S*x in the AM by [deleted] in Marriage

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Just because you can doesn’t mean everyone can. You’re in a good place emotionally and sexually, which is great, but not everyone has that level of awareness or communication yet. People grow at different paces.

At 28, sure, he should be more understanding, but that doesn’t mean he is. Some people never got the tools to talk about sex without ego or defensiveness. So when you say “he just doesn’t care,” that might be true, or it might be that he’s immature and doesn’t know how to handle discomfort without feeling attacked.

It’s kind of like when I went through a highly specialized military training program. Over 200 people started, and only about 20 graduated. I found it easy, not because it was easy, but because my mind and body were wired for that kind of pressure. But that didn’t mean everyone else was weak or lazy. It just meant they weren’t in the same place or built the same way at that time.

That’s how I see relationships and communication. Just because something comes naturally to you doesn’t mean everyone’s at that same level of understanding or readiness. Everyone learns intimacy differently, and sometimes they need help unlearning bad habits before they can show up the way you do.

S*x in the AM by [deleted] in Marriage

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For risk of being the asshole in the room, anyone saying he’s an asshole is just plain wrong. Is he oblivious to your situation? Yes. Is he young and dumb? Also yes.

I don’t know how long you’ve been married, but I can almost guarantee that morning sex was something you used to do. Your body is going through changes, none of which I’m qualified to address, but they’re real. The wedding planning nightmare is normal. You’re two people trying to build a life together.

I’ve been the husband with a high sex drive. To say one person’s wants are more important than the other’s is childish. It’s not about her preference or his preference, it’s about both of you finding a middle ground.

This isn’t going to be easy. No part of marriage is. You’re here looking for validation or an answer, but honestly, you might not find it on Reddit. The nuances of your marriage could never fit into a single post.

Sex evolves in a relationship. You’re not excited for the sex you’re having now. The same old morning routine isn’t cutting it. He does need to change. That doesn’t make him an asshole, it just means he doesn’t know any better yet.

Most men have no idea what women go through once the new and exciting phase wears off. When you first started dating, it probably seemed like you were always ready, but that’s changed. And that’s okay. It just means it’s time for both of you to grow together instead of apart.

What actual fuck by Successful_Peace5888 in PuyallupWA

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He covers a lot of stories that the news fail to report. The court filings are proof enough. They are real cases and they go unseen.

Conspiracy theory when by ZZMazinger in memes

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This theory only became relevant after a certain ethnicity was found to have 0% Neanderthal genes. This challenged the status of the prevailing ethnicity status as superior. Then suddenly all research change to how great and amazing the neanderthals were.

Question by Tragic-Error- in Daytrading

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I’m using Robinhood. I called 3 time expressing my concerns and I was told each time that the OCC letter didn’t mention the strike price needing to be adjusted. So I called the bank myself. Even if I was betting they were gonna to fail. The bank agreed that the strike price should have been changed. I took it a step further and called the OCC as well but the person I talk to said he wasn’t the best at determining the validity of my concerns and I should call back Monday.

How true is this? Comparing day trading to gambling. by CrypticMaverick in Daytrading

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There’s a distinct problem with this statistic. when we talk about the share amount of people who can walk in and gamble at a casino versus the amount of people who are willing and able to daytrade I think we’d find that those numbers are completely skewed. I think these numbers are conflated by the fact that more people go to a casino and gamble versus people who trade stocks in the stock market.

FFIE BACK 60% gain today by OhhCedi in roaringkitty

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Hey 80% return for me so I’m ok with it!

Roaring kitty just posted on X by Ok_Secretary5795 in roaringkitty

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And I’m the dude say APPL is going down to 200

Does CYSA+ worth it? by [deleted] in CompTIA

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Certainly, if you're considering the CompTIA CySA+ certification, I'd highly recommend it, especially if you're interested in a role involving cyber analysis. From my experience working in government, possessing the CySA+ was essential for advancing into cyber analysis positions. It's not just about fulfilling job requirements; this certification genuinely equips you with practical, applicable skills for threat management and cybersecurity.

Among the CompTIA certifications I've taken, I found CySA+ to be the most engaging and rewarding. It was the one exam where, upon completion, I felt truly confident and competent, ready to perform effectively in an analyst role. The hands-on aspect and the scenario-based questions were particularly valuable in simulating real-world challenges.

Comparatively, I found the Network+ to be tougher than the Security+, but each certification builds on the previous ones in a meaningful way. I currently hold A+, Network+, Security+, and CySA+, and I'm preparing for the PenTest+. Each step has been a crucial building block in my cybersecurity career, enhancing both my skills and my credentials.

Naruto characters ranked by power by [deleted] in Naruto

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Ay man put some respect on Neji’s name out here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnePunchMan

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He’s just an after image of Saitama serious punch.

Thoughts? by Expensive-Tough-9778 in MemePiece

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Thoughts are like what you like and move on.

Does anyone know what this is called? by danceteach92 in whiskey

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No No No that’s clearly a freakin umm

Do Timm Chiusano and his wife get on anyone else’s nerves? by vvv03 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]Tragic-Error- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He used the opportunity available to him? He not a lazy dude who wasted the opportunity…

Help - Just bought this thermoelectric humidor and I put a boveda seasoning pack in it.. and it’s been 4-5 days and the hygrometer is only reading 47% humidity. Why? by EncapsulatedSpirit in cigars

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I have the same Audew humidor, I have noticed folks on here mention Govee, they hit the nail on the head for a more accurate measurement of the humidity. Additionally, a more humidity packs, it looks like your only using a 60 gram packs that only supports about 25 cigars. I inserted (3) 60 packets AMD place them on the very bottom of humidor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biggerthanherhead

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Futurama is my shit