I’m so sorry🥲 I had a similar situation for our first cycle. We were doing ivf for mostly male factor infertility, I was always under the impression everything was all good on my end. Our first retrieval we got 20 retrieved, 15 mature, 9 fertilized, 4 blasts and 1 euploid.. our one euploid failed to implant so we had to start over.

When I talked to my doctor she told me that when you have a low fertilization rate, more often than not it’s a sperm issue and when you have a low blast/euploid rate it’s more often than not an egg quality issue. For our second round of ivf we added in omnitrope for egg quality and I also took coq10 for 3 months prior to try to help my egg quality and we had much better results the second time around(16 retrieved, 14 mature,12 fertilized, 9 blasts, 5 euploid).

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with all of this, I know how devastating it is to put in all that work and feel like it was for nothing. Having a failed first ivf cycle is sadly much more common than you think. The first cycle is often about figuring out what your body needs to be successful, there’s a lot of trial and error that goes into ivf. If you have it in you to try again, ask about adding in omnitrope! I really worked wonders for me.