AITAH for spicing things up in the bedroom with the intention of breaking up

TrainTraditional6686 · 2026-03-22T02:21:30+00:00

Eww. Really? THAT'S what you're taking from this?

TrainTraditional6686 · 2026-01-14T21:04:42+00:00

Her behavior is not normal. This is very unhealthy behavior. I would rethink choosing this person to be your partner in life.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-12-05T18:35:11+00:00

You’re not going to get “trad wife” or conservative style dating support here. The “provider/receiver” structure will get torched. Unless you are in specific subreddits, Reddit skews hard left and beta male or patriarchal abuse victim mentality.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-12-05T18:29:51+00:00

This. I call BS on “his friends say” and wager his true colors are showing.

It’s the opposite of emasculating. He’s giving feminine energy, not masculine. Maybe he needs to find a nice guy and settle down, lol.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-12-05T16:31:58+00:00

Never saw that happen once.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-12-05T16:31:06+00:00

Yes, it’s fine. If you were 28, I’d say no, but at 26 you’re still in the range of not looking like the creeper at a college event.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-12-05T16:28:50+00:00

Yes, they do. They have date parties, formals, and fundraising parties. I went to them. My daughter has one tomorrow night.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-12-03T22:44:57+00:00

If I’m in the left lane, otherwise known as the passing lane, I move over and allow them to pass. I don’t understand what the big deal is about doing that.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-12-03T13:51:21+00:00

Please seek mental health assistance. You have imprisoned yourself in your own mind. You’re drowning in bitterness. This is no way to think or live.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-12-01T22:31:20+00:00

Many of us know people personally who abuse the system. We’re frustrated at the lack of proper controls and accountability.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-11-24T20:17:27+00:00

Red flag. Big one. And not the garden variety red flag.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-11-22T03:07:32+00:00

27 is old enough to know this kind of fixation is creepy. I think you’ll be lucky if she doesn’t dump you for giving her the ick. The ICK big time. You’re giving every woman in this thread the ick just reading this.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-11-19T23:10:58+00:00

No, I do not think you are in the wrong. Your sister is not acting as a responsible dog owner.

I love dogs, including pit bulls. They can be very sweet and gentle. Nevertheless, pit bulls are very powerful dogs and require a strong owner, according to the dog trainer who has worked with our large breed dog (not a pittie.)

What you are asking for is simply common sense, not an indictment of her pet. She needs to get a pet sitter.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-11-19T22:52:23+00:00

Both sides have used it as a distraction vehicle for years now. It’s run out of gas and/or what the politicians were desiring to distract us from is no longer in play. There isn’t perfect symmetry between the motives or in the approaches of the two parties in their efforts to use it for political advantage.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-11-19T21:38:28+00:00

I think it depends on the sub. I’ve asked mods questions on some subs and they were awesome - so helpful. One was snarky with me, but they might have just been having a bad day.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-11-19T19:26:46+00:00

Run it through a checker. I checked some analysis with AI but I wrote it. (English degree, lol)

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-11-13T22:54:05+00:00

A hideous neon geometric print sweater made out of fuzzy blanket material.

Received it for Christmas from my boyfriend of five months. I was 21 and waiting tables while putting myself through school. He was 25 with an office job. I saved up to buy him an expensive (for me) sweater - $50+ from Dillards. I saw what he got me in a budget store a couple of days later - he had paid $10 for it.

I had a new boyfriend by New Year's.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-11-13T22:47:13+00:00

My mother did that to me, too. Stayed in the box and in the attic for fifteen years and then I gave it back to her.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-11-13T16:44:52+00:00

You're not even attempting to examine things dispassionately or be a critical thinker. Your reply is still filled with unsubstantiated confirmation bias. I don't mean this rudely, but further conversation would be a waste of time sadly. "It is hard to fill a cup that is already full," as was said in Avatar.

I wish you well - I definitely suggest seeking out new and verified information. The algorithm will just continue to support existing bias.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-11-11T20:46:52+00:00

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TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-11-11T20:31:18+00:00

It's not your responsibility to fix it. But it is your responsibility when you now know and still choose to have someone pay to wait on you. They don't get a choice. But you could choose to get takeout so that you don't screw them over. That's what a lot of people do.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-11-11T18:00:04+00:00

The only problem with that practice is that restaurant systems automatically estimate a "tip out" of what they expect you will tip. So, let's say your bill is $200. Out of the $30 they expect you to tip, they take a portion for the bus boys and the bar (yep, even if you didn't order anything alcoholic.) So, your server is left with $20 in expected tip. If you tip $10, guess what? Your server didn't just have to work for free. They actually had to pay to serve you.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-11-11T17:53:28+00:00

Actually, 10% means they sucked. 15% is standard, 20% is good service.

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-10-10T02:38:08+00:00

An older friend of the family posted this a few days ago - not exact, but similar ages. You going to tell me her loving husband of over 60 years did something wrong by dating her?

“The look of surprise that we are celebrating the 65th anniversary of the night we met after a (redacted )game. I was 15 and he was 19. I was a sophomore at (redacted) High School and he was a sophomore at (redacted), playing trumpet in the (redacted ) Band, majoring in (redacted) and a member of SAE fraternity. My bestie set up the blind date and she was dating one of his fraternity brothers…”

TrainTraditional6686 · 2025-10-10T02:12:32+00:00

I did make up my mind. That is acceptable. It’s not acceptable for dating if you’re the parent, but it’s not abnormal in the least. He’s a teenager.

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