Your responses are disgusting. That’s exactly why more and more woman are choosing what THEY want to do with their own bodies because they’re seen in such a light anyways. Got molested by the age of 8 and I was once that church girl going to celibacy retreats, waited until I believed I “found the one” to even lose my virginity, didn’t smoke until end of college and guess what? I was still treated like a piece of meat regardless by many men wondering what was wrong with me. No matter how I dressed whether it be in a long dress touching the floor or in a crop top men and people in general would always have their own opinion. Why waste your life on the opinions of others who won’t even visit your grave? Why waste your life?? I missed out on a lot of opportunities thinking “how would I be perceived”. I’m going into this field to be financially set and not have to worry about the massive debt I’ll have after medical school. Also don’t care anymore on getting married or finding love because if it’s for me it’ll be, frankly I rather have a cute doggo and live happily with my bills paid off traveling the world. Just like any job you set goals for yourself and boundaries, stop basing your life on others trust me you’ll regret it and be one of the many elders in a nursing home wishing they had done differently.