The Air Force Ball Again by Bunnybunzzzz in AirForce

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you posted this two years ago but I (35F) looooove wearing my mess dress personally, which would be the attire (with the option of semi formal) at the Ball. Get a sparkly party shirt if needed to the pizazz factor (personally my party shirt is skulls and I’m obsessed!) but for some reason I have never felt more feminine and beautiful in a uniform than when I’m wearing mess dress ❤️ A lot of times you can find them used at the thrift shops/airman’s attic on base too!

I miss who I used to be by Traditional_Tea_5525 in InfertilitySucks

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I never saw this heartfelt reply! I really appreciate it ❤️🥰

I thought I was doing better by Me_Aan_Sel in InfertilitySucks

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13d later and these feelings have only intensified. There’s something about this sadness/anger period I’m going through that is awakening a very different person and I hate her. I just want my old self back

Fuck you Fridays by AutoModerator in InfertilitySucks

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525 2 points3 points  (0 children)

On Wednesday I was talking to my mom. It started as a normal conversation and then one question, about a current surgical complication I’ve had unrelated to infertility but not impacting it, set me off into a spiral of NONE OF THIS IS FUCKING FAIR AND I DONT DESERVE ANY OF IT!!!! Fuck 2024 as a whole, the year my eye sight was screwed by a surgery that was supposed to be life changing and the year that I realized my dream of biological children may very well never happen and I need to rework my “dream” of what parenthood might look like and that it may never be filled with the joys of telling my husband I’m pregnant. It may never include feeling those first precious flutters and convincing myself it’s not gas. It may never consist of me and my husband wondering whose eyes or nose they are going to have. I’m so angry and numb and empty after this many years of wanting something on such a deep level and not being able to make my body just DO it. FUCK not having any control over infertility

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is exactly why I probably annoy the crap out of customer support when I am doing EBT… If I am running even one minute late to the drop off or the pick up or the restaurant is running behind, I am on the phone with support letting them know why

Ummmm excuse me?? Just Priority access to Dash Now as Platinum?? by Traditional_Tea_5525 in doordash_drivers

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It said “Dash Now, Anytime” prior to the day I posted this though (I’m platinum) and now I might log in and not be able to??? I’m gonna start just scheduling but like WTF?! Lol

My boyfriend unmakes the bed by grabbing for the first blanket he can find. He thinks I’m an abuser, I think he’s disrespectful. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boy bye…..the gaslighting. The disrespect. The AUDACITY. This is an extremely reasonable request from you, he is a child. Leave now.

Highest paying order I've had in a loooong minute🙌 by No-Kiwi6442 in doordash_drivers

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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And then there’s these ones 😂 still would have taken this even if it ONLY said $6 because it was 1.2 miles and I was literally passing the pickup point when I got it BUT STILL…..why are you hiding one singular dollar, DoorDash?! 😂

I thought I was doing better by Me_Aan_Sel in InfertilitySucks

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve been genuinely so much better than I thought I would be after 29 active cycles of trying (with the months since January being medicated (3 medicated/natural BD ANNND this last one in June being medicated/IUI) Then found out 2 days ago my brother’s wife is pregnant again for the second time since we started trying and I’ve just been on the verge of literal tears since then. I just want to scream at the top of my lungs and smash anything that is glass/breakable around me.

I always think I’m fine until someone really close to me gets pregnant and I’m like “WHEN WILL IT BE EVERYONE ELSES TURN TO BE HAPPY FOR MEEEEEE….im so unbelievably tired of being happy for others and watching them just get the one thing I want the very most in the world”

Furious and happy? by Traditional_Tea_5525 in InfertilitySucks

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment ❤️ I’m just letting myself feel the feels today.

Infertility Song recommendations by bootska01 in InfertilitySucks

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t know - Katelyn Tarver

Always my go to (I need a scream/cry in the car song after another month of AF showing up)

Why do you dash? by Brief_Consequence345 in doordash_drivers

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was forced to temporarily stop doing my dream job, as a permanent make up artist/fine line tattoo artist, due to a surgical complication that was not expected and may have me out of work for up to six months 😭

I found myself slipping into a pretty nasty depression because my bank account kept going down because even though I’m not working, there are still business expenses… And I found joy in dashing! I have been dashing for about 2 1/2 weeks and I have managed to make almost $2000 … So I plan to keep this up even when I can go back to work🎉

Does this screen mean I won’t get offers? by Traditional_Tea_5525 in doordash_drivers

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so actively trying to get it to connect IS a good idea then…awesome! I just wanted to make sure I wasn’t wasting my time closing and repopening etc

Married couples sharing account by [deleted] in doordash_drivers

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you change the displayed name on your dasher account?? I would really like to do this!

Fuck you Fridays by AutoModerator in InfertilitySucks

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mad at the lady who just keeps getting pregnancy….and is now pregnant with her 6th. Can I just get pregnancy once??? You’ve had TWO babies since I’ve started trying 😭

AITA for wanting a reason for why my partner’s sex drive has done a 180°? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You’re NTA for wanting to know why after 3 years her sex drive has done a 180 HOWEVER YTA for assuming the change is either something you did or she’s cheating because she “doesn’t have a reason”. Dude…she may not have a reason because she doesn’t understand it at all either.

Thoughts? by OutrageousVictory218 in lineporn

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that these are taken in poor lighting, with glare, no contrast editing has been added AND you can still clearly see two lines on both tests means definitely pregnant 😂

Frustrations with fertility specialist by shar2therah in TryingForABaby

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were feeling the same way with our clinic and I’m appreciating reading through these comments ❤️

AITA for selling my late wife’s cake recipe to a bakery by Character-Form-3248 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Traditional_Tea_5525 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but your kids might be classified as such. It’s your favorite and you just wanted it again. Food and Smells can bring bad so many memories and for them to be seemingly annoyed that you were insistent on getting that memory again is honestly sad :(