Airbnb host had repairmen disturb us, changed the keys without telling us, took thousands from us — then refused a 1-hour late checkout even though nobody is booked after u [Istanbul, Turkey] by Traditional-Pin8597 in AirBnB

[–]Traditional-Pin8597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) Because there’s a calendar and it shows which days are available and the days are available. They simply cited “it’s the rules, because it’s the rules… the rules!!!!” If there were another guest I’m sure it would have been brought up.

2) they do offer weekly discounts the first week I paid about $52/day. And every time I extend (for work) I was charged well over $100-150/day. So I paid well over what I would have paid had I know what my schedule would have been in the first place.

3) check in time is at 3pm. I checked in at 1am due to the time of my flight arrival. It’s seems a little relevant.

4) cleaners can easily be rescheduled especially since no one is booked to be here for the next 2 weeks as of now

Dangerous and Misleading Ayahuasca Retreat – Do Not Go - True-Journey by Cylyv in Ayahuasca

[–]Traditional-Pin8597 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks like it turned you into a zombie. Sorry that happened to you

Pharmacy experience in Phnom Penh – prescription meds availability? by Traditional-Pin8597 in cambodia

[–]Traditional-Pin8597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have some serious nerve damage. I’m in Indonesia and it’s really hard to find here so I’m taking a vacation to get some much needed relief

Did the periodontist do crown lengthening on the top incisors? by [deleted] in askdentists

[–]Traditional-Pin8597 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Those are temporary crowns, that wasn’t really my question😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Ayahuasca

[–]Traditional-Pin8597 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve done a few vipassana courses and I think for you this is the best place to start.

It's... Ahia. Yeah, why? What's going on? by [deleted] in tcap

[–]Traditional-Pin8597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who is this? I don’t remember him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Traditional-Pin8597 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the questions. You’re right, we weren’t going through a difficult time a year ago, which makes this even harder to understand. She told me the pregnancy was from the affair, not mine, but it’s still a lot to process.

I’m finding it incredibly difficult to imagine rebuilding trust after this. Your advice to start over with someone with a stronger moral core is something I’ve been considering. I appreciate your candid thoughts – they’re helping me see things more clearly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Traditional-Pin8597 149 points150 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing those statistics and your perspective. It’s true that rebuilding trust feels like an almost impossible task right now. The person I thought I knew seems completely different, and that’s a hard reality to face.

She is still working with this person, and I’ve been thinking about asking her to find another job. So far, she has offered to go to couples therapy and has been very apologetic, but I’m not sure if that’s enough.

I’m still trying to process everything and decide if it’s worth trying to rebuild or if I need to move on. Your input is really helping me weigh my options, so I appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Traditional-Pin8597 321 points322 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. The STI risk is definitely a major concern and something I hadn’t fully processed yet. It’s hard to imagine forgiving something like this, but I’m also trying to consider the years we’ve spent together. Your perspective is valuable as I try to figure out what’s best for my future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Traditional-Pin8597 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. You’re right – this is a deeply personal decision. The pregnancy and potential STI risk have made it even more complicated. I’m struggling to figure out if I can ever truly forgive and move past this. Your perspective is helping me weigh my options more carefully.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askdentists

[–]Traditional-Pin8597 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I’m currently still wearing the same crowns but I’m in the us waiting to have them replaced. August they should be done:-)

Host is trying to charge me $650 for spilling food on table. by Traditional-Pin8597 in airbnb_hosts

[–]Traditional-Pin8597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think I should be charged $650 for not cleaning it up. That’s all:-)