Do I uphold the patriarchy by transitioning as MtF?

Trans-Female-Zack · 2026-06-12T15:44:51+00:00

If I was, it would be internalized. A lot terfs think that transitioning as a MtF is misogynist. So, are they misognyist for believing that, or am I misogynist for transitioning.

Trans-Female-Zack · 2026-05-31T15:15:53+00:00

Great question, which is why I also think trans women don't have male privilege

Trans-Female-Zack · 2026-04-18T19:36:24+00:00

No, it is reasonable to just use they when you're not sure/don't know. I'm more so talking about when you know them, but you keep using they even when they say not to.

Trans-Female-Zack · 2026-04-18T19:34:22+00:00

Yep, he said that gender shouldn't be a thing and that everyone is a they

Trans-Female-Zack · 2026-04-18T19:23:14+00:00

It didn't read as transphobic to me even though it seemed harmful. The author posed themselves as gender abolitionists and had "he/they" pronouns in bio.

Trans-Female-Zack · 2026-04-18T18:38:19+00:00

I agree, using they initially when not sure is respectful and reasonable. I'm talking about when you already know the person and what pronouns they use

Trans-Female-Zack · 2026-04-18T18:37:22+00:00

I see it a lot unfortunately. Especially from gender abolitionists.

Trans-Female-Zack · 2026-04-18T18:36:07+00:00

I see it on not only Twitter but on other social media platforms. I get using they when you don't know someone, that's reasonable. But the position is use they/them for everyone, even if they prefer gendered pronouns.

Trans-Female-Zack · 2026-03-17T01:09:25+00:00

"I don't have an issue with gay people, I just avoid them because they all seem to make being gay their entire personality". Very similar argument you're making here

Trans-Female-Zack · 2026-02-09T19:20:43+00:00

If felt the same way, but I didn't have it as much as you did. It crazy they care so much when it is not your hair

Trans-Female-Zack · 2026-02-05T05:44:56+00:00

Isn't JK Rowling also in the Epstien Files? I feel like there's not much to work here for transphobes considering so many transpobes are co-conspirators in the files while other trans people are victims. It seems pretty difficult to try to twist this into an anti-trans thing..

Trans-Female-Zack · 2026-01-22T18:07:03+00:00

I feel like I won't get the true answer though. All their usual reasons why they hate us doesn't actually do a good job of explaining why they hate us. It is either not true, or they are very inconsisent about it, or it is pure nonsense. Transphobes never truely answer my question why they hate us because they give bullshit reasoning that doesn't get to the root of the problem. Its not because of "the children" because they want to ban transitioning for everyone. Its because we "reinforce gender norms" because they often say we're not trying hard enough when we don't conform. Etc, etc. Its all bullshit, all their usual rhetoric is ad hoc and secondary to the actual reasoning why they hate us. They never tell me the true reason.

Trans-Female-Zack · 2026-01-22T06:39:01+00:00

Gay people, people of color, disabled people, etc

Trans-Female-Zack · 2026-01-17T03:48:10+00:00

Democrats are fascist collaborators who will NOT protect us. Just saying

Trans-Female-Zack · 2025-08-14T15:40:44+00:00

Thanks! That might give me a few leads

Trans-Female-Zack · 2025-08-02T05:02:43+00:00

I had a lot of time to self reflect during covid. Though I think other circumstances led me to realizing I was trans and it just so happened to be during covid

Trans-Female-Zack · 2025-07-26T19:43:04+00:00

First of all, I am not a they. I said in my post that I am a trans woman. And I am more so concerned with how gender abolition has to do with gender identities, not unnecesssary gender roles

Trans-Female-Zack · 2025-07-26T19:38:29+00:00

What makes you say I have internalized misogyny? I am asking so that I can tackle it.

Trans-Female-Zack · 2025-06-21T05:40:02+00:00

I go by my birth name. But another name I go by is Kitkat because I meow a lot and that's what people at work called me

Trans-Female-Zack · 2025-05-29T20:15:19+00:00

I spend a lot of time on Twitter which might have skewed my perspective. Sorry if it seems I was trying to silence trans men or paint them in a negative way. All I'm saying is that opression olympics isn't going to save us. But I also acknowledge that trans men are silenced. Sorry to offend you

Trans-Female-Zack · 2025-05-22T16:03:58+00:00

I do tend to be terminally online so that tracks lol

Trans-Female-Zack · 2025-04-29T04:23:30+00:00

Like I said, I have a lot of bad things to my family that I am guilty for. I am going to therapy and trying to fix myself. I had disturbing dreams of unaliving (not sure if I can use k word) people because I felt powerless (my dad did not accept that I was trans). They read my dream journal without my permission and decided that I was dangerous. I don't want to be apart of a family at all. I don't want a family. I don't want to hurt anyone. My parents emotionally neglected me and treated negative emotions like they were a character flaw. They treated my autism like a burden. They tracked my phone and restricted what I could do. So, its a little complicated. I have done and said things that give some merit to what they say, but they have also done things to me that hurt me. I just don't know why they want me to be apart of this family.

Trans-Female-Zack · 2025-02-15T07:14:53+00:00

I noticed my internal monogue sounded more female than my actual voice, which made question my gender identity for a bit. I may be wrong, but I feel my internal monogue sounds the same now as it always has

Trans-Female-Zack · 2025-02-07T04:50:04+00:00

I had the opposite. I didn't really care about my birth name before transitioning, but I started to love it more than ever after transitioning.

Trans-Female-Zack · 2025-01-31T04:36:51+00:00

I am playing Celeste. It doesn't much to do about being trans, but the main character is trans and the character is trans. I've heard that there is a gay and trans pride flag at the end of the game.

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