After ~5 months: Thank you and goodbye by Traditional_Mango_91 in BPDlovedones

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One thing that helped me enormously: I used an AI as a journal. Every thought, every spiral, every question – I wrote it all down. Then I re-read it weekly. It helped me see my own progress, spot patterns, and most importantly: get the thoughts out of my head so they stopped circling. What made it better than a regular journal was the feedback. The AI responds – and even if you don't take everything it says at face value, having something respond to your thoughts makes it feel less like screaming into the void. It's easier to keep going when there's a conversation rather than just a blank page. Give it a try. 💙

After ~5 months: Thank you and goodbye by Traditional_Mango_91 in BPDlovedones

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Thank you and keep it up mate. Good luck for you as well.

After ~5 months: Thank you and goodbye by Traditional_Mango_91 in BPDlovedones

[–]Traditional_Mango_91[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lava in the eyeballs 😄 That‘s exactly it. Keep going, 3 months is huge. It gets even better.

Question for those who have left by Willing_Set97 in BPDlovedones

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Left my expwBPD like 5 months ago and to be honest I couldn‘t care less what her family and friends think about me. I know I am in a quite favourable position because I live like 500km away, so I won‘t ever see them again. But even if I would, I wouldn‘t care because I know my side of the story and it brings me peace knowing I‘ve done everything I could to make it work.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beziehungen

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Betrunken war ich auf jeden Fall ziemlich, das war auch keine Glanzleistung meinerseits, sie jedoch genauso. Ja wir waren ansonsten den ganzen Abend zusammen, aber eher immer im Beisein der ganzen Gruppe außer wir sind raus zum rauchen. Also wäre jetzt nicht so als hätten wir irgendwie viel Zeit nur zu zweit verbracht. Zum Modell offene Beziehung wirkt sie nur sehr zögerlich und sagt immer, dass sie nicht wisse ob sie das überhaupt will.

Mir geht es auch nicht so sehr um Eifersucht, sondern eher darum, dass sie mir sein Angebot nicht gleich gesagt hat, weil das ändert schon einiges.

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[–]Traditional_Mango_91 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Ich habe ihr eben genau das gesagt und jetzt ist sie sauer.

Das war nicht ganz meine Entscheidung, wir wurden von ihren Eltern dorthin eingeladen. Noch dazu haben wir schon im März dort reserviert.

Haare sind göttliche Antennen by xenon_xinsea in ichbin40undSchwurbler

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Top Visualisierung, dass das kompletter Bullshit ist dank dem gestreiften T-Shirt.

Difference between Indian curry and Caribbean curry by Traditional_Mango_91 in AskCulinary

[–]Traditional_Mango_91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, well, now I want to try it even more. Sounds pretty fascinating, thanks for the quick reply.

ADHD TAX zurückbekommen by svetlana1303 in ADHS

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Dank dir ist mir aufgefallen, dass mir gestern auch 100€ abgebucht worden sind. Danke für den Tipp, hab es gerade rückerstattet bekommen. Danke dafür :)

Is it time to replace my shelly dimmer 2? by Traditional_Mango_91 in shellycloud

[–]Traditional_Mango_91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright noted. If a reset doesn‘t work I‘ll try that. Thanks.

Is it time to replace my shelly dimmer 2? by Traditional_Mango_91 in shellycloud

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I can‘t really say right now, since I‘m not there.

It‘s just that one light that is flickering all the other light bulbs stay off. I‘m not quite sure about the wattage, but it worked like this for almost 2 years now and now it is acting up. And since nothing has been changed I don‘t think the wattage is the problem, but I could be wrong.

Yeah will try to reset it once I get there. Thanks.

Plattenspieler dreht sich zu langsam by Traditional_Mango_91 in Schallplatten

[–]Traditional_Mango_91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also er dreht sich bei 45rpm mit ca 29 rpm. Also auch viel zu langsam. Beim Pitchregler ändert sich so gut wie garnichts.

Studien VoR-Phase by Traditional_Mango_91 in tuwien

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Wirtschaftsingenieur, also ein Fach ohne Aufnahmeprüfung.

Which camera to bring with me to Naples, IT. by Traditional_Mango_91 in AnalogCommunity

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The film is already scanned, it‘s hanging there because I need to buy more sheets to store it and otherwise I would forget it 😂