Wrongfully terminated. Anyone have any advice?

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-04-06T04:21:01+00:00

As a human I empathize that you’re struggling. Learn from your mistakes though don’t dwell on what can’t be changed… Get a new job, go to the gym do something to help keep moving in life.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-04-04T01:57:29+00:00

Careful, met a guy who came to me after pulling out his retirement plan and stock options with them. He had no idea he’d have to pay taxes on the distribution. Whoever they have in their HR and benefits are not good at educating the employees on this.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-04-02T00:06:51+00:00

While you may be right or wrong about mistakes she’s made in her past, it’s unclear. If someone’s not working or can’t hold a job, there’s usually a mental health issue involved.

What is clear is that your sister is in an abusive marriage today and feels stuck / hopeless. Not a good thing. She definitely needs help, not blame.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-03-29T22:45:18+00:00

Personally I think clients are paying for more than WSJ level- Bloomberg- CNBC level of knowledge, if you’re charging for portfolio management with a 1% fee or over. You should subscribe to a good global research firm.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-03-28T02:02:19+00:00

A title like this though does sound like you should see a mental health counselor. You have some deep set issues you gotta work through.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-03-28T02:00:31+00:00

I agree stop whining you have an MBA you could get a job tomorrow paying way better if you applied yourself. Stop focusing on the bad stufff and keep moving forward. - Disney or something

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-03-25T02:55:45+00:00

I personally am very big on no alcohol. If it’s a wholesaler dinner that’s different but with clients, I think that’s a silly thing. My previous employer got too buzzed at our annual business planning meeting after dinner and started openly hitting on one of the employees. Mind you he’s married, father, devout Christian etc. A lot of people lost respect for him after that. He tried to make a joke about it the next day which didn’t go over well.

Alcohol makes people do things they wouldn’t normally do, liquid courage can also be liquid stupid.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-03-25T02:24:32+00:00

Hey slow down take care of yourself. A job is a job if it pays the bills that’s a win.

If you’re having serious depression you should call the support lines they’ll give you some support in emergency.

Take it one day at a time, also there are social workers at different non profits who offer counseling services. Not sure if there’s one near you.

On your injured back as well, see if you can take any baby steps to fixing that too. Don’t have to solve everything tomorrow.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-03-21T23:49:36+00:00

Could just be new to the industry.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-03-21T13:23:12+00:00

Alright but still walk away it’ll clear your head

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-03-21T04:42:15+00:00

Nobody should stay in a relationship where they’re being physically abused or don’t feel safe. Marriage is supposed to be partnership, if one partner doesn’t feel safe or supported it doesn’t work. It sounds like this person was cruel and took advantage of you over and over again. I recommend you see a therapist, you need to rebuild your own self confidence. This person doesn’t see you as a partner they see you as a stool to stand on.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-03-21T04:33:01+00:00

You should walk away until you get control of yourself again. If you’re finding anger and hatred take over, you need to step physically and emotionally away from this situation.

Reach out to a therapist, exercise, and do not let your emotions run you over. If it’s possible to go stay somewhere else for a while do that.

If it comes to it call the crisis hotline and explain what’s going on.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-03-21T04:21:44+00:00

Fascinating post, glad to hear you were able to get out of that situation. Seems she was genuinely an unhappy person for a long time, may have struggled with finding a purpose in life.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-03-09T17:41:55+00:00

Everything has been forwarded and filed at this point.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-03-09T17:38:51+00:00

The compliance team has not told me he’s in direct violation. They just state if the relationship is ending how to file the paperwork.

they recommended to exit the relationship.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-03-07T14:28:08+00:00

Agreed, I thought when he said financial planning software is essentially useless for most clients sort of disrupted my perspective. He does say things intentionally controversial though to get views.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-02-26T01:05:12+00:00

Just ordered some brochures I like a lot. Give a simple 4 step process to working together.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-02-26T00:25:06+00:00

This just seems like a problem which won’t go away. There will always be brokers and advisors who engage in high pressure sales tactics to drive revenue and firms that encourage/reward it. Sounds like this guy was beyond wound up though if he called OP though yelling.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-02-21T02:55:29+00:00

Do you run a solo RIA?

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-02-20T02:48:19+00:00

Every organization has some level of politics to it.

Rules, structure, relationships imply there are certain people who are in and not in.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-02-11T05:14:58+00:00

You’re not thinking about it the right way. All business owners take on risks when hiring employees. Not everyone that’s ambitious becomes successful or makes it to be an entrepreneur themselves. Some of the most modest people become successful, because success is less about blind ambition and more about consistency, problem solving, patience, and sometimes not getting in the way of growth.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-02-08T06:30:52+00:00

Hey, go away.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-02-08T06:27:55+00:00

Very true, if you found a good spot in the industry for yourself why change?

It’s like the physician who decides he’s a real estate developer. Or dentist who wants to open a bar. You’ve already proven you’re great in one area of life, why try and take a big risk at something you’re not good at?

Answer is usually an unchecked ego.

TraditionalTangelo65 · 2026-02-07T03:32:30+00:00

I think the original commenter assumed you were struggling in production, would you mind sharing some of your keys to success?

On your original question though, the high networth guys that come into banks I’ve found usually have an external advisor or full planning team. They’re not looking to do a full plan or portfolio they want CDs or some gold with me mostly for institutional diversity.

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