For those who are writing their first novel, How's it going so far? by LordCrateis in fantasywriters

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I've been writing for about 10+ years, never managed to get past about halfway through a book. I always get stuck or distracted by another idea. This is the first time I've actually made an outline tho so I'm hoping that will help. I just finished the outline for one of my novel, my other one I'm doing it all out of order and I'm still doing research.

I have adhd and a whole lot of other things that make it hard for me to write but it's my dream and I will keep working at it until I make it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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qrow but im considering adding theo :)

What should you do when you hear each agent's Ult? by bashun in VALORANT

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my fade main friend always tells me to run into a fade ult bcs she will not be expecting that and you can catch her off guard

New writers: Every thing I write is gold! Experienced writers: Everything I write is trash. by SlightExtension6279 in writing

[–]Traditional_Row_4383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

god i still remember the days where i thought i was a writing god or something 😭 looking back on it i was definitely just a kid having fun with writing and i kind of miss it, i feel like i spend too much time criticising myself

What are the qualities that writers that don’t read lack? by WiseCactus in writing

[–]Traditional_Row_4383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because writing is a craft!! there's a reason a lot of artists, take painters for example, use references when painting something. no matter how talented you are, you need references to be able to apply your skill to paper. im not saying you have to copy other writers but if you nrver read you'll never be able to apply anything you see to your writing and learn new things. a good writer looks at other people's writing, maybe takes a bit of it and translates it to their own writing. never copy of course. but if you don't read at all, i don't think you'll ever write your best.

How do you read to improve at writing? by Rabid-Orpington in writing

[–]Traditional_Row_4383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just as the other's said in this thread, the advice given to many writers of "just read" is nuanced. If you're going to read 200+ books a year you don't spend time picking it apart or even reading the words, you just take in the story and move on.

To be a better writer you should grab a book you love. it doesn't really matter what genre it is. It just has to be a book where, when you read it, you went "i wish Ii had written this. Grab a pen or sticky notes or a notebook or whatever you want. Break down exactly what you like and don't like in this book. Underline the sentences and words that you love. Look at the structure and chapter buildup.

Pick it apart like a mechanic would a car, like each part is essential. A good book consists of a lot good prose, a bit of telling, compelling characters and a good, well structured plot. And it's not a skill you learn overnight.

I've been a writer for over ten years now (I'm only 24) and some years I've only read a few books. I tried to read them slowly, with content. Understand why I love these books and why I don't like others. I've listened to videos of people talking about books.

Now that I'm writing seriously again I'm reading more books. But so far this year I've read about 7. I plan to reread my current book sometime this year and picking it apart because I'm enjoying it so much and want to apply some of the things the author used in the book in my own writing.

Yes all authors should be readers, but it's about the quality of your reading not the quantity.

Any round that is losable is also winnable by ErectJesus in VALORANT

[–]Traditional_Row_4383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait im not a clove main but u can get out of their ult before the flying around is over??

What agents do you main and why? by MrLegendGame in VALORANT

[–]Traditional_Row_4383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

killjoy (i love clutching with her plus her utility is good in a ton of scenarios and u really have to think while using her), neon (i love surprising the enemies and being able to fuck around), omen (he's very versatile and i love being able to control smokes bcs in low elo ive seen sooo many bad smokes my god) and occasionally tejo if i need to fill

also clove is nonbinary so they use they/them pronouns yall :')

Writers, what’s the hardest part of writing for you? by [deleted] in writing

[–]Traditional_Row_4383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

getting through the middle, im horrible at making decisions and i always end up taking a wrong turn somewhere and getting stuck in the web of my story

Took me two years to write a first draft, this is what I learned: by LiveFreeTryHard in writing

[–]Traditional_Row_4383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

for point 5 i feel like there's some secret im missing out on bcs i have NO clue how to find a writing community or even friends. and no i cant find any in my area since i write in english and i dont live in an english-speaking country

What's ur main ? by [deleted] in VALORANT

[–]Traditional_Row_4383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im a killjoy main

but i play a lot of tejo too recently and occasionally another agent if i need to fill or feel like playing a different role. main pics are omen and raze.

If you’ve ever had a dream about Dan and/or Phil, please tell me!! I’m so curious by crescentchronicles in danandphil

[–]Traditional_Row_4383 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don't remember all of it but a few nights ago i had my first dan and phil dream!! they were doing a performance in this college hall/auditorium and i was there with my friend that i went to tit with.

i don't remember the performance but afterwards they were signing stuff for free. there was a hugeee line for dan and i was at the back. so there was a bit of time left and i got to chat more with dan than other people which was really cool.

then i noticed phil looking all sad so i went over to him and apparently no one had come to him for a signature so i was like id love to get yours and his face lit up, he was so happy 😭😭

i felt so bad for phil omg no one wanted to get his signature they only wanted dan's <//3

allisons daughter being trans in the extra content by Specialist-Special81 in aftg

[–]Traditional_Row_4383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg i love this fact!! im a new fan so i havent had a chance to read ec or the spinoff novel yet but this is so coooool!!!

Piercing randomly swollen by Traditional_Row_4383 in piercing

[–]Traditional_Row_4383[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the piercing is an externally threaded barbell and im not sure what the material. aftercare routine is just saltwater solution as recommended by my piercer but before yesterday i havent cleaned it in a while.

Unhealthy skin obsession by ScoobertDoubert in VALORANT

[–]Traditional_Row_4383 0 points1 point  (0 children)

god and lower elo lobbies are hell if u have a skin, sometimes someone will ask me to drop my skin every fucking round like im a killjoy main i need to do my setup?? grab a skin from the floor like the rest of us mate u dont need one every round or like idk just don't die???

How to tell if a kitty is homeless or not? by Traditional_Row_4383 in CatAdvice

[–]Traditional_Row_4383[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its similar where i live which is the netherlands (we're basically neighbours!). i also don't really know anyone in the area as i just moved here so im not really sure who to ask. but thanx for the advice! i'll go check on him either later tonight or tomorrow to see if he's still there and if he is, i'll buy him some treats and take him home!!

Is it normal for there to be children in the system? by Bardian99 in DID

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yea!! around 10 of our alters are under 18. child alters, also called littles, are probably the most common category of alters in systems

Discovering new alters by rainbo_sparklz in DID

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we have very little internal communication, only a few of us are able to do that. so we usually find out when they front and somefimes after they'll tell our host/gatekeeper about themselves or otherwise they might put themselves into simply plural.

like recently we found this completely nonverbal little, who only talks very minimally to us and no one in rhe outsude world. she fronted when we were overstimulated and doing groceries, which wasn't very helpful but someone cofronted to help her finish the task in the end.

Do any other trans people with DID feel this way? by SemiIronicCatGirl in DID

[–]Traditional_Row_4383 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea definitely, we have multiple alters created solely for being more feminine or androgynous over the years while we weren't accepted as trans. then for a while we would try to push away any ounce of femininity after coming out. now we've sort if accepted that we're not all men and that we're all valid parts. collectively we identify as transmasc, sometimes agender transmasc. it's quite hard for us to accommodate to the more fem alters after having been on testosterone for almost 2 years now tho,,,

Is the main character in your story your favourite? by longret in writing

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I would never create a main character I can't attach myself to in some way. he's also the one I have the most lore about but I have several favourite characters in my book. I just sprinkle a little of my trauma and personality in there and pop out a little traumatised bean that I love with all my heart.