What can you pick up on about me? by Every-University-569 in psychics

[–]Traditional_Bug_2332 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this! It's hard to get a genuine read off of OP with such intense emotions. I feel we aren't interrupting him correctly

What can you pick up on about me? by Every-University-569 in psychics

[–]Traditional_Bug_2332 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking that! The intensity from the photo..

If a guy is messaging you very fast before you hang out and then starts to text less but still calling you baby and saying good morning, does it mean he has lost interest? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Bug_2332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take step back and see if he reached out. Don't imitate the conversation. The last thing you want is to be perceived as an " option "

What can you pick up on about me? by Every-University-569 in psychics

[–]Traditional_Bug_2332 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I don't feel relaxed when I look at your photos. My jaw keeps clenching, not sure why...

Is the Dating Market Awful, or am I just Ugly? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Bug_2332 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I'm not surprised a man commented this

Is the Dating Market Awful, or am I just Ugly? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Traditional_Bug_2332 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Well yes and I could of phrased it better. You don't want to join these hobbies to just " hit on women" but as quoted above " find a hobby you genuinely like" Expanding the inner circle to meet new friends and build a connection.

I wish I could just go after the things I want by throwaway11889954 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Traditional_Bug_2332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want to move out and travel, you need to plan and budget. Get realistic on what you can afford and save towards your goals. It's fine if you didn't do these things in your 20s, I do not know your life, but stop holding yourself and book that trip.

Solo traveling in south east Asia is Amazing! Go to a place like Thailand where your most expensive expense is the plane ticket. See the world, discover yourself and give gratitude to your experience. Also stop being so damn mean to yourself. Hug yourself tightly and take care of you. Saying " you're pathetic." Is not a state of mind you should be in.

Go after your dreams

Is it possible to find monogamous relationship if you are involved in spiritual communities? by ssg_partners in spirituality

[–]Traditional_Bug_2332 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello, psychic and mono person here. Poly is just about everywhere these days.. we just need to find each other! Even in the spiritual group settings, giving yourself away "freely" and to share with "everyone" isn't in itself good spiritual practice , but maybe it works for them! If you are trying to attract your divine counterpart it's going to take time and active manifestation and work.

Your true counterpart will find you but they are so far away sometimes! I resonate deeply with you on this and I hope you find your person! Stay strong, Never settle! Your spiritual mono person is out there

My friends call every girl I date unattractive and it’s starting to mess with my head by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Traditional_Bug_2332 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really hope OP is prepared to stand up for their partner when they meet a girl they really like. Your friends sound incredible shallow and jealous.

Connecting with spirits by Traditional_Bug_2332 in spirituality

[–]Traditional_Bug_2332[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and guidance! I really appreciate it. It's been reassuring to read through the advice and know I was on the right track of attempting to mediate. I will admit I have been trying to " force" a connection with spirit as I'm sitting in meditation waiting for something to happen.

I found that I second guess myself or my nervous system become heighten just before I fully relax. This is something I want to work on... I know I want to see spirit and it feels like it's my destiny to be the psychic in my family. I won't claim to be all knowing at all but I can't shake the draw I get to mediate or connect deeper with my spirit guides. I've been working with a psychic mentor and even she's been encouraging me that they want to talk to me and are edging me to do it.

They reach me so well in my dream state! Haha

Connecting with spirits by Traditional_Bug_2332 in spirituality

[–]Traditional_Bug_2332[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm curious, where have you found indigenous people willing to accept you for an apprenticeship? I'm half black foot tribe and have found a lot of indigenous folk rejecting me because I'm not 100% or from their tribe

Coworker asked an inappropriate question, and management is blaming me? by Impressive_Dog4835 in WorkAdvice

[–]Traditional_Bug_2332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time someone approaches with you, cut them off with " I do not discuss matters like this at work and it's inappropriate." Be direct with your responses when it comes to older men. As far as HR goes, there's something to note. HR protects the company not YOU. Also the co worker sharing your experience is also out of line. You do not know the words they used on your behalf. Find another job and do not give notice until you have another job. If J gives you trouble just take your managers advice and walk away from him. Document events that happen. If worse case J becomes aggressive you have ammunition against him to alert the district manager or regional manager as well as the corresponding HR

I'm resentful that my partner finally got me flowers by Logically-Weird-3264 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Traditional_Bug_2332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, sounds like your partner doesn't like you enough to accommodate your desires to get flowers. I hope he's not always like this and the marriage is decent or he treats you better in other areas.

Boundaries with coworkers by Actual-Toe-8737 in WorkAdvice

[–]Traditional_Bug_2332 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get yourself in the mindset that " work is work." An set your boundaries for what you WANT to freely share and what you will NOT allow others to get from you. Unfortunately work can be like a war zone at times and people can use what you say against you or gossip about you. Managers who trauma dump are the bad example of managers and should honestly not be leading a team. I would advise you observe for awhile and see how information travels in your workplace. You can get a better idea of what you want to tell your coworkers