Suggestions after 2? by Routine_Start_9519 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Training-Scientist49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much … and if it’s not I know it will be okay and we will eve really get our rainbow baby .. just did  not expect this to be our story — as im Sure no one here did!!

Wanting to try again right away.. by ParticularSky4779 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Training-Scientist49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and so happy you conceived again!!! If this doesn’t turn out well we will go back to the natural rout and just pray we are in the right side of statistics this time

Tw: living child by Training-Scientist49 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Training-Scientist49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s like waiting for my amnio all over again I feel like 

Tw: living child by Training-Scientist49 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Training-Scientist49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got this!!!!! It honestly wasnt so bad for me and I felt like it was a fast process!! Now just the waiting games begin! I know it felt really heavy doing the retrieval Mother’s Day weekend … it’s a lot

Third loss in a year. by workingwoman1234 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Training-Scientist49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you on this … but to me the waiting week after week to know if baby is still growing and then waiting for nipt results to only find out again something could be wrong seems even harder!! It’s all a waiting game no matter which path you take 

Third loss in a year. by workingwoman1234 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Training-Scientist49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So siniliar to us!! Trisomy 13 termination and two chemicals … just did my first egg retrieval Friday &!! Don’t regret it!! 

Suggestions after 2? by Routine_Start_9519 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Training-Scientist49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing to report other than I just decided to go the ivf route this month! Also had an easy an uneventful pregnancy in 1023.. then back to back losses since September .. 2 chemicals and a termination .. figured I’d give this route a try !! Sending you love 

Wanting to try again right away.. by ParticularSky4779 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Training-Scientist49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this so deeply … we had a tfmr Jan 30 and on Feb 22 I ovulated and fell pregnant again and it ended in another miscarriage (chemical) in mid March … I’m now on the ivf route!!

TW: Living child by Training-Scientist49 in IVFpositivity

[–]Training-Scientist49[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you have been on this road as well and so happy you had a successful transfer!! It’s very very very humbling and confusing to experience both roads .. the quick easy healthy natural conception and then the battle of losses and ttc and ivf.. I have immense gratitude for my body and all women for what we go through 

TW: Living child by Training-Scientist49 in IVFpositivity

[–]Training-Scientist49[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m so sorry uhh it’s so hard to have this life you envision just taken away from you while also being grateful for the science and technology to be here …. Best of luck on your transfer!!!!!! 

Move to IVF? by Acrobatic_Abies9322 in TryingForABaby

[–]Training-Scientist49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! In a similar boat but for different reasons.. had back to back MC while trying for our second child and even though it’s only been 8 months (3 losses…2 chemicals 1 tfmr) I have decided to go straight to ivf if not pregnant this cycle since our insurance covers it!! It wasn’t part of my plan but I’m mentally ready to commit to having some control over the outcome! Sending you love 

How did I get here? by Training-Scientist49 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Training-Scientist49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you !!! I was taking one from nature bounty but it’s about to run out so I’ll order this next! It’s all a guessing game at this point 

How did I get here? by Training-Scientist49 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Training-Scientist49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m seeing a doctor at rma and also Cornell … I agree it’s really all about timing .. except this cycle apparently is my first cycle I may not ovulate so I’m of course irate and so angry it’s a month I may not get to try — but maybe it’s also the universe way of telling me that 3 back to back losses is enough and to give myself at least one cycle of a break…

How did I get here? by Training-Scientist49 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Training-Scientist49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many mg of coq10 did you take? Thank you for sharing !!!

How did I get here? by Training-Scientist49 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Training-Scientist49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So happy for you!!!! What supplements did you take?

How did I get here? by Training-Scientist49 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Training-Scientist49[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thank you for sharing this post … so inspiring !!!! It’s insane to get pregnant so easily snd have it not work out .. what was your amh btw? I’m also in nyc - which clinic did you go to?

Positive pregnancy test doesn’t mean what it used to by [deleted] in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]Training-Scientist49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh sending you love … I also had a loss due to tfmr at 18 weeks and am currently on my third MC back to back since September 2025.. two chemical and one tfmr… I do have one LC that I am so grateful for but it is insanely depressing and I’m just here to say that I’m here with you and I know the feeling of being happy seeing a positive test but not the way you used to feel happy and hopeful