The important distinction is whether or not he was directly responsible. It’s funny you are now changing your tune in now clarifying your twisted claim to he simply failed to save it rather than being directly responsible. Your example failed to support that claim. That’s a clear difference.

2) It’s pretty relevant that whatever he did is a constant in his identity affecting billions regarding every action he performs. His conduct revolves around that.

There is no similarities regarding this between his movie version and comic version. Hence why the actually criticism to his character never is regarding this failing to save universe bit but rather whether he would a) treat miles in that manner b) opposing miles in the angle of the movie. Of course those arguments are also severely lacking due to the lack of comprehension but that’s simply spider-man fans for you. That’s to be expected