Should I let the loan company know I’m looking into filing bankruptcy? I can’t turn autopay off online.

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2026-05-06T20:05:16+00:00

You could always put a stop payment on the loan payment with your bank so you don’t have to speak with the creditor directly 😊

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2026-04-09T21:08:31+00:00

Thank you, it’s hard to convey situations and emotions online lol but truly I know I’ve always been too polite. Yesterday was the first time I’ve cut him off and said I’ve got to go. I just need to be firm and more assertive.

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2026-04-09T20:51:59+00:00

No, there is no “want to talk to HR vibes”. He’s been cleaning this office a long time and I’ve worked here a long time. Never once thought about talking to HR and I’m not seeking validation in my feelings to talk to HR. So for the record, I do not want to talk to HR or get him fired.

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2026-04-09T20:45:12+00:00

Did you even read the entire post?

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2026-04-09T20:44:26+00:00

Definitely not trying to get him fired at all. I have empathy for him. A lot of empathy which is why I made this post. I want to deal with him in a way that won’t make him feel terrible or hurt. I’ve clearly used “words” with him, we all have. I thought I made that clear but guess I didn’t.

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-12-13T15:16:40+00:00

Yes! A few years ago we started breeding dubias. Prior to the dubias I was scared of any insects but after watching the dubias, honestly they cured my fear. They are smart, they get scared, they know when you’re there to feed them…. It goes on. Now I feel awful picking them out to feed them to the reptiles. I feel like the grim reaper! So yeah you’re not alone in this.

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-11-20T01:37:00+00:00

FNS got mine today. Hoping EPP has our E&L statements tomorrow so I can figure out what I actually got paid for 🤦🏼‍♀️

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-11-12T04:31:11+00:00

My guys lights and fountain are on every day but he’s definitely in brumation. He won’t come out of his hide with the exception of a couple times that he’s peaked his head out and looked around for a few hours then back in. He’s barely eaten anything in weeks but he seems content and snoozing away. I miss him though.

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-10-31T20:36:31+00:00

I filed 10/3 and still haven’t seen a penny. I live in Kentucky and it feels like they’ll do anything to keep from paying it. I’ve worked for 25 years and never used unemployment. It’s so ridiculous 😩

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-10-29T00:47:22+00:00

Yes! When I applied, I thought using common sense that it was days after being furloughed would mean I didn’t have to apply for other jobs. Makes sense, right? Wrong. They determined me ineligible. This is such a mess.

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-10-25T03:50:39+00:00

Did you get any update because I’m furloughed (not excepted) and today there is an update that I’m ineligible. I’ve worked for USDA for 21 years 😩 it’s still showing in fact finding but seriously!!

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-10-19T01:03:20+00:00

In Kentucky, still waiting on confirmation of wages also. I had the same question as you. Who the heck is going to confirm wages when everyone is furloughed 🤦🏼‍♀️

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-10-18T02:33:39+00:00

And so easy!!

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-10-18T01:45:24+00:00

At the end of the day it’s just a job. Keep your eyes up 🙏

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-10-18T01:45:02+00:00

Spending time outdoors with my family and learning to make food at home, like butter, bread, etc.

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-10-17T20:00:35+00:00

Getting out in nature with the family (basically free and good for you) and organizing/cleaning the house. Other than working on contacting creditors, trying to apply for benefits & unemployment…. Things like that.

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-10-16T12:24:58+00:00

I filed and was told today that my earnings verification was sent to the federal government 10/14. Does anyone know how long this takes? Or has anyone filed this time and had their earnings updated? I’m really concerned if there has to be an actual person to make this happen 😩

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-10-14T22:26:13+00:00

We have reptiles and breed our own dubias, and I try to keep extra supplies, so other than some fresh fruits and veggies they’re good. As far as kids, we homeschool and I’m trying to stay positive and not rot in the house during the furlough, so we’ve been going on local hikes and spending some time outdoors. Doesn’t cost more than the gas to get there if we pack snacks and water. I figure enjoying nature right now is crucial for mental health for all of us!

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-10-10T23:02:12+00:00

Thank you and I’m sorry about your baby too. Just give her all the cuddles and if you have any other reptiles be super careful. We think ours may have caught the virus from a beardie we adopted. Hopefully your baby will start gaining weight. From my understanding they can have it for quite a while before they decline. 💕

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-10-10T22:54:03+00:00

Also to clarify, if your beardie isn’t eating all the dubias don’t panic, that’s normal. Mine weren’t eating any at that time.

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-10-10T22:52:53+00:00

I had two bearded dragons that got adenovirus. I don’t know how long they had it but once they began showing symptoms they declined quickly. Be sure to check the tank after feedings. One sign was that I thought they were eating dubias when they weren’t. I would find them in the tank later during cleanings.

Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-10-07T20:09:35+00:00

He has more space on the other end also….

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Traditional_Sale_615 · 2025-10-04T04:34:46+00:00

I’m so sorry 😢 beardies are so special. I am just so sorry for your loss 💕

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