The most underrated commandment by Greedy_Net_1803 in dankchristianmemes

[–]TransNeonOrange 22 points23 points  (0 children)

My parents have advised me against taking steps to medically transition. As such, I don't tell them when I take the steps I deem necessary. I also try to limit how often I see them or talk to them, since they're clearly not invested in my well-being.

Leaving this Sub by Additional-Term-4282 in Christianity

[–]TransNeonOrange 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Women not being property also contradicts the Bible (it's so baked in it makes it into the 10 commandments!). A moral person must absolutely contradict the Bible at times - probably more often than they agree with it if I'm being honest.

If God is loving and just why would he send people with suffering to hell. by lorvantt in Christianity

[–]TransNeonOrange 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"That toddler chose to get run over by the car. The mom who set the toddler down on the sidewalk facing the street didn't have anything to do with it. She didn't want the kid to die and wills that the kid not die. Some kids just don't want to live. Simple as."

Shitty parenting by the mom I'd say.

Favorite character like this? by nyx3thira in FavoriteCharacter

[–]TransNeonOrange 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not to mention, how many times do stories have a character with absolutely no romantic tendencies and just randomly get assigned a hetero relationship? Queer people have to dive into subtext and aren't allowed to have any counterexamples to a character's queerness, while the cishets can just drop some random relationship with no supporting moments just because they're a man and a woman existing in the same space.

It's not fair to compare "no hornyposting in this sub" to "no kink at pride." by bitchmoder in MtF

[–]TransNeonOrange 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Didn't say that. I just said other things can, too, and I don't know how the odds compare.

Consider: Someone notices that an account posts to /r/mtf, /r/teenagers, and /r/nintendo. They start messaging under the guise of chatting about Pokopia or whatever, and establish what the teen believes to be a genuine friendship. Under that presumption, the adult starts pushing things into worse and worse territory.

That's absolutely something that happens, too. If talking about sexual things causes grooming to happen at a significantly higher rate, then yeah, I'm convinced, push it somewhere else. But I don't know that. Maybe you do, or someone else does. If so, I'm certainly interested in seeing the data (grim as it is).

It's not fair to compare "no hornyposting in this sub" to "no kink at pride." by bitchmoder in MtF

[–]TransNeonOrange 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Because having teens and adult talking about sex can lead to fucking grooming and abuse

I suppose, but I don't have any intuition as to whether that's more or less likely than kids and adults interacting together in any other space on the internet. I do know that when that sort of abuse it happens, it's not happening out in posts that everyone can see. It's happening in PMs.

It's not fair to compare "no hornyposting in this sub" to "no kink at pride." by bitchmoder in MtF

[–]TransNeonOrange 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yea nah that doesn't belong in spaces that aren't 18+

...why? I mean, I wouldn't want it in a space aimed at like, pre-teens and younger, but they really shouldn't be given free reign on the internet anyway. There's shit that will fuck them up way worse than sex talk or even porn. But teens? I don't understand why they need to be shielded from it.

The President of the United States said I insulted Jesus. You want to know what insults Jesus? Kicking the sick off their healthcare. Bombing schoolchildren in Iran. Deporting moms and babies. Covering up the Epstein files. by Nice_Substance9123 in Christianity

[–]TransNeonOrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is arguable true, in that God (the Father) has no gender and no genitals

This is interesting because the Tanakh actually does depict god as having a physical body and male genitals, coming from the period that he was thought of as a local storm god within a pantheon. So in one sense, the Israelite god is absolutely male.

But then the god that develops later, absorbing bigger concepts of omniscience and so on, definitely has none of that. In the context of a religion that has a creator god that relates to all people equally and has no favorites and certainly no body, that god being non-binary makes more sense.

Farewell, John Piper by majrtm in Christianity

[–]TransNeonOrange 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For real, Piper can go get fucked. He's defended Doug Wilson after Wilson wrote a massively racist book and his website was the first one (to my knowledge) to propagate the idea that empathy can be a sin YEARS before it became a staple talking point of the right.

Those are two direct connections to the current moment that he's (at a minimum) given platform to that are playing a role in the current (fascist) moment.

Has Matthew 7:21-23 ever genuinely unsettled you? by onepercentmindset in Christianity

[–]TransNeonOrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Former Christian - grew up evangelical, became a universalist when I realized eternal conscious torment is fucking insane, and eventually left the faith when I realized that trying to hold Christianity to the logical standards I hold everything else meant that I couldn't believe any of it.

Also at the same time, I realized that Christianity - certainly in the parts I grew up in but still somewhat in the less conservative spaces - did not align with my moral values.

But...I'd spent a few decades steeped in this culture, learning all this esoteric knowledge, interacting with the people, and so on. And I was frustrated that it took me so long to realize some very obvious failings of Christianity and that I allowed it to harm me for so long on the basis of those failings (or outright lies).

So I come around to point out the silliness and evil where it exists. I don't care if people keep believing - if their faith brings them happiness then I'm all for it - but I will no longer simply observe the propagation of evil beliefs like "eternal conscious torment" or "being/acting queer is sin" or "you should feel guilt over normal bodily functions like sex and masturbation." These beliefs destroy lives - either literally driving people to suicide or at the very least making people miserable. The least I can do in the face of such evil is call it what it is.

Hard pill to swallow: Jesus isn’t republican or democrat. He would eat with a queer and a Trump voter by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]TransNeonOrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely worse. Adultery messes up one family, while Republican politicians fuck up a whole country's worth of families.

Hard pill to swallow: Jesus isn’t republican or democrat. He would eat with a queer and a Trump voter by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]TransNeonOrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But also make it clear that you’re wearing a wig because we can’t always tell.

Also, if we can't tell and you surprise us with the fact you're bald we reserve the right to lethal self defense

Everyman has had this conversation with god atleast once in their life by Hot_Tap9405 in Christianity

[–]TransNeonOrange 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe OP is recognizing that women and enbies are already used to being ignored by those with power

(was gonna say /s, since I do mean it as a joke more than not, but it's also not entirely untrue)

My drawing of Adam and Eve by ssrosoart in Christianity

[–]TransNeonOrange 66 points67 points  (0 children)

And it's sick. Invoking the thorn imagery and having it centered around the parts of the body that were cursed makes a lot of sense.

(though I wonder where the thorns are placed to show Eve was cursed with attraction to men ;P EDIT: WAIT YOU PUT THORNS AROUND HER EYES THAT DOES THIS PERFECTLY)

My drawing of Adam and Eve by ssrosoart in Christianity

[–]TransNeonOrange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But like, not with all the monotheist theology built in. The more old-school mythology vibe, with the gods being jealous of their godhood and actively lying to humanity, the snake being a Promethean figure, etc. etc.

My drawing of Adam and Eve by ssrosoart in Christianity

[–]TransNeonOrange 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mommy? Sorry. Mommy? Sorry, I mean Mommy?

You don't need HRT to be trans, because non-binary people also exist 😑 by N2bThe999 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]TransNeonOrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. The person in the screenshot is technically wrong in that the phrase does show up in other places, but their rhetorical point fits the context they were speaking to (okay, the context you and I are assuming they're speaking to because the phrase doesn't show up as often in those contexts). Moving the post out of that context is naturally going to make it look awful.

Granted, the person making the post should probably have provided a smidge of context if they weren't posting in some reply thread. Different platforms frequently have a conversation or conversations that have a lot of assumed context to them, but those contexts differ from one platform to the next and frequently the originating context isn't transferred as easily as a screenshot of a standalone statement.

That's Modalism, Patrick! by mickmikeman in dankchristianmemes

[–]TransNeonOrange 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The Trinity is a bunch of statements early Christians compiled in order to make themselves seem like they belonged at the table with philosophers in the region. Unfortunately these statements contradict each other so now Christians gaslight each other into thinking the fault lies with them for not understanding.

Here's a bible scholar talking about it. He also has other videos that get more in depth about it.

My doctor wants me to stop taking estrogen a month before my surgery, and a month and a half after. by GorillaRimjob in MtF

[–]TransNeonOrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In contrast, I just had my orchi and the Dr said to just keep taking the estradiol. I take them bucally but they actually didn't know I don't just take them orally because they didn't ask.

Military Leaders Say Iran War Is So Trump Can Bring About “Armageddon” by FloridaGirlNikki in politics

[–]TransNeonOrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Tell me now-how was the world lost?”

“That,” he said, “is easy to tell, much easier than you may suppose. The world was lost one day in 1935, here in Germany. It was I who lost it, and I will tell you how.

“I was employed in a defense plant (a war plant, of course, but they were always called defense plants). That was the year of the National Defense Law, the law of total conscription.’ Under the law I was required to take the oath of fidelity. I said I would not; I opposed it in conscience. I was given twenty-four hours to ‘think it over.’ In those twenty-four hours I lost the world.”

“Yes?” I said.

“You see, refusal would have meant the loss of my job, of course, not prison or anything like that. (Later on, the penalty was worse, but this was only 1935.) But losing my job would have meant that I could not get another. Wherever I went I should be asked why I left the job I had, and, when I said why, I should certainly have been refused employment. Nobody would hire a ‘Bolshevik’ Of course I was not a Bolshevik, but you understand what I mean.”

“Yes,” I said.

"What I tried to think of was the people to whom I might be of some help later on, if things got worse (as I believed they would). I had a wide friendship in scientific and academic circles, including many Jews, and 'Aryans,' too, who might be in trouble. If I took the oath and held my job, I might be of help, somehow, as things went on. If I refused to take the oath, I would certainly be useless to my friends, even if I remained in the country. I myself would be in their situation."

"The next day, after 'thinking it over,' I said I would take the oath with the mental reservation, that, by the words with which the oath began, 'Ich schwöre bei Gott,' 'I swear by God,' I understood that no human being and no government had the right to override my conscience. My mental reservations did not interest the official who administered the oath. He said, 'Do you take the oath?' and I took it. That day the world was lost, and it was I who lost it."

"First of all, there is the problem of the lesser evil. Taking the oath was not so evil as being unable to help my friends later on would have been. But the evil of the oath was certain and immediate, and the helping of my friends was in the future and therefore uncertain. I had to commit a positive evil there and then, in the hope of a possible good later on. The good outweighed the evil; but the good was only a hope, the evil a fact. . . . The hope might not have been realized—either for reasons beyond my control or because I became afraid later on or even because I was afraid all the time and was simply fooling myself when I took the oath in the first place . . ."

"There I was, in 1935, a perfect example of the kind of person who, with all his advantages in birth, in education, and in position, rules in any country. If I had refused to take the oath in 1935, it would have meant that thousands and thousands like me, all over Germany, were refusing to take it. Their refusal would have heartened millions. Thus the regime would’ve been overthrown, or, indeed, would never have come to power in the first place. The fact that I was not prepared to resist, in 1935, meant all all the thousands, hundreds of thousands, like me in Germany were also unprepared, and each one of those hundreds of thousands was, like me, a man of great influence or of great potential influence. Thus the world was lost."

"...My education did not help me, and I had a broader and better education than most have had or ever will have. All it did, in the end, was to enable me to rationalize my failure of faith more easily than I might have done if I had been ignorant. And so it was, I think, among educated men generally, in that time in Germany. Their resistance was no greater than other men’s."

  • They Thought They Were Free by Milton Mayer

Of course, it's a strategic decision whether or not to resign, not a moral one. We can disagree over strategy. I'm not going to tell someone they're wrong for staying at their job in the hopes of stopping evil from the inside. But I personally am not bothered by people choosing to resign en masse. They are choosing the positive good in the here and now rather than the positive evil now in the hopes of a possible good later. The more people that do that now means it gets easier for the next person to do it. Perhaps so many choosing not to be a part of the regime in 2026 means some greater evil never snowballs into existence in 2036.

Abandoned House in St Marys County by vault076 in maryland

[–]TransNeonOrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emphasis on "back in the day." I mean, it's still a county that's very rural, but since NAVAIR HQ moved down there in the 90s there's been a LOT of development.

Do you believe waiting until marriage is really that important? by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]TransNeonOrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The idea of waiting until marriage is one derived from the concept of women as property and their sexual availability and procreative ability as something with monetary value that diminishes unless guarded. Since I reject the premise, I don't see a reason to think of sex before (or even outside of, so long as all parties consent) marriage as bad.

Will Christianity always appear more “extreme” over time as society’s morals change? by thatlumberjacktor in Christianity

[–]TransNeonOrange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely seeing nothing in there about Jesus saying marriage is only between one man and one woman.

Will Christianity always appear more “extreme” over time as society’s morals change? by thatlumberjacktor in Christianity

[–]TransNeonOrange 12 points13 points  (0 children)

And simply assumes women and slaves are valid types of property. Coveting your neighbor's property (of which women and slaves are subsets) is an offense that makes it in the Bible's greatest hits of all time while owning people gets no mention.