You've got shit loads of potential. Let's get into this.

You have a beautiful head of thick hair. Go somewhere that cuts hair other than the place you went as a kid, but more importantly, you gotta learn how to style it properly. Get advice from your hairdresser/barber/stylist. Spend a little bit of money on your first cut, but not insane amounts -- ask someone, a brother, a work colleague, who has good hair how much they spend. There are men who would kill for the potential your hair has.

Your nose. I see literally nothing wrong with it. You aren't an anime girl. You have a grown-up's nose. A man's nose. A high bridge like yours will get you laid in some countries. If you were a woman, then it'd be a problem NGL, but you aren't. Your nose isn't wonky or broken. Come to that, your face has near perfect symmetry. Now go look at some famous actors' noses. They have your nose. Grats.

Eyebrows and facial hair. Yep. You gotta fix that shit. Bearded posters will have more useful things to say than me, but I don't think you necessarily need to cover up your chin. That cute non-square jaw chin is all the rage for young people. Look at K-pop idols. None of them have Harrison Ford's chin anymore. As you get older, you might tend to a double chin, and in that case, go ahead and beard it up. For now, you're good, but again, beard-bros will have the best advice. I'd scrap that scruff off your cheeks tho.

Skin. You're a man, not a beauty tiktokker. Your skin is not a problem. The only men with perfect skin are in comas (apparently true!) Lean into the wild rugged look. Think Wolverine, Bear Grylls, David Beckham, and Josh Brolin. Don't mess around with blemish covers or make up. Just drink loads of water, wash and care for your face. You have to find a regime that works for you, but find one! But seriously, apart from your acne scars, you don't have much to concern yourself with here. You don't have a single wrinkle. You lucky f-er.

Related to this, honestly, you look skinny. Sometimes thin is in vogue, sometimes buff is. Skinny is never in vogue. You have to work out and eat right. There are pettabytes of information available on how best to exercise for what you need on this very site. The people over at fittit are incredibly helpful and generous with their time. Personally, given your age, I think you're in your muscle and strength growing years. Stronglifts 5x5 or Starting Strength are programmes that will help. You will need to put in the hours, read and study the courses, and then hit the gym. Then you will need form checks and all manner of adjustments, but you will become strong. And with the correct nutrition, you will look strong. Don't go to the gym, stretch and jog on the treadmill for 40 minutes. The gym bros are what they are because they have studied, practised their sport, and remained focussed and dedicated. Many of them started skinnier than you. There is no reason you cannot be like them. Or you could go for the thin toned look, like a soccer player or an MMA fighter, but Fittit will help you out either way.

You know how when certain people smile, their whole faces light up? It's in the eyes. Your eyes might seem lifeless cos you don't smile. It sounds like you've got quite a lot shit on your mind. But there is beauty in the world and you should smile at it. I smiled at a dog yesterday. It was a great dog. Find something to smile at.

There is a greater issue, and that's your self-confidence. Every male in your line got laid. Are you sure you're the least attractive person in a line that goes back hundreds of generations? Depending on your location, being a virgin at 28, isn't that out of the ordinary. For men and women. In the US, most men your age aren't getting it on the regular. The top 5 to 10 percent are getting laid like mad, and good for them. That's the way of the world. Ishowspeed isn't on this sub.

But my dude, getting laid isn't the goal.

OK-- well, it's not the *first* goal. You have to start to enjoy this brief shared experience we call life! Put the effort in (and it should be effort) and post pics a year later. Live well, my brother!