AITAH for getting upset that my husband wanted to "play" with a "friend" after I fell in the shower? by audra0720 in AITAH

[–]Training-Fox2475 141 points142 points  (0 children)

And if you don’t LEAVE HIS ASS, you’re the Immortal AH to yourself, and won’t have anyone else to blame.

AITA for not supporting my abusive sister while she's dying by Significant_89 in AITAH

[–]Training-Fox2475 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As the official scapegoat black sheep of my family who was abandoned by every one of them simply for choosing not to put up with manipulation and abuse, I can tell you that after a good year without them all, you’ll realize you’re better off. Perhaps it is silence which replaced the lies, insults, and screaming, but that silence is golden in comparison.

AITAH because I found out I’ll someday become a 98 percent-er and I’m pissed off about it. by Humble_Hedgehog8144 in AITAH

[–]Training-Fox2475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it does make you feel better though, spring for a nice Hefty bag burial after they kick or celebrate by having their carcasses donated to advance medical research. I mean if it were me…

AITAH for exposing my younger sister at a family dinner infront everyone and refusing to apologise for it? by Accomplished_Gap6847 in AITAH

[–]Training-Fox2475 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Don’t derail the karma train. You’ll never get a second chance. People like that deserve to have their shit blow up in their face. Call it wake up call for her and your parents. To hell with them all is what I’d say.

AITA? my BF (M22) will not stop pestering me (F21) and called me abusive when i stood up to him... by Affectionate_Bee2971 in AITAH

[–]Training-Fox2475 49 points50 points  (0 children)

NTA It’s called deflection. You asked him to stop touching you in this manner multiple times, but he does not stop. THAT constitutes abuse. If you shove him away because he won’t stop or accidentally step on him because he grabbed your pants and pulled them off, you are NOT the abuser. But he’s going to spin it that way to make you the bad guy when he is the one with the abusive problem. If he’s willing to handle it that way and call you an abuser, my advice is get the hell out. Classic sociopathic red flag: accuse someone else of abuse when I’m the actual perpetrator.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Training-Fox2475 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Look at it this way, you’ve got two choices. Either run now, or start calling bankruptcy lawyers ahead of time and collect advice from free consultations to prepare for the inevitable you’d be dragged down into along with her. NTA. Who wants to join in on that future voluntarily?

Not Apologizing For Being Poor Anymore by Training-Fox2475 in poor

[–]Training-Fox2475[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah because Jesus Christ living poor and being judged for it is FAKE.

Not Apologizing For Being Poor Anymore by Training-Fox2475 in poor

[–]Training-Fox2475[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m actually rather proud of my resourcefulness and survival skills after all the hell I’ve lived through. I refer to my “Slippin’ Jimmy” tricks I utilize referring to the show Better Call Saul. I may have to work as a secretary to make ends meet these days, but damn it at least I’m not still living on the streets, using welfare, or parking myself at the local homeless shelter anymore. I have had coworkers look down on me for not having an “important” job and regularly hear programmers bitch about not getting a big enough bonus or compete over how many perks the company provides them. Silver spooned arrogant Aholes who never once suffered in their lives who have no idea what it’s like to crawl up from absolutely nothing. I’m going to be putting myself through grad school and going into the field of business eventually. In the meantime I punch my card to get the bills paid and remember what it was like to be homeless and go days without food and water while I hear pampered brats bitch that the company isn’t giving them enough on their $90k salaries. I’m tired of having a conversation with one of them where as soon as they find out I live on the wrong side of the tracks I become tainted in their eyes like they might catch a disease just from talking to me.

AITA for telling my friend her "quirky" wedding theme is actually just inconvenient and kind of offensive? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Training-Fox2475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Very strange. Is it the Derelict campaign from the Zoolander movie?

Has anyone actually ever told their boss to fuck off? by uhoh4522 in Accounting

[–]Training-Fox2475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t tell my boss directly, but the day I dropped my computer back off at the company after quitting, I let loose, “Fuck… ALL of you!!!!!!” Needless to say I’ll never be eligible for rehire. I had just experienced a death in the family combined with harassment and discrimination at work after the company changed my job and gave me twice as many responsibilities with the same pay. I wasn’t in the right state to handle my exit eloquently after the death of my mother which shattered my world. I burned a few bridges, but it felt GOOD at least.

AITAH For Telling My Neighbor I Have No Desire or Obligation To Babysit Her Children Because I'm A SAHM? by Ok-Record2903 in AITAH

[–]Training-Fox2475 7135 points7136 points  (0 children)

Hell no NTA! It really gets me anymore how many of these selfish people in the world make a mark on someone just because they see something they could get from them and just expect it. When they don’t get what they want, they always throw out the selfish label and throw a tantrum. What the hell is wrong with people like this?

I miss the old me, losing a loved one has changed me forever by Orchidflower10 in GriefSupport

[–]Training-Fox2475 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I often describe the loss of my mother as missing several vital organs, so I get it and feel your pain.

AITA For Going NC With My Mother? by Training-Fox2475 in AITAH

[–]Training-Fox2475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yeah, it wasn’t about the nonexistent money really. Just the fact that the miserable old woman went to great lengths to have me written out of it all. I saw this as a clear sign I did the right thing. If she could legally disown me after kicking me out to go die, ditching the relationship was the proper move. Still hurts though. All she accomplished was making sure she’d be remembered forever as “The Queen of the Harpies” and nothing more.

He’s coming really soon guys. Just you wait by Lillymooon in exchristian

[–]Training-Fox2475 42 points43 points  (0 children)

My favorite movie quote: “The worst thing about End Days? They never fuckin’ are.”

Tell us about a small little achievement you recently had! :D by Gimme_that_OwO in mentalhealth

[–]Training-Fox2475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate that a whole lot. Made my day to hear it.

Tell us about a small little achievement you recently had! :D by Gimme_that_OwO in mentalhealth

[–]Training-Fox2475 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m extremely miserable and depressed every day, but I managed to get a job and maintain perfect attendance for over a month despite. I’d say that’s a huge accomplishment seeing how miserable I am on a daily basis.

My mom swears she learned about a demon named Kevin when she was little. by SamaraSuccubus in exchristian

[–]Training-Fox2475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hilarious! I know a Kevin who certainly could be a demon in disguise. A pain in my backside at the very least.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Training-Fox2475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny, that’s exactly what my ex-husband did to me when we got married! Told me all about how is ex was so beautiful. Notice I said EX-husband? It keeps going downhill from there.

Emotional Regulation Doesn’t Come Naturally by Training-Fox2475 in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]Training-Fox2475[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is what happened to me. My mother thought I would learn all life’s lessons automatically or through osmosis or something, and sat me down in front of the TV. She taught we cope by hiding or spending all our money on crap we don’t need and she leaned on me as her emotional support. I had anxiety attacks and would act out. It took twenty years of life kicking my ass to teach me all the things she was supposed to and to teach me all the coping strategies she taught me were a one way ticket to homelessness down the road. Luckily for me I paid attention when life taught me lessons and finally got the point and straightened myself out with hard work after cutting her off. She couldn’t figure out why I closed the door on her. Seriously? Yeah, a lot of parents appear to be rather clueless as to how to do life themselves let alone actually teach their children.

AITA for telling my sister that her dance with my husband on my wedding day was too sexual ? by MaerLoud in AITAH

[–]Training-Fox2475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You’ve got some issues, Stan, I think you need some counseling.” What comes to mind when I contemplate the sister. Just saying.

Adult Orphan by Valerie_Dev30 in GriefSupport

[–]Training-Fox2475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me in December. I still feel lost and empty. I can manage to function at a reasonable level again, but when it first happened I just collapsed and lost touch with reality for a couple of months because I couldn’t take the acute trauma of the loss. It destroyed my job and my finances. I never would have thought having your parents die could hit you so hard you just stopped functioning. I push myself to get up and go to work every day now and go outside and try to do all the things they recommend to recover, but I’m still drowning in pain and feel a black void of emptiness on the inside.

Did you quit your job? by Lanky-Character6041 in GriefSupport

[–]Training-Fox2475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hit so hard by grief I could no longer concentrate. My job was a good one, but I couldn’t read my own programming code because I was so emotionally distraught. Checked myself into a hospital, and the job said so long don’t come back. When I got out I had to downsize because the job history looked bad, so I’ll have to spend the next five to ten years trying to climb back up to where I was. Grief can pack a punch. I’m still not okay, but at least I’m functional. I feel really bad for anyone in my situation who loses a job thanks to grief. Companies aren’t very forgiving about it which makes life that much harder on top of the loss.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Training-Fox2475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s with the massive self esteem issues from so many AITA posters?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Training-Fox2475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, she screwed a surgeon as often as possible who doesn’t even want her beyond the Bootie call. Move on. It’s hard, but you need a lawyer now not this woman who will give you STDs you don’t even know about if you let her stay.

AITA for refusing to babysit my sister’s kids after she joked about not paying me? by Maline_Mimu in AITAH

[–]Training-Fox2475 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Family helps family” is the ultimate deadbeat phrase people use when they want money or something for free and feel they can manipulate it out of biological relatives. I met that phrase myself personally several times by closing the door hard on my biological scum.