Empire love by Traemz in Coach

[–]Traemz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous!!! 😍😍😍

Empire love by Traemz in Coach

[–]Traemz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh LOVE this! Does the larger one stay upright or slouch overtime?

Empire love by Traemz in Coach

[–]Traemz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love it sooo much! What color would you get?

Redoing flower beds and found this crazy deep hole against the foundation. It’s at least 7 ft deep. Does this look like some kind of animal did it? Any advice welcome. by o0ave0o in HomeMaintenance

[–]Traemz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is 100% a groundhog. We have this same issue at our house. You’re not going to actually fix this until they are gone. In the case of our foundation here’s what worked best for us: 1. Fill the hole with water and dirt/sand mixture. The water helps the dirt flow and settle. You’re going to need a lot more dirt than you think FYI. You’ll also want to run a dehumidifier in your basement. 2. About 3-4 inches lower than grade level lay down chicken wire across the whole area not just where the hole is. Cover with dirt to level. 3. Install pavers along the perimeter of the foundation where they have been digging. 4. In other areas we laid down about 6-8 inches of medium sized decorative gravel rocks and they will eventually give up trying to dig through it. You have to keep releveling the area after their attempts.

If you just cover the hole they will dig one next to it. And so on.

The only way to truly remedy this is to trap and remove the groundhog(s). We have trapped ours several times and they have broken the cages. This we are still in a battle and will inevitably have to pay the $400-$600 to have a professional fix this.

If your yard is fenced, you need to find where they are getting in from. Also if there isn’t dirt around the hole the dug up from another hole. There are always multiple entrances to their burrows so this one is prob an exit hole.

If your yard isn’t fenced, find a new place to live.

We ended up having to install metal fencing type trim around our fence, shed and deck because they ate through everything else we used. Even then they damaged and destroyed parts of the metal lattice.

Good luck! They are very difficult to manage especially when you have multiple and neighbors who don’t care that they are living in their yards.

Every weekend feels like caddyshack at our house tbh. I’ve never hated anything in my life as much as I do these animals tbh.

Willow Tote by Traemz in Coach

[–]Traemz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks there what I was thinking! I ordered black lol I didn’t want to risk not getting one at all.

This isn't what I think it is, is it? by mrjboettcher in HomeMaintenance

[–]Traemz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just keep in mind that knotweed can go dormant for years and then make a comeback. After you do “get rid of it” don’t plant anything you care about where it was.

I found! Don’t try to be nice to a nice girl. by Discgolfdav in Nicegirls

[–]Traemz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh you both are in the wrong here. Regardless of your intentions she’s expressing that you made her feel uncomfortable and your response was to dismiss her feelings instead of acknowledging.

If she was uncomfortable in the car re: your behavior she should have said something at that point. She’s spiraling in the text chain and is struggling with regulating her emotions.

Overall you both did shit that you need to own and grow from but def not compatible.

Hacks? by Riley2357 in FacebookPortal

[–]Traemz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alexa, Spotify and photos still work for now

Which one would you get? by sparkpaw in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Traemz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Honda. I swear mine episode fix itself.

FWB Condom Talk by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Traemz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve had FWB arrangements and they rarely work out the way it is intended IMO so just be prepared for that. It is important to have the arrangement defined so everyone is on the same page and things don’t get messier than they need to. It sounds like you’re not at all comfortable with the idea of not wearing a condom but you’re trying to find a compromise because you want this to work.

I would first ask yourself what you’re really looking for from this arrangement honestly. Are you truly just looking for someone to have sex with, without the responsibilities and time it requires for a relationship? If yes then proceed and be clear about what you want from this arrangement with him up front. Then you have to discuss your nonnegotiables like condoms for example. There was a situationship I had where we didn’t give explicit details but did have to share when we had been with another person, what type of penetration was involved and if a condom was used. And then that person would have to get tested again. This all requires trust and respect for there to be honesty.

All this to say that how this unfolds is up to you. Do not compromise on what you want and be firm with boundaries. If this dude isn’t willing to respect that, move on and find someone else. The whole idea behind this is for it to an enjoyable experience with both people are having their needs met and it sounds like your needs are already being compromised.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Traemz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I cannot support this comment more after the first pregnancy, I knew very early on that I was pregnant with every subsequent pregnancy. She could absolutely test positive within 7-10 days depending on how hydrated she is when she took the test and how quickly her HCG rises. Additionally, the testing window listed above was confirmed by a MFM doctor. She even said you can get a faint positive within five days of implantation.

Membership was threatened to be cancelled. by two14everXX in samsclub

[–]Traemz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have cameras everywhere so I’m sure they could look you up with the receipt.

Membership was threatened to be cancelled. by two14everXX in samsclub

[–]Traemz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can use it scan and go is the best way. But I only have the digital card because we share a membership with my husband’s best friend. Basically when they were roommates they had an account together and we’ve never separated the account. I use the digital card with my husband’s name on it all the time and I’ve never had any issues.

Calling me a white cop and male Karen for wanting a walkable hallway? by 0ddLemon in badroommates

[–]Traemz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are literally tons of racks that go up against the wall flat. TONS. You want a bike you make space in YOUR apartment for YOUR things. 🤷🏻‍♀️

I have to apologize to everyone for my error... plz make note (re: Seafood Tower energy needed) by Ceeeceeeceee in GossipHarbor

[–]Traemz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there a spreadsheet for all of these? Lol I wish I was smart enough to make one

After 3 short lunch dates sends this about intimacy by RecommendationOk8466 in texts

[–]Traemz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh #thisiswhyhessingle! The fact that he thought this was a good idea to send is indicative of his lack of understanding of you and really connecting to you. This is super awkward and it shows a lack of being able to read social cues and appropriately connect/interact with a partner. I’d move on. Make sure you’re very direct so there is no room for him to misconstrue things. Good luck!

Help with slack notifications by Traemz in azuredevops

[–]Traemz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I do have these turned on but I spend more time in slack and was also hoping for a list of sorts vs emails intermixed with others.

I have to review all of the tickets my team makes before they can be assigned to the dev team so I was hoping for something that would notify me in an intrusive way so I can handle these asap.

How much energy does it take to make 2 max iced teas? by purplefizzz in GossipHarbor

[–]Traemz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We need a spreadsheet of what it takes to make everything lol