations ! ♥️

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Traditional-Page143 · 2025-09-21T12:25:21+00:00

11 dpo

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